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[–]ChristianKS94 -10ポイント-9ポイント  (41子コメント)

Look, I agree that HAES is ridiculous and that overeating is the problem, not genetics. Morbid obesity is dangerous and should be prevented, many people need to learn not to overeat or overfeed their kids/partners.

However: http://i.imgur.com/w9NF2hi.png

As you see, /r/fatpeoplehate wasn't and isn't about knocking sense into HAES and "I'm only fat because I have bad genetics!"-morons. It's about hate. Nothing but hate. It's about insulting people and laughing about it.

FPH wasn't a "common sense heaven", it's just about talking shit and enjoying the reactions of people with poor self-esteem.

[–]Zephyr_67 9ポイント10ポイント  (2子コメント)

And yet it still motivated overweight people to do something about their problem and helped get them on their feet for a better and healthier body. Many have posted that fatpeoplehate helped them lose weight.

[–]ChristianKS94 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

Those people are doing it after a serious amount of emotional abuse.

"...helped get them on their feet for a better and healthier body."

Yeah, but not a healthier mind.

[–]Zephyr_67 -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

I think that's for them to decide and not us. If a kick in the ass is the only thing to help them turn their life around then I say job well done. They also chose to view the sub and let it motivate them. I think the only thing unhealthy about the situation is the fat status they chose to walk away from

[–]-Just_Talk- 11ポイント12ポイント  (11子コメント)

It was, at its core, a place to hate fat people.

[–]Fat_girls_drool 6ポイント7ポイント  (5子コメント)

1) people are fed up with fats being annoying 2) people make subreddit where they can say this without having to deal with the typical fat backlash 3) fat people ban subreddit, are then appalled when people become upset

As someone who is, and has been extremely thin my whole life, i absolutely loved that sub. My whole life my body has been fair game to comment and talk about. I dont like it, but as a sane person i realize that i can do nothing to change others. I can only change myself. I dont go over to tumblr and demand they bring down ThisIsThinPriveledge. I believe in a little thing called "personal responsibility," so i just work on having better self esteem.

If you are so offended by a subreddit you dont have to look at, or a post made by someone you will literally never even meet, MAYBE you need to look at your damn self. The problem is not that r/fatpeoplehate existed; EVERY single group of people is hated by someone. The problem is that instead of changing the only thing these people ACTUALLY have any control over (themselves) they try to change others. How about being a fucking adult and asking yourself why youre so upset?

Edit: inb4 someome accuses me of fatshaming. Notice i did not mention losing weight.

[–]ImAgressivelyPassive 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

The problem isn't the hatred. I don't care if a bunch of people hate others for no reason. And reddit doesn't either. The problem that no one seems to understand is that it boiled over to real life harassment and doxxing. Whether or not that was the subs intention I can't say. It probably wasn't but it got too big and out of control.

[–]ChristianKS94 -2ポイント-1ポイント  (3子コメント)

All kinds of people are annoying.

Fat guys like me are tired as fuck of being compared to gentlesir neckbeard "nice guy"-asshole white knights and 400pound HAES-supporting feminists screaming "muh genetics!" while downing a bottle of coke and a piece of cake at the same time.

That's not me. That's not all of us.

FPH is annoying.

[–]Fat_girls_drool 1ポイント2ポイント  (2子コメント)

Well guess what? ThisIsThinPriveledge is dedicated to hating me. I dont think its annoying. I dont want it taken down. I respect their right to have their opinions even if i dont agree with them. I WANT them to be able to say what they actually think. If you are so upset about things that literally have nothing to do with you, YOU need to ask yourself why.

Edit: clarification People tell me all the time im "way too skinny." I dont get mad because i believe that i am not too skinny. If you are offended by fatpeoplehate, it is because at your core, YOU think you are fat. If you didn't, you wouldnt be offended. Plain and simple.

[–]ChristianKS94 -1ポイント0ポイント  (1子コメント)

Well, there's a difference between voicing your opinion and throwing out abuse, isn't there? They're not exactly formulating themselves in a civilized manner.

"If you are offended by fatpeoplehate, it is because at your core, YOU think you are fat."

Well, I am.

[–]Fat_girls_drool 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Well how about instead of trying to change everyone else (which will onviously never work), you work on having better self esteem. People are always going to not like you for whatever bullshit reason. The only thing YOU can do is change yourself. Take some fucking responsibility for yourself and stop blaming hurt feelings on others.

[–]ShitlordManAndBMIBoy 5ポイント6ポイント  (3子コメント)

The sub literally had Hate in the title. Not help.

You act like fph was Fatlogic. We were bashing the people. If an obeast came in and got themselves in shape, guess what? They became cured ham, and they were welcome to post.

Some people have deluded themselves as to why they were on the page, but at its heart fat people hate was about hating fat people.

[–]ChristianKS94 -1ポイント0ポイント  (2子コメント)

And that's why many of us will always support complete suppression of your community until you move away to a corner of the internet which accepts your shitty behavior.

[–]Fat_girls_drool 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Somewhere where they cant point out your glaring mistakes.

[–]ShitlordManAndBMIBoy 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

So you also think that any other place where they just hate and harass should be gone, right?

What about /r/againstmensrights? Remember the time they actually got a men's rights convention cancelled by pulling a fire alarm?

What about /r/SRS? just putting a NP link for a comment doesn't mean that it takes two seconds to get rid of it.

The FPH mods knew that people wanted it gone, and there was a hell of a lot of work done in keeping anything from linking. If the idiots on the sub decided to break the rules and brigade other posts, ban them, not the sub. This is a choosing what's "hateful" instead of actually creating safe spaces.

I'd respect the admins a lot more if they would get rid of all the vitriolic subs, instead of 4 tiny subs and the main one that people complain about. But they didn't. They banned the popular one and are getting backlash.

It will definitely die down, be it in a day, a week, or more, but they've got precedent for how they can take down other subs now, regardless of if you think this as being a /r/conspiracy worthy post or not.

[–]lavaisreallyhot 3ポイント4ポイント  (13子コメント)

Are you insinuating that other not-banned subreddits like /r/coontown or /r/shitredditsays ARE "common sense heaven" subreddits?

[–]ChristianKS94 -1ポイント0ポイント  (8子コメント)

Nope. I think that when they were already banning FPH they should have banned subs like those too.

I just think they banned FPH because it did more harm to the reddit community as it was regularly hitting front page and attracting more and more hateful people.

[–]lavaisreallyhot 3ポイント4ポイント  (7子コメント)

So you don't care that all of these people lost their center of congregation (and they can, I mean the reddit admins can do what they want, obviously), you just care that their views don't match your views?

Edit: What I mean to say is, if I started a subreddit called cancerhate, would you want that banned too because it'd be hateful?

[–]bluebird-in-my-heart 1ポイント2ポイント  (2子コメント)

He's saying that reddit needs to rule with an iron fist; they can't just ban half of the harassment subreddits. However, the main point is that we think reddit shouldn't ban anything at all (other than illegal things such as child porn...).

Am I racist? Absolutely not. But do I think coontown should still exist? Yes.

Edit: I would not want cancerhate banned.

[–]lavaisreallyhot 2ポイント3ポイント  (1子コメント)

No, I absolutely agree with you. He only likes the fact that fph was banned because he personally isn't a fan. He's saying that posts hit the front page. If a post hits the front page then that means people agree with it, that it was a popular opinion that didn't agree with him.

[–]bluebird-in-my-heart 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Ah, I see. Thanks for clarifying. Totally misunderstood that.

[–]ChristianKS94 0ポイント1ポイント  (3子コメント)

Feel free to make /r/cancerhate or /r/fathate, I don't care. So long as you don't post about how much you hate people with cancer.

It's fine to think HAES and using the genetics-excuse while overeating is ridiculous, I agree. Just don't hate every single one of us just for growing up with parents who overfed us.

[–]lavaisreallyhot 2ポイント3ポイント  (1子コメント)

Are you an adult now? Are you self-sufficient? If you are, then just stop eating so much, it's only as difficult as you make it. Download MyFitnessPal and track what you eat.

I don't blame Hitler's parents for raising Hitler, I blame Hitler for being Hitler.

[–]ChristianKS94 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I already am taking more care of my health and I'm not making it out to be difficult.

You're making a lot of assumptions about me and all fat people, do you realize that?

[–]subredditChecker 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

There doesn't seem to be anything here


As of: 14:09 06-11-2015 UTC. I'm checking to see if the above subreddit exists so you don't have to! Downvote me and I'll disappear!

[–]its_not_about_that -2ポイント-1ポイント  (3子コメント)

No. He is insinuating that FPH was a toxic sub. Do /r/coontown track down black people and harass them? Stop trying to gloss over the fact FPH was a toxic sub with your subreddit comparisons

[–]lavaisreallyhot 2ポイント3ポイント  (2子コメント)

Yes because srs absolutely does not point out specific parts of reddit and definitely does not brigade them. The screenshot this guy posted, is it a screenshot of a mod tracking him down and harassing him? No. It's a screenshot of him disagreeing with how the subreddit is run.

Edit: how about you post proof of /r/fatpeoplehate specifically seeking people out with non-public info and harassing them?

[–]its_not_about_that -4ポイント-3ポイント  (1子コメント)

SRS does yes. You're still trying to justify this by using other subs? I don't mind the screen he posted, there's nothing wrong with it (apart from someone suggesting a Holocaust).

how about you post proof of /r/fatpeoplehate specifically seeking people out with non-public info and harassing them?

Why non-public info..? Is this what signifies harassment?

Edit: I personally dont have a problem with people expressing their views, but harassment is another thing entirely

[–]lavaisreallyhot 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

You bring up a good point, how about you define harassment and post proof of fph as a whole harassing someone?

[–]cputnik -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

i think that for most people, FPH was a reaction to the agressive tactics being employed by some fatter people on social media

statements like, 'if you don't like this you're not man enough for me'

the stance, 'if you dont find me attractive there is something wrong with you'

followed by downright bad science trying to suggest that obesity is actually healthy

you cant declare war like this and expect there not to be a reaction

FPH was the most extreme form of this (fatlogic being a more moderate version)