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White knight on /r/tinder defends m'lady in screenshotted profile (np.reddit.com)

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[–]nothingbutcontempt 25ポイント26ポイント  (23子コメント)

Oh man, this is great. Guy just won't give up.

[–]niczar 40ポイント41ポイント  (13子コメント)

This one is even better:

My current girlfriend just moved to the state and was using OKC/Tinder to actually meet friends. 2 months later she told me she wasn't looking for a relationship but she liked me a lot and changed her mind I guess.

[–]DominoNo- 42ポイント43ポイント  (0子コメント)

What a cuck

[–]robby7345 20ポイント21ポイント  (11子コメント)

Jesus, that guy is in full on denial. How could anyone be that blind? Maybe, just fuckng maybe, you don't know her as well as you pretend to know her.

[–]asiltopbr 14ポイント15ポイント  (10子コメント)

A lot of people are like this, they're 100% blind to obvious shit like this.

I was for a while, I know a lot of other guys as well.

Just a learning experience.

Just people that are naive and think "She loves me, why would she cheat" then reality hits them in the face.

[–]Hara-Kiri 7ポイント8ポイント  (8子コメント)

I think what he's saying is she used it before she met him (obviously to fuck despite what he thinks) not that she's using it now. I'm guessing she just doesn't want him to know she was banging around (or attempting to).

[–]asiltopbr 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'm more so talking about the fact there are a ton of guys with girlfriends they let use dating websites/apps to "look for friends".

I think they both fall under the same thing.

[–]niczar 0ポイント1ポイント  (6子コメント)

Yeah, and she immediately stopped after being with him. Guaranteed. No chance whatsoever that she kept her account active. Well, just a looksie here and there. But she does nothing with it. Ok well she met that guy because he was funny. Nothing happened though. Well nothing serious. Ok she took it up the ass but only as a joke, you know? Bareback, obv. because the guy was allergic to latex and she just didn't want to be a bitch. The two other guys weren't allergic to latex but she didn't want to play favorites, you know. Kind of awkward.

[–]Hara-Kiri 0ポイント1ポイント  (5子コメント)

Why wouldn't she immediately stop after being with him? Not everybody cheats you know...

[–]niczar 0ポイント1ポイント  (4子コメント)

Ever asked a girl how many guys she's been with? Ever noticed they always say something around 5?

[–]Hara-Kiri -3ポイント-2ポイント  (3子コメント)

Yeah, because there's a stigma about how many guys a girl gets with but not so much the other way round. What does that have to do with cheating?

[–]niczar -2ポイント-1ポイント  (2子コメント)

They all do that. They all lie about that shit.

[–]robby7345 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

I know there are, but it's just sad. If your girl is on tinder looking for "a friend" shes not your girl anymore. No amount of cognitive dissonance will change that.

[–]Ahaigh9877 19ポイント20ポイント  (7子コメント)

Do you use it for both sexes? Im curious? What makes you swipe right??

Honestly? I don't use it for both sexes, just women. I tend to get along better with women and it is hard finding guys who are also looking for friends. I find it is much easier to find women who are okay with just being buddies than guys on tinder looking for somebody to chill with.

Good grief.

[–]FANCYBOYZ 17ポイント18ポイント  (6子コメント)

Comment under that was classic. About how he basically made a sport of getting friend zoned

[–]Shoggoth1890 15ポイント16ポイント  (0子コメント)

I guarantee you that he had always been using it as a dating app, but the women couldn't see him as a serious suitor after meeting him so he got friended. This happened so much that, in order to preserve his fragile ego, he has himself legitimately convinced that he intended for that to happen.

[–]Spam4119 -2ポイント-1ポイント  (4子コメント)

Nah. I just honestly want people to hang out with since I moved here recently. I am not looking for a relationship.

Also people using the friend zone non-ironically make me cringe. Like you believe that to be a real thing? Like... that somebody gets sent to the dreaded friend zone?

[–]ggwick 2ポイント3ポイント  (1子コメント)

You just want to hang out with women and you just want to be their friend, you sent yourself to the friend zone.

[–]Spam4119 -2ポイント-1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Do you not have friends that are women? I didn't realize I was friendzoned by my guy friends too according to that definition.

[–]FANCYBOYZ 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'd give meetup.com a shot. Met a lot of cool people with similar interests as me on that.

Tinder - I mean come on. The only thing you learn about new friends is how good their tits look. If you're serious about finding friends, looking at titty pics won't help

[–]niczar 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Also people using the friend zone non-ironically make me cringe.

The friend zone exists because people who experience it put themselves in it in the first place. People who put themselves first and don't supplicate to their love interest with the deluded notion that submissiveness would appeal to them never experience it.

[–]ReducedCooldown 7ポイント8ポイント  (0子コメント)

Usually if you see someone with more than a hundred negative karma they realize how stupid they were and delete their comment but this guy is pretty much a goldfish trying to swim up Niagara Falls.

[–]robby7345 14ポイント15ポイント  (2子コメント)

I hope someone told that girls boyfriend. It may be breach of privacy or whatever, but having been in the military and having had friends get cheat on left and right while deployed, I know how horrible it is to come home to a guy who is "just friends" hovering around your girl. Women that cheat on men who are deployed are extra shitty IMO.

[–]Henatronw70 6ポイント7ポイント  (1子コメント)

Not in the military but I agree with you,it must be really hard for you guys. Being away from home in danger then BAM the woman you love fucks you over

[–]stompinstinker 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

I don’t think it is so much a function of being in the military as it is being young and far apart. Whether they are getting deployed or transferred in the military, going away to college, moving for a job, etc. Young people do what young people do. Act all dramatic at first(I love you, wait for me, getting married at 21, etc.) and then get over it quickly and move on. The problem with the military is it is full of younger people, it's full of men, and they end up being deployed to where they can’t/won’t interact with locals, so they just think about their girlfriend back home. If they were getting deployed to a base in Brazil, where you safely go off base and drink, do drugs, go to beaches, party, and meet all kinds of hot women, you can bet the girlfriends back home would be getting dumped fast.

[–]deXXXtroamphetamine[S] 10ポイント11ポイント  (3子コメント)

In case the comments get deleted.

[–]Spam4119 2ポイント3ポイント  (2子コメント)

It won't get deleted, not by me.

[–]stompinstinker 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

She may very well not be looking to date, but is just using Tinder to get constant validation. Which is just so pathetic.

Anyhow, I think both the commenter and the parent are both wrong. That is a generalization, most women aren’t like that, and the commenter is a fucking idiot. This is probably fake too, no dots at the top so only one pic uploaded. Everyone always uses more. Probably a bot, or a weird neckbeard in a basement, some girl pissed off her ex is with the girl in the pic, etc.

[–]Santa_Claauz 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

Funny thing is they're assuming she's smarter than Mr. "uses tinder for friends". He's assuming she's as dumb as he is.

[–]shitsfuckedupalot 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Meh i met my girlfriend on tinder. Id still be pissed if she still used it though.

[–]rnjbond 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I will say I don't see people using Tinder for friends here, but I saw a lot of that in Singapore, for what it's worth (literally, you had profiles saying the girl was only looking for friends)