I've noticed post after post here lately where the dude thought he was applying RP methodology and was still woefully in BP land. The guy got to a certain point, the wife/LTR got really pissed and started trying to nuke things.

I think its natural that even the most RP guy is going to fail the occasional shit test. You aren't a BP fag when this happens. Even pro goalies let one slip into the net every once in a while. But failing a shit test is only the first test. Recovery is the second and sometimes the most important.

So, an anecdote:

This evening I took the wife and kids on date night. Not every date night includes them but I make sure every other date night that everyone has fun. Wife still dresses up nice and gets made up. And today she's put her contacts in for the first time in forever. It was a big deal to her and I made sure to compliment.

Date night goes fine. We come home, get the kids to bed. Important detail. Fridays two things happen, date night and anything goes sex at the appointed time. I know, probably not sexy to most but its a BDSM thing that we've been doing for over a year now. Appointed sex is a good thing but its also a great opportunity for her to shit test. Normally I just stay away and do stuff I want to until the time comes. She finds me and tells me she's taking her contacts out. Not a huge shit test but a subtle little hint that the contacts weren't to look good for me.

Well I get butthurt and pop off some comment and she pouts for 10 minutes. Finally I tell her to take them out, who cares. She does, then another test - what time do you want me in the bedroom? She knows this, easy answer but the tests are to act like its not that important. So I blew that one off pretty easy. I tell her to gather up the maid lingerie.

So at this point we are both pouting and sex is not going to be fun at all. I had to hit the reset button. She leaves to the other room to get ready but before she can I grab her, long forceful kiss with my hand on the back of her head. Then I slap her on the ass and tell her bye Mrs.____, next time I see you you'll be slutty maid #1. She says, "#1?. How many are there?" I say, "hey at least you are #1."

So essentially I had to hit the reset. Sex was great and would not have been but for some effort.

I'm going to get blasted for being too BP here but don't expect your girl to run you down and apologize and admit she was wrong. Don't expect her to reset the wrongs. She won't. The hamster is strong my friends. There is a time to stand and fight and die if necessary (metaphorically speaking). But there is also a time to cut your losses. End the 8 day silent treatment. Tell her to get her ass home from her parents, you love her and you aren't playing this game anymore. Tell her that she's valuable to you. Remember you aren't playing the same redpill game the single guys are. You have much more to lose.