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[–]daleok 891ポイント892ポイント  (121子コメント)

Get this video to the authorities.

[–]BRSJ 311ポイント312ポイント  (60子コメント)

I think that is what the dad's intent was he said the mom was going to jail.

[–]hokiefan240 289ポイント290ポイント  (27子コメント)

1600 in fines, a month in jail, two years probation....and I spent more time and money for a DUI......

that's what the guy posted on his facebook when he put this video out yesterday, apparently this is an incident from back in 2014

I asked the judge, and he agreed that even her own kids would have to wait for her sentence to be carried out and for her to continue with counseling until that point

it looks like her kids did get taken away though, for a while at least

Here's the source on his facebook page

[–]BRSJ 13ポイント14ポイント  (2子コメント)

Thanks for the feed back. What a sad story.

[–]hokiefan240 19ポイント20ポイント  (1子コメント)

no problem, I'm happy to see that she did get punishment, but I feel its nowhere near the amount she deserves.

[–]I_shit_in_your_shake 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

She needs to be sterilized, institutionalized with good psych doctors and on heavy psychotropics.

[–]Aksinblue 60ポイント61ポイント  (30子コメント)

That dad showed incredible restraint. If anyone hit my child or any of family with an object I would be getting a bat.

[–]hawleyal 10ポイント11ポイント  (1子コメント)

I don't know if I would call it restraint. I was abused as a kid. I would have gotten a bat. The cops can sort it out later.

[–]BRSJ 19ポイント20ポイント  (16子コメント)

That's exactly what I was thinking. That dad had a plan and part of it was to not react with violence. I could not have just stood there, though, when the little boy was being beaten.

[–]_Dazzled_ 71ポイント72ポイント  (26子コメント)

It was reported, this event happened in July of 2014. The women in the video only received 1600 in fines, a month in prison, and 2 years probation.

[–]DebianSqueez 63ポイント64ポイント  (5子コメント)

This why vigilante justice happens. I'm not exactly mad about it either. Fuck that lady. She is creating monsters.

[–]knatxxx 11ポイント12ポイント  (1子コメント)

Why am I not surprised? I bet she has a record of doing this and the local police are well aware of her even.

[–]dangerhasarrived 41ポイント42ポイント  (11子コメント)

Seriously? That's it? What the actual fuck is wrong with us? Yay! 'Murica! Worst fucking place to be "free" ever!

[–]redlentils 44ポイント45ポイント  (3子コメント)

This country loves to believe that women can't be abusers, especially to their own children, and they love to blame the children for being abused too. If there was any justice in this country regarding child abuse, my mother would have been put in prison years ago.

[–]JanitorZyphrian 15ポイント16ポイント  (1子コメント)

If the abuser was a man, the fine would have been bigger AND he'd be on more than just Reddit

[–]lutaris 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

I mean, she said she was going to kill them. She said "I'm gonna start with James because I hate him the most." not sure which was James, but she obviously thought about this and planned it. This is sick and it's a disgrace that women like her are not taken seriously. This is why we get those women who drown their kids in the bathtub and then get no prison time at all. I'm a woman myself, but I am sick of this because it feels like not only does it put children at risk when they could be with their father who actually cared(I've known kids who get put with their aunts or grandmother before the father) but it also continues to put women into a "childcare only" role in society and men in a "monetary providing only" role.

[–]nikolam 3ポイント4ポイント  (1子コメント)

Worst fucking place to be "free" ever!

Ugh. Who upvotes this ignorant shit?

[–]DBolUSAF 11ポイント12ポイント  (2子コメント)

im sure they have seen it

[–]Elevate_Your_Mind 29ポイント30ポイント  (1子コメント)

I really want a follow up story something along the lines of “Psychotic Woman Abusing Children Shanked First Day in Jail”

[–]MYTBUSTOR 13ポイント14ポイント  (0子コメント)

Whether its prison time or a few nice lead vitamins, I hope she gets what she deserves. I'm sure this is the tip of the iceberg and she's been doing this to her kids off camera regularly, it sounds like at one point in the video she said one of her kids was already taken away, so she should be on record somewhere. This is so sickening I couldn't even watch the whole video, the only thing I'd know to do is post this everywhere on social media sites and to the authorities/child protective services in hopes of someone recognizing them, but I really don't know what the best thing is to do. It's so horrible seeing this online and feeling helpless.

[–]betonthis1 38ポイント39ポイント  (17子コメント)

This is the only comment that matters. Both should not have children and it's evident it keeps happening over and over again. The kids will be the same type of person when they grow up if they don't leave

[–]I_amThatGuy 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

God this is heartbreaking, I couldn't finish it. Those poor kids.

[–]Chazmer87 267ポイント268ポイント  (42子コメント)

at first i thought

well, she's just shouting - he's stole her phone that's probably not so bad.

....and then she beats her kids to get the dad to give her the phone.

[–]Wildjayloo 199ポイント200ポイント  (36子コメント)

And then you find out it wasn't her phone to begin with. O_O

[–]reverendcat 184ポイント185ポイント  (35子コメント)

And then you find out she's not their mother(?). ಠ_ಠ

[–]Elevate_Your_Mind 218ポイント219ポイント  (33子コメント)

Then you realize this Dad has gone the whole video without killing and disemboweling this maggot cunt...

[–]thekittenisaninja 60ポイント61ポイント  (24子コメント)

There's a third child in the house, that the woman says is her son, and she says she won't let him leave. Assuming that he's the father, perhaps he's not only getting evidence to have her arrested, but also to get custody of the third?

At least, I want to hope that's what was going through his head. I don't know why he couldn't have at least comforted those kids a little bit. Their sobs were breaking my heart....

[–]uliarliarpantsonfire 67ポイント68ポイント  (20子コメント)

I lived through shit like that as a kid, over and over only minus the parent that wanted to help you. I seriously felt ill watching it and only the thought that maybe she would be runover by a bus or shot by a SWAT team was comforting. The hitting wasn't the worst part, any kid that's been beat will get to where they can make it through that. The worst was what she was saying to them, that won't go away and I am sure she's said it and worse many times before. What a monster!

[–]Misaiato 22ポイント23ポイント  (1子コメント)

any kid that's been beat will get to where they can make it through that

;_;

Dude or Chika, please let me hug you. I had parents who fought, and eventually divorced, and it hurt, but I never questioned their love for me and they never took out their anger towards each other on me intentionally. I guess I had it relatively good all things considered. Now I just want to hug the hurt away from others...

[–]uliarliarpantsonfire 18ポイント19ポイント  (0子コメント)

Thanks, that's sweet! I'm good though. I'm 41 (damn that's old everytime I write it) happily married to a sweet man. Between us we have 5 really great kids the youngest is about to be sophomore in college now. We live on a little farm and are all pretty sweet to each other. Blissfully normal, something that I didn't dream I could ever have when I left home at 14 my goal was just to stop getting beat. I made some HUGE mistakes along the way but the here and now is awesome.

That said I could easily have crawled through the screen and happily strangled that woman if it were physically possible. The terror in those kids voices and the horrible things she was saying to them, stuff that if you had a parent who ran off and left you then you'd probably already thought yourself. She knows that too, that's why she's saying it because she knows it will stick. She deserves more than a flimsy month in jail and she definitely should never have access to a child or even an adult who is in any way at risk again.

[–]Zanki 3ポイント4ポイント  (2子コメント)

I agree, being hit wasn't so bad. I worked that out when I was 3/4, stupid me decided if I didn't cry, mum would stop hitting me, instead she just hit me over, harder and harder and over until I did (I didn't, got a bruised ass though). I remember the worst of her attacks, but the cruel stuff she said and did to me haunt me. Getting hit wasn't such a big deal in the grand scheme of things, the other crap though, that left scars. I'd rather she was just a violent monster, at least that would have been easier to deal with.

[–]7778832 3ポイント4ポイント  (1子コメント)

Oh yeah, dude. My parents got cps called on them. My dad liked to hit.

[–]Gizortnik 2ポイント3ポイント  (7子コメント)

I came from a home like that, that's why I have no sympathy or mercy for it. I'm doing my best not to violate any reddit rules about what I would recommend.

Although in fairness this might be Rule 9.

[–]Mr_M0thballs 2ポイント3ポイント  (1子コメント)

Right here with you. Instantly became Ill with the shouting alone but I just felt bad for the kids. I got away from it all and am so much better off now, but it breaks my heart to see what these kids are going through and to know exactly how they feel. How they feel like all of this is their fault, that somehow they deserve it. This is why I hate when family gets brought up because of pieces of shit people like this who treat their children worse than animals. I hope these kids make it through that hell and manage to put it behind them.

[–]OrangeCassetteTapes 15ポイント16ポイント  (0子コメント)

I wouldn't let my worst enemy's kids get hit, or spoken to, like this let alone my own (hypothetical) children. I'm boiling right now.

[–]Rixxer 10ポイント11ポイント  (3子コメント)

How does one resist the urge to pull her off that bunkbed and plant one right in her face?

[–]Necrobeat 7ポイント8ポイント  (0子コメント)

My thoughts exactly. The kid begging for help... my hand could already feel the knife plunging into her neck.

[–]moonshoeslol 8ポイント9ポイント  (1子コメント)

I think the worst part was the emotional abuse towards the kid when she keeps telling him how no one loves him and she's going to kill him. That shit will fuck you up for life.

[–]Indigoh 7ポイント8ポイント  (0子コメント)

She starts the video with threats to murder the children. And I'm sure she would given enough time.

[–]Zoklett 3ポイント4ポイント  (1子コメント)

So that's what happened? I couldn't tell who had her phone or what it had to do with the kid at all.

[–]Rjones61 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

From the sounds of it, she was hitting the kid before he had the phone.

[–]WagonOfGreatness 141ポイント142ポイント  (25子コメント)

Depressing on so many different levels. I hope this doesn't fuck those kids up mentally and they eventually get a chance at a decent rest of their childhood.

[–]Zoklett 59ポイント60ポイント  (2子コメント)

I grew up in a pretty abusive house. I stunted me in a lot of ways, but I made a choice to get passed it and at 32 I'm pretty okay. I think I started to get control of my life around 23... Up until then, though, yea... no...

[–]cipher_alpha 37ポイント38ポイント  (13子コメント)

Damage is done. Therapy and love can probably undo most of it.

[–]Clockw0rk 16ポイント17ポイント  (6子コメント)

I wish.

[–]completely_blind 15ポイント16ポイント  (5子コメント)

wish HOPE

it can be undone. it will be more difficult than anything most people ever deal with but it can happen.

[–]rhubarbs 8ポイント9ポイント  (1子コメント)

Undone is a little strong, perhaps.

You can certainly move past it. You can even learn to be a better person through the perspective you gain from adversity. And many do just that.

But expecting these kinds of experiences just to evaporate, never having had an effect... Well, that seems unrealistic to me. A lifetime isn't long enough to forget some things. And maybe that's not so bad.

[–]Clockw0rk 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Personally speaking, I wish.

Hope, in my mind, is a feeling of positive outcomes and expected probability. While a wish is something you desire, but have a negative expected probability.

You hope you pass your test. You wish to win the lottery.

I have not healed. And it's been a long time. I wish it would heal. But I do not have hope.

[–]godzilla_rocks 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

Agreed. The things she said to that little boy are the worst fears a child can have. What a disgusting human being.

[–]EenAfleidingErbij 16ポイント17ポイント  (1子コメント)

When I watched this video, it reminded me of how life used to be as a kid. Those thoughts and memories don't leave your brain, you just try not to remember them.

[–]iwouldliketoreply 8ポイント9ポイント  (0子コメント)

I Hope this doesn't fuck those kids up mentally

Humans are pretty much input, output. If you put in abuse, that's what you're liable to get out. Therapists also simply say that abuse is a cycle, for this exact reason. If this one video is what you see then they probably take a lot more like this all the time.

They're already damaged.

[–]Einsteinium_Europium 447ポイント448ポイント  (60子コメント)

As someone who regularly surfs r/wtf I can honestly say this is one of the most disturbing things I have seen...

[–]Ivernes 84ポイント85ポイント  (33子コメント)

Yea I couldn't finish watching this video.

[–]Jake_Maple 82ポイント83ポイント  (27子コメント)

After she said that everyone hates him and nobody loves hime and his Mom hates him more than anyone, etc etc. I was done. I hope that this woman gets put in a fucking hole in the ground.

[–]otiswrath 24ポイント25ポイント  (4子コメント)

I couldn't watch the whole thing. I have never been so enraged by anything I have seen on the Internet like this before.

[–]Jake_Maple 11ポイント12ポイント  (3子コメント)

Me too. This one is really bad. I've been a bit desensitized to certain things that you'll find on the internet. This is not one of them.

[–]ReversePolish 4ポイント5ポイント  (2子コメント)

Natural instinct: you hear a child cry for help and the normal human/mammal response is to drop everything and rush to protect the child. You could be seconds away from negotiating world peace and you hear what was on this video ... fuck world peace, I gotta go kill someone.

[–]Ivernes 24ポイント25ポイント  (12子コメント)

I don't know what's wrong with her, she may have some mental issues. Whatever the case, I just hope those children can get as far away from her as possible.

[–]iamanis 10ポイント11ポイント  (3子コメント)

Why do we have to jump to mental issues whenever someone doesn't act properly? Can't we just accept that everyday people are capable of disgusting things?

[–]Ivernes 5ポイント6ポイント  (2子コメント)

I'm not saying everyday people are not capable of doing disgusting things. Why do we have to jump to calling people "bad" or disgusting when we know absolutely nothing about them? Why can't we accept that some people are just really messed up in the head and have some serious psychological issues? I'm not excusing this lady's behavior. Regardless of what's wrong with her (or what's not wrong with her), her behavior is indeed disgusting and she should be stopped and those children should not have to live with her. But if there is something wrong with her, maybe she needs some help too. And what if, by some chance, she has some condition that, by some chance, could be treated in some way, and in doing so she could turn her life around and be a better person for it? I don't know. There are psychological conditions that can truly change a person. Just as a leg can be broken or an arm can be broken, the mind can be broken. And just as a leg can be fixed, maybe a broken mind can undergo some form of treatment, and be fixed. Just a thought. I really have no idea what the situation is like or not like, and a 10 minute video is not really enough for any kind of conclusion. You might be right. She could just be a normal person just doing disgusting things. For all we know that's exactly what it is. Then again, she could be something else. Who knows. But we can't let ourselves be narrow minded. There are all kinds of problems in this world. Again I'm not giving this lady any excuses. When something like this happening it shouldn't be allowed to continue. But the reasons behind it may not be what they seem. And in finding out the reason why some people do what they do, maybe, just maybe, we can find a solution so they don't go messing up someone else's life. Maybe the solution here is to lock this woman up. And maybe it's something else.

[–]PenetratorHammer 25ポイント26ポイント  (6子コメント)

Whatever mental issues she has can be solved with some tire iron therapy.

[–]rabid_chinchilla 10ポイント11ポイント  (3子コメント)

Tire iron is too soft.

This woman needs to have her body chopped into pieces and slowly fed to her starting with her toes while someone reenacts the torture scene from Audition with her.

It also wouldn't hurt to burn her with a blow torch. Maybe some acid.

[–]bossmcsauce 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

we can't be savages and want to live in a civilized society at the same time. A bullet between the eyes is plenty good enough. No sense wasting time, effort and money on people like this, even if it's to punish them for their evil-doing.

[–]LargeCockLarry 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

Normally I'd say you're a weirdo and just be like wtf...but in this specific case I think you may be correct.

[–]DobiusMick 6ポイント7ポイント  (0子コメント)

For sure, no room in this world for people like her. Picking on defenseless children? I'd have no remorse seeing her end

[–]Deeliciousness 11ポイント12ポイント  (4子コメント)

I would literally kill her if she did this shit to my child. How can the father just watch?

[–]Jake_Maple 11ポイント12ポイント  (0子コメント)

I have a 19 month old son, no way I would watch anyone say and do these things to him. My video would've been about 45 seconds long.

[–]4realthistime 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

made about a minute in guys...

[–]CTBC 39ポイント40ポイント  (3子コメント)

I'm so terribly vexed

[–]Banditjack 2ポイント3ポイント  (1子コメント)

See people dying on /r/WTF ..I cringe and move on.

See weird people dressed up on the streets of San Fran...laugh and move on.

See kids getting beat by their mother...breaks my heart.

[–]Chazmer87 13ポイント14ポイント  (0子コメント)

yeah, pissed me off to no end too.

#teamwhitewalker

[–]mybikehaswheels 91ポイント92ポイント  (16子コメント)

That is next level scum. I hope this finds its way to the police and she is arrested and never allowed near those poor children again. It is one thing to have an argument with your partner but to physically harm children in an attempt to get your way crosses so many lines. These children don't deserve this and that woman needs to see her wrongs and pay for them. Cunt.

[–]screaminmeme 69ポイント70ポイント  (14子コメント)

1600 in fines, a month in jail, two years probation. That's all she got. Got the info from the guys fb.

Edit: http://imgur.com/8m2uQGZ screenshot of his comments

[–]Wslsoccer 19ポイント20ポイント  (2子コメント)

1 month, how about 1 lifetime.

[–]gologologolo 3ポイント4ポイント  (1子コメント)

You get a lot more dealing. Wtf is up with the system there

[–]duglock 11ポイント12ポイント  (0子コメント)

1600 in fines, a month in jail, two years probation.

/r/pussypass

[–]NotOBAMAThrowaway 62ポイント63ポイント  (3子コメント)

This was the most disturbing thing I have seen on the internet for a long, long time. And that says a lot

[–]timoweic 15ポイント16ポイント  (2子コメント)

watching people get executed, beheaded, thing popping out of peoples holes... yeah, this for sure takes the cake.

[–]rabid_chinchilla 9ポイント10ポイント  (1子コメント)

This is just so real. A knife decapitation is terrible but it's only happening to one person for a few minutes.

This is happening to children every day of their lives. They live every minute in fear and it will stick with them the rest of their lives.

I could live with decapitation, mutilation and torture, but this is something I would never wish on anyone.

[–]baddayforsanity 206ポイント207ポイント  (21子コメント)

I could barely watch this, it hit too close to home. I was raised in an environment that was frighteningly similar to that, so much that I had to pause the video when the aggressor was finally in focus to make sure that it wasn't a relative. I didn't realize until the video was over that my heart was racing and I was shaking, I can't believe that there are other monsters out there that would put kids through this nightmare.

The worst part is that these kids are going to grow up with a maligned view of the world because they didn't have a sane and stable family life. I feel so awful for them, and hope that this video gets them out of there.

[–]IShitMyself 58ポイント59ポイント  (0子コメント)

I could barely watch this and I was never abused. I don't even want to imagine how you feel.

[–]rhapsblu 14ポイント15ポイント  (0子コメント)

I grew up in a good house. But my best friend as a child lived in a house exactly like this. They never laid a hand on me but I remember cowering in the basement while he or his little sister got beat up. I never knew how to handle it. My best and worst childhood memories came from that basement. It's strange how conflicting those memories are.

[–]lankist 32ポイント33ポイント  (6子コメント)

I'm in the same boat. Honestly, I got dizzy just watching a few seconds of it. When she started shouting like the kid did something wrong to her and that the dad never takes her side, I realized I had this exact day multiple times with the only caveat being that my dad never took me away from it and, to this day, still pretends these things didn't happen. When I spoke to him about it once I was older, he told me that I shouldn't have made my mother angry.

People here are acting like there's something wrong with the dad because he didn't act like Conan the Barbarian. He did the right thing, in my opinion. I never got that way out. When I locked my bedroom door to keep my mother away from me, my dad kicked the door down so she could keep going.

[–]Ned84 8ポイント9ポイント  (3子コメント)

I got dizzy just watching a few seconds of it.

Happens to me to when I watch something extremely stressful too. Anyone know what the reason is?

[–]Cylintz 7ポイント8ポイント  (3子コメント)

I wonder how fucked up I am that this didn't even faze me. I've seen and been through much worse many times over. The worst part is the feeling of helplessness. It's like being a cornered animal with no claws or teeth and no end in sight. The day I finally moved out was the best day of my life and to this day I stay socially withdrawn because I don't ever want to be involved in people drama again.

[–]HeAVeN012 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

Same. Thought I had recovered well from the years of abuse until I saw this video. Eerily similar to what I experienced. Still feeling sick to my stomach, shaking, choking back tears. I think I'm going to look into seeing a therapist. Haven't felt like this in years.

[–]GOODFAM 3ポイント4ポイント  (1子コメント)

Me too, I couldn't finish the video because of how traumatizing it was to hear the children screaming like that. I could feel the pain in the kids screams because they're the same screams I once cried too.

[–]983453 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

I felt the exact same way. I've seen some fucked up shit on this site but this one by far affected me the most. I'm shaking like hell right now.

[–]fleshexe 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

When the child started screaming "daddy please give her the phone", I had to stop watching. It was too much like how I grew up. One parent tries to help but you end up begging them to drop it because walking on eggshells around mom is infinitely better than stepping on the landmine and making her explode. Then you get trapped in the situation forever because you're terrified of people helping you.

[–]jhayes88 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

Same here to be honest.. My bipolar/schizo mother wasn't too far off from this lady. As a kid, my mother would always yell at me almost the same way this lady did, has charged at me with knives, always threw large objects at me, would randomly walk in the room and call me names, accused all of my family of being child molesters to include my grandmother, quit taking me to school for a while(ending up in a sheriffs office meeting), put me on home school during my teenage years and wouldn't let me leave the house.. My only escape was going to visit my alcoholic father occasionally on the weekends. The day I turned 18 she moved out and none of my family would help me with food, so I'd go days without eating at a time.. I never did anything wrong in life or to family. I guess they didn't want to have anything to do with me because of my mother. Still managed to graduate high school on my own though, and I'm glad I did because otherwise I wouldn't have been able to join the Army when I was 19 and serve for 6yrs(got out last year). Now days my relationship with my mother and father doesn't exist. Don't talk to them at all.. It's unfortunate that there are so many people like the lady in that video raising children. It's pretty fucked up.

[–]Gorganus 52ポイント53ポイント  (0子コメント)

/r/rage is where this belongs.

[–]aesop_fables 78ポイント79ポイント  (18子コメント)

I believe the guy did nothing because he had to record proof if the abuse in order to get her in trouble. I think she got fines a month or so in jail and 2 years probation.

On another note, fuck evidence. I would've grabbed her by the neck and tossed her on her ass

[–]Gimlis_bottom_bitch 19ポイント20ポイント  (1子コメント)

By remaining calm he was able to prevent the situation escalating, it's terrible to watch him apparently standing by and doing 'nothing' but in the long run his calmness meant that she couldn't slap him with an assault charge for giving her the ass whooping she deserves (because we all know who's side the police would take upon arrival). There's no doubt in my mind he would have reassured those children as soon as he was in the car and away from the situation, if he tried to do it in front of her it could've caused her to become more volatile.

The only things that bother me is how many times has this happened before?

[–]jonjon02 35ポイント36ポイント  (11子コメント)

Hey could have told the kid it wasn't his fault and that he loved him. Fuck all the adults involved here.

[–]Roth1 21ポイント22ポイント  (4子コメント)

You don't know what happened off camera. Starting an argument when she's already being physically abusive probably isn't the best idea.

[–]DavidTyreesHelmet 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

If he attacks her or says anything it'd only fuel her rage and attacks. Notice the entire time she's acting like a victim. Going at that in any way just fuels her own justifications to continue attacking and playing victim further

[–]ShittyAssAccount 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

Exactly, he didn't do nothing as the liveleak video says, he recorded it, stayed calm, and left with the kids. Had he tried to intervene in a more hands on way he'd have put himself at risk because that's usually how it goes when a man even grabs a woman.

He held all the cards by the end and she got punished for it, nowhere near enough but that's a separate issue on the justice system.

[–]Pheorach 7ポイント8ポイント  (1子コメント)

I would have enjoyed making her make the noises that that child made.

I would have relished in it.

[–]iamtorsoul 17ポイント18ポイント  (0子コメント)

Sadly, this is far more common than people want to believe. I grew up in a rural area of Missouri, and I saw many parents like this unfortunately.

[–]IShitMyself 30ポイント31ポイント  (4子コメント)

Give her to ramsay Bolton

[–]TJ-sylar 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

Everyone talks when I start peeling them

[–]Undercover_Newb 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

You reminded me game of thrones is tonight. Nice.

[–]_Dazzled_ 28ポイント29ポイント  (7子コメント)

For those of you who are wondering, I know this person from facebook. This happened in July of 2014, the women in this video only received 1600 in fines, one month in jail, and 2 years probation.

[–]Schwinehund 16ポイント17ポイント  (2子コメント)

Okay well no one is saying if these kids are no longer around her. Are those kids safe?

[–]983453 14ポイント15ポイント  (1子コメント)

Seriously. I want to know that that little boy's okay :(

[–]workclock 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

I hope the kids and dad had left a looooooong time ago.

[–]IAmScatterBrained 13ポイント14ポイント  (0子コメント)

If smartphones were around when I was a child, things would have been different in my house growing up. Thankfully I was never physically abused, but the screaming, ranting, and utter lack of self censoring in front of those children was eerily similar to my childhood.

If smartphones were a thing, I'm fairly certain that a video would have ended the craziness. Instead, my father shielded us when the crazy incidents took place, and it was just our family secret.

Looking back, I don't blame him. It was the 80's. I knew plenty of kids who had divorced parents, but I didn't know any who lived with their fathers. If I had to guess, my dad stuck around because trying to get us away from the situation may have meant two things.

1) he'd lose custody of us.

2) we'd be more at risk.

Before anyone knocks this dad, think about what could have happened had he physically responded. He could have ended up in jail as well. Then what happens to the kids?

Granted, if it were me, I would have pulled the kids out earlier, but maybe he knew he needed to show what she was truly capable of doing. Instead of thinking he's a coward or a bad father, look at him for what he is in this situation. He's a victim.

Think about it if the roles were reversed? What if it was the husband attacking the kids? Would the mother have been a bad mother for not attacking the man? My guess is people would praise her for remaining calm in a potentially nuclear situation. Sadly, sometimes getting involved can escalate things to a whole new level.

This video is horrible. I watched it all and it made my heart race. I really hope that father gets those kids into a place where they can live a happy life instead of a life on edge, and a life in fear. I feel for those kids. I wish I could do something to put a smile on their faces. I wish I could make them laugh.

On a final note, and don't kill me for this one, but I hope that woman gets help, because at the end of the day she's human.....and she's got some major fucking mental issues. If she's resistant, she needs to be locked up or locked away because sadly, the next time she might lose it in front of someone who doesn't have the same kind of self control that this father showed in this video.

Does anyone know anything about these kids and how they are doing?

[–]PhiGam1990 1539ポイント1540ポイント  (143子コメント)

The sad thing is he has to have some physical evidence because Americans are so sexist towards men if he even tried to stop her without filming he would be the one going to jail, it's sad but those kids have to suffer for the law to step in and do what is necessary. Congratulations radical feminists you win.

[–]_Kannon 226ポイント227ポイント  (7子コメント)

Exactly, it's too risky even to touch her and restrain her from beating the kids even with video evidence, it's better to let this ride out and use it as evidence in court to get sole custody of the kids and bar her from seeing them ever again. It's a long shot but hopefully he tries.

[–]thekittenisaninja 61ポイント62ポイント  (2子コメント)

She says she's not their biological parent, and even if she is their stepmother, by law she has no rights to them whatsoever. There is a third kid that she does say is hers though.

[–]2koo4skoo 26ポイント27ポイント  (0子コメント)

She's like the evil stepmother who reigns as Queen over the household. Telling the kids to off themselves by getting hit with a car rather than giving them poison apples.

[–]knatxxx 23ポイント24ポイント  (0子コメント)

law she has no rights to them whatsoever

Not true. If she gained legal custody or guardianship she does.

[–]-Bingo- 43ポイント44ポイント  (0子コメント)

Exactly. But what's sad is that I could see him using this film as evidence but then being charged for child abuse for failing to stop the abuse as it occurred. But had he stepped in...

The privilege of having a penis in America today.

[–]n1nj4_v5_p1r4t3 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

meh feed her to the dogs no one will notice or care shes missing.

[–]PlatypusThatMeows 13ポイント14ポイント  (0子コメント)

I often don't talk about my parents divorce. And pretext, I don't hold this over my mother, because there was a lot more going on.

But basically my mother claimed my father hit her. Everyone believed her, and it was a shitstorm. He was in tears because he would never hit a women.

It's all fixed now, my mom is on medication for issues, but still. You are 100% right. Women claim anything and the man is crucified.

[–]yakityyakblah 71ポイント72ポイント  (10子コメント)

Radfems assume women aren't abusive, MRAs assume men aren't. I'm stuck here just wishing someone would care about fixing problems instead of boosting their "team" or saying they're egalitarian and then not actually fucking doing anything.

[–]TheOneWithNoName 43ポイント44ポイント  (4子コメント)

The whole radfem vs men's rights thing is so fucking stupid and holds everyone back. People are so determined to prove their side is right they don't look at it objectively and see that everyone has problems related to their gender. Some more than others but no one's completely free of it. But people will continue to blame the other side for everything and nothing will ever get solved because each assume the other is evil and crazy

[–]Justmetalking 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Think it's just "stupid"? Scroll down and take a look at the "punishment" she received and tell me again how stupid this fight is.

[–]Aetrion 30ポイント31ポイント  (11子コメント)

That's exactly what I was thinking. If he had raised his hand against her he'd be in jail and the mother would keep abusing those children.

[–]InsaneGenis 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

I know reddit loves to hate on cops, but most don't realize cops are witnesses to the complete ridiculousness of domestic violence towards men perpetuated by women. They will never admit this as it doesn't fit their agenda. Cops know this to well and don't immediately arrest a man just because, but continue on. This is the type of shit that has 7 individuals watching two women fight in a Walmart and do nothing.

[–]Jimmni 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'd say the sad thing is that these are far, far, far from the worst parents ever.

[–]BuryMeInRollerblades 49ポイント50ポイント  (10子コメント)

Why would anyone date someone like that? She's physically gross and lumpy and looks and acts like a troll. What is the up side to being with her?

[–]ghostdate 21ポイント22ポイント  (6子コメント)

The dad's probably lumpy and looks like a troll himself. They appear to be from a low socio-economic class, so that's probably just the sort of woman he accepts.

[–]BuryMeInRollerblades 48ポイント49ポイント  (5子コメント)

Wouldn't the better alternative just be to jerk off? I'm being serious. How can sex be in any way enjoyable with that beast? I just don't understand people.

[–]solidSC 31ポイント32ポイント  (0子コメント)

When you're a hammer everything looks like a nail.

[–]Ukani 15ポイント16ポイント  (1子コメント)

I've said the same thing to myself for many years. I've been low income since I was 12 (before that my parents were pretty well off but shit happens). I don't live in the ghetto, but I also don't live in your typical "Modern Family" type of middle class neighborhood. The type of women who would be interested in my now Aren't the type of women I want to build a life with.

I'm currently 23 and a little over half way through college. My plan is to finish schooling by around 25-26. Get a well paid job, and then think about looking towards a family. I am in no rush to create an unhappy life for my self.

To many people seem to just accept where they are at in life and find someone that fits their current position instead of trying to change themselves and finding someone who fits the life they want to have.

[–]sexychickenlips 7ポイント8ポイント  (1子コメント)

Please someone tell me the police have gotten involved in this!! If not, can someone please geo-tag the location and let's contact the proper authorities? This must stop now! NOT OK! I am shaking over here. Let's fix this now!!!!

[–]droog74 7ポイント8ポイント  (0子コメント)

now look at the camera and say "I'm white trash and im in trouble" but seriously a system that allows that kind of environment for a child to grow up and develop in is society's problem not the families. No child deserves treatment like that.

[–]Alexis_ 79ポイント80ポイント  (30子コメント)

no, not just bad parents. Criminals.

Threatening to murder someone, assault people and little children, that bitch should be in jail.

Edit: Also, why isn't daddy beating the FUCK out of that bitch cunt?

Edit2: To be fair, he plays it amazingly cool. I'm angry at that guy for bringing his children into the presence of that horrible cunt, but I admire him for gathering all the evidence he needs to take those kids away and have that bitch locked up.

[–]Zheng_Hucel-Ge 28ポイント29ポイント  (2子コメント)

Also, why isn't daddy beating the FUCK out of that bitch cunt?

He'd have gone to jail and lost his kids.

She'd have been another "victim" of abuse.

[–]Psyanide13 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

You call them criminals for assaulting people and then ask why the guy didn't assault the woman.....

are you fucking retarded? How did those ideas form in your brain and not make the connection that maybe the guy didn't want to be a criminal for assaulting their mother?

Stupid.

[–]LucidSage 16ポイント17ポイント  (1子コメント)

Reminds me of my mom, unfortunately, although my dad left her when I was 2 because she was beating him too. My granparents are always amazed that my brother and I came out sane after all that. I didn't tell my granparents or my dad until I was 22 what she did to us because she always made it seem like it was our fault. I've come a long way from the scared, shy person I used to be.

[–]Num1bamf 5ポイント6ポイント  (2子コメント)

How does one go about reporting this to authorities?

[–]geckomess 6ポイント7ポイント  (0子コメント)

Can anyone doubt the necessity of a Child Protective Services system? It's too often clumsy and abusive itself, but when things get very ugly it's a better alternative. Do you all hear how the abusive woman experiences herself as the victim? She'd pass a lie detector test affirming that she is the victim, not the perpetrator. These things are patterns, not one-time incidents, and this is doubtless the culmination of a long history. An effective attached father would never have exposed his children to this behavior, much less tolerated it for however long it's been. People, even these people, are doing the best they know how, and they need help reevaluating their choices, their actions, and their futures.

[–]-Bingo- 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

Watched 1:22 of this video and had to stop as I was ready to flip. That kid was terrified as that piece of trash mother climbed the ladder to the top bunk.

[–]thudly 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

As a victim of child abuse myself, this brought back a lot of vivid memories. It also changed my views on capital punishment. The world is just better off without some people in it.

I only pray that this James kid got help so he doesn't turn into her one day.

[–]Powerfury 10ポイント11ポイント  (3子コメント)

I really hope the father is building a case for when he divorces the horrible woman.

But even with this video evidence, I wouldn't be surprised if he lost the home, his kids, and has to pay child support because the courts almost always decide to go with the mother in such issues.

[–]Battlesnatch 7ポイント8ポイント  (2子コメント)

She isn't their mother, fortunately.

[–]Powerfury 4ポイント5ポイント  (1子コメント)

Then WTF is she doing in that home??

[–]Battlesnatch 6ポイント7ポイント  (0子コメント)

I assume she's the stepmother or the father's girlfriend.

[–]HullGuy 9ポイント10ポイント  (1子コメント)

I can't watch the whole of this video. I'm a father of 3. I'm a 40 year old guy and that video has me in tears. How the fuck can you treat a kid like that. If anyone, ANYONE raised a hand to my kids I'd kill them. Fucking hitting a kid to get a phone back? That cunt deserves to die. I'd happily volunteer. Fuck that bitch.

[–]Ryac 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

Strangely related to this video from my own childhood and a pretty similar situation. Thought the dad did well, kept his cool and just did his best to get out of there with his kids. It is tempting to suggest that he should have restrained her or beat the shit out of her, I imagine that is all he wanted to do in this situation. Really though that wouldn't have achieved much, it would have probably escalated everything and landed him in jail which would have meant he could not have looked after his kids.

[–]Oderus_Scumdog 3ポイント4ポイント  (8子コメント)

ELI5: Why do people seem so pissed at the dad?

[–]doincrimes 4ポイント5ポイント  (2子コメント)

I'd be in prison (for murder) if that baboon attempted to harm a child in front of me.

[–]sodangfancyfree 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

you could resolve the situation without making it infinitely times worse not to mention throwing your life away, but to each their own. murder away.

[–]doincrimes 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

I concede the point. The sad truth is that video or not, it is highly likely that she will face zero consequences for the things she has done to those children.

[–]jkess04 5ポイント6ポイント  (1子コメント)

why did the title say father did nothing. He clearly got those kids out of the situation without escalating it further.

[–]RPL79 8ポイント9ポイント  (4子コメント)

I can't keep watching.... please tell me there is a follow up to this. I would love to find her and choke the shit out of her.

[–]lnickelly 9ポイント10ポイント  (0子コメント)

at least the dad was taking a step in the right direction by leaving that place.

[–]theghostog 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

I seriously need closure on this. I am so anxious now. :(

[–]Euphoric_Pulse 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

I've never wanted to hit a woman as bad as I want to knock her lights out. That whole video was infuriating to watch but I had to see it through to the end.

[–]ImperviousSeahorse 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

That kid is going to have some serious issues when he's older.

[–]Dlaw25 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

Fuck that. I don't have any children, but if I did and ANYONE did that to my boy, I'd put their head through the wall.

[–]smoothtrip 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

He had way more restraint than I do. He should have protected his kids as soon as she was being abusive to his kids and called the cops. Not film here while she beats on his kids. He is a twat too.

[–]EbenHSHD 5ポイント6ポイント  (1子コメント)

I grew up in a house hold similar to this one. Only difference being my parents were divorced so my dad was never a witness to what my mom would do. She rarely did it if someone was at the house but they never stopped her. I can't speak for what's going on in the video but a big part of my mother's problem was drugs. She was constantly on meth and other hard drugs that would make her incredibly unpredictable, irritable, and paranoid. I'm 21 now and I am still struggling with what happened to me as a child. I've been diagnosed with PTSD and have a hard time developing relationships.

My heart goes out to the kids in the video and to anyone else who is/has dealing/dealt with this. To anyone who sees someone needlessly beating a child, please step up.

[–]iehava 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

And this is why we need shelters for male victims of domestic violence and their kids.

[–]pouscat 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

What's bad is, I know exactly what that house will smell like. I know it's that foul, dank, cigarette smoke and unwashed bodies smell. Old cooking oil and dog. Garbage in bags on the floor. I've been in this house many, many times. Different places, different people. Same house...

[–]SplitPersonalityTim 8ポイント9ポイント  (0子コメント)

Oh my god. . . that broke my heart. . .

"Daddy please stop her!" "Daddy please!"

As he watches her beat his children. . .

few things make me cry . . . but this. . . god damn. . . I don't want to go outside. . .

EDIT: This video will NOT DIE. I downloaded it and will post it however I can until this bitch sees justice.

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    [–]TheAmericanDiablo 7ポイント8ポイント  (1子コメント)

    Hmmm, I'm thinking this wouldn't be a good idea.

    [–]mischack 16ポイント17ポイント  (3子コメント)

    The minute a man lays a hand on a woman, and she calls the police, no matter how much evidence he has, he'll be in a holding cell

    It's sad the father just had to wait before he could help his children, but he couldn't have pushed her away, as any mark left on her would be used against him

    [–]julezsource[🍰] 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

    arrest that bitch, wtf is this

    [–]KCbizzy 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Jesus this was honestly hard to watch. As a kid I was physically abused (not to this degree of craziness but just as physical). It's just incredible how awful that human being is. I couldn't watch past two minutes, what ended up happening?

    [–]howdoureddit123 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

    "If anybody here needs to die it's him" ... Yeah ok

    [–]derptwo 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

    I see a lot of bitching and moaning in this thread! However what I don't see is how to help these kids? That should be the focus. Bring awareness to this monster. Have the authority's been contacted? OP do you know these people? What are we doing to help these kids, bitching doesn't help them.

    [–]mrw1986 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Nothing, nothing ever makes me sick. I've seen damn near everything in the internet, but this really bothered me. That lady needs to be put down. Hearing the children screaming absolutely broke my heart.

    [–]excusemeprincess 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

    This actually made me feel sick. I would destroy that woman.

    [–]Hereibe 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

    The dad couldn't have said "Not true" fucking once? She's telling those kids that they deserve to die and their mom hates them and that it's all their fault and he couldn't have even given them a hug?

    You can argue his restraint on not hitting her was admirable and doing what he needed to do, but fuck it, will you just hug your goddamn kids.

    [–]ph3l0n 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Trigger - Someone hitting a child. You want to lose your fucking teeth.... hit your kid in front of me.

    [–]block1 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

    And just a quick reminder people, she only got a month in prison for this along with probation and a fine.

    If this was a father doing the abusing and not a mother he'd be locked up in prison for a long, long time.

    [–]nexus9 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Wow, I couldn't finish that

    [–]anarrogantworm 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

    And now we sit back and wait for the news report to come in.

    I bet the case would fall a lot harder on this woman if media attention were to come to it..

    [–]Hope_for_Better_Days 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

    If there is a God please do us all a favor and make this woman die a slow and horrible death from the worst disease known to man.

    [–]FlappyPMR 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

    I wish I could be a ghost for some time and get a time machine some how, go back in to the past, possess that recording guy and punch her soul out so hard that she gets knocked out till she dies of hunger

    [–]JimLahey330 2ポイント3ポイント  (2子コメント)

    Any update on this? Hopefully that bitch is in prison by now

    [–]_Dazzled_ 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

    1600 in fines, one month in jail, and 2 years probation.

    [–]Abuv 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

    This woman needs to be caged. Never to see light, and only given enough nourishment to exist.

    [–]Lurrpa 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

    I'm so angry right now, my blood boils.... I got an urge to murder those two cunts..

    [–]Tremulant887 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

    I'd like to think the moment the video cut out she ate the concrete, the kids cheered, dad took them for lunch and they never came back. Happy ending.

    [–]unclefunkjr 0ポイント1ポイント  (5子コメント)

    There is no reason for a man to hit a woman. Discuss.

    [–]GFFrenchToast 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

    How did these people find these videos from my childhood?

    Same shit happened to me, and then when I was old enough to defend myself suddenly I'm the problem. Because when she hit me, I could grab her arm, wrap it around her back, and push her wrist up her back until her shoulder got ready to dislocate. Then she would scream about how she is going to call the cops for me hitting her. Bitch, I didn't hit you, you hit me my whole life and now I'm larger and stronger than you are so you can't get away with it anymore.

    [–]ihateyouse 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

    how to raise a serial killer 101

    [–]piscesgirl0302 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

    sickening. Most disturbing I have ever seen on reddit so far.

    [–]Ryanlikesbutts 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

    Parent*

    The guy is actually doing the right thing. And has amazing patience with this woman. I would have laid her the fuck out well before this video ended. Not that I'm abdicating violence or that it would make this situation any better but Christ, one person can only take so much and what she is doing to those kids is manipulative, abusive and horrible.

    I hope she was charged with child abuse and domestic violence and got her ass thrown in prison where she belongs.

    [–]subflax 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

    personally think this should be marked nsfw. A little hard to watch, and ive seen some shit.