Something that pisses me off no end when people are fat shaming is that they use “it’s not healthy, you need to change, positivity won’t help them to lose the weight” besides the obivous that a. It’s non of your business (and of course you have no idea why they’re fat in the first place) and b. Everyone tells fat people how disgusting they are EVERYDAY and confidence is refreshing and much needed.
But also like you don’t see anywhere near as many people shaming smokers. Like how many times in your life have you witnessed someone shouting at a smoker about how their habit will kill them and that they’re disgusting? (I’m not calling smokers disgusting I’m just using fat shaming terms here). You don’t because the real root of the problem is that you don’t like looking at fat people and I have heard enough of your excuses. You know strangers health isn’t your business which is exactly why no other unhealthy habits are called out upon in the middle of the street or commented on photos of people you don’t know.
Please stop excusing your behaviour and work on becoming a kinder person.
I really don’t want to start an argument, I am just sharing a feeling I have as somebody who struggles with this stuff...
Smokers know that they are unhealthy and don’t spread health lies about how smoking is okay and not dangerous at all....