how the fuck is SJW "meme phrasology"

I am going to have to assume you do not actually know what the word meme means then. Meme, which was coined by Dawkins, is an idea of cultural transmissions of ideas through catchphrases or reductions to units. That is exactly what you are doing by calling entire diverse group of people with different beliefs and ideals, as well as methods and discourse, to totalize or synthesize down social justice advocates down to a negative phrasing.

Now, as far as the first woman's remarks i am a bit torn. I, as a white male, am sympathetic to her argument. You would have to be quite blind to ignore the history of violence that has taken place against subaltern cultures perpetrated by european socities (predominantly white males). I also do not think it is fair to take her literally at her word, but that is my interpretation and speculation. I am familiar with several cultural and film studies authors from the continental philosophy side of things that make similar arguments to hers but, almost entirely, mean it metaphorically. I certainly do not think she should lose her job over this. Is it pretty? No. But liberalism is the end all be all of social right-ness. We don't, and shouldnt, feel the need to always be non-confrontational and democratic about social issues like justice, democracy and emancipation. Before you attempt to correct me on the use of the word liberal i am referring to the political ideology, not the americanized word. Maybe she didnt say it in the best way, but also, just maybe, some of her anger is justified and should be taken sincerely, especially by those of us with the privilege to do so.