Any trans women here who have actually had success finding a date on OkCupid? How do you do it? The only people that ever talk to me are people who didn't read my entire profile and only look at my pictures, and as soon as I say the word "transgender" I never hear from them again, or it's couples trying to bring me in for a 3-way, which, while flattering, is not exactly what i'm looking for. I just want a nice date with a cute guy or girl, is that so much to ask?
>>4367311heyo. i made an account there and, a week later, had made 4 friends, been on dates with two people, and acquired a boyfriend. here are a few tips:they have a custom "gender" field; use it. put yourself in the "show up for people looking for females" category, but list gender straight-forwardly as "transgender". that should keep the "oh, you're one of *those*" people from ever saying anything to you.choose to hide straight people from you and you from them; basically the only people you have a chance with are other bis and the one-in-a-thousand lesbian.these two things should insulate you pretty well from raging normies.next, just follow the standard advice ok-cupid gives people: answer as many questions as possible. the higher a match is between you and another person, the more likely that person is to talk to you, and higher matches are only possible with more questions answered.use a high-resolution picture of yourself actually doing something and looking happy. apparently the picture you use, along with the match percentage, are the greatest factors.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
After 90 or so people I finally met some guy who is pretty decent. We are writting for 3 months now, but the problem is, he is too shy to have a voice chat with me. I asked him lately if he would want to try it and while he said yes two weeks later and still nothing happened. It kind of feels like he is avoiding me everytime I wanna ask and asking is pretty hard :/What do? Should I just wait for him to be ready? Or should I push him to have a talk?
>>4367562if he doesn't want to talk to you after writing for 3 months then he is a serial killer or something
>>4367552Great tips, thanks anon.
>>4367568Or worse - married.
I'm a 100% percent lesbian woman (men are filth), but there is something I find intriguing. For some reason I find penises (yuck) more aesthetically pleasing than vaginas (dont ask...).Is this weird? How can I fix (cure) it?
Become a chaser.Make a transbian happy.Everyone wins.Both you (the straight woman in denial), and the tranny (the straight man in denial).
>>4367619>is it weirdyes>how can i cure ityou don't, don't worry about it.
>>4367619Unless you fear you might actually succumb to your desire for penis and lose your lesbian street cred, just ignoring it shouldn't pose a problem for you.
>>4367619its not weird at all, don't worry to much about it. People are attracted to all kinds of different thins and there are quite a few that like women and also penises. Find a cute trans girl that doesnt have genital dysphoria and you will be just fine. Dont even both with any that havent started hrt though.
What can we do about the transtrender problem?
>>4367244You are a truscum. I am a truscum. Anyone who actually faces dysphoria is truscum, the people who don't try to claim that you can be trans without dysphoria so people will cater to their speshul made up pronouns. To them, so long as you "feel like a boy" - you are a boy, regardless of how arbitrary feeling "like a boy" is. At least trans people feel like they are born in the wrong body - in the sjw world you probably won't be able to transition, and you'll just announce "I am a boy!" and people will throw you a pronoun party where you get into a tub full of male tears and come out with new pronouns and be gifted binders and hair dye. And this will be your "transition" - since women can have dicks and facial hair too, you are a woman - and feeling dysphoria/wanting to transition is body hatred that enforces the evil cispatriarchy.
Reminder that gender is not sex.Reminder that you can't change your sex.Reminder that if you can't be happy with the healthy body you were born with because you don't like its sex, you'll never be happy.
>>4367033I have close to zero issues with the femboys and closet trans girls in /femgen/. I was just making a point.
>>4367521except sex isn't as simple as your simple mind thinks it is. The entire reason intersex people and trans people exist prove that sex is very complicated.
>>4366068>because you implied themYou imagined me saying them, inserted them at the end of an out-of-context sentence fragment and argued on that premise. You literally changed what I actually said into a strawman argument you wanted to have with someone that obviously wasn't me. It's not like people can't scroll up and read the thread you pompous fucking idiot.
Has anyone on /lgbt/ ever attempted suicide? What was it like?
>>4367543See, I have to disagree with that because with the pain I felt has been what's kept me from even attempting out of fear of that pain. Also up until they finished up deciding whether they could do surgery they couldn't pump me up with meds anyways because it could cause compromises with surgeries if they had to operate. Not giving me anything afterwords was them saying that I could face consequences for my actions.
>>4367561How come having a bullet hole and a month in psych wasn't enough consequences for you?
>>4367584You're cherrypicking me, it's more than enough reason. But to answer your question, honestly I can't tell that there's a bullet in me anymore. No bumps, no scars, and no pain save for the occasional headache. As for the ward stay it's easier to compartmentalize a month where you were doped out of your mind that everyone pretends never happened compared to the worst pain and terror of your life.
>>4354833Wow is it that obvious? Well I guess gunning down 15 year olds with a minigun is pretty violent, (maybe if they were smart enough to not shoot at a flying bunker with guns on it they wouldn't get cut in half) but I've found my niche and I'm relatively satisfied so whatever.
>>4367523this story is fake and gay. I work in a hospital and we don't deny anyone pain meds unless we suspect they're addicts seeking, and even then we monitor vitals (an elevated blood pressure indicating they're in pain) also lack of pain meds can hinder the recovery and cause complications. Fake story
Bisexual General: Apparently we don't exist edition.
Question for bisexual guys:Do you care as much about body hair on women? I feel like bi men are more open minded, and since they likely wouldn't tell a boyfriend to shave they would do the same with a girlfriend?
>>4362074Definitely fluctuates, mostly on a bi(ha)weekly basis. Some weeks I'm more into men, some weeks I'm more into women.>>4367281I actually prefer women with hairy armpits/forearms. Don't mind body hair on women most other places, except nipples. Please shave them for easier access.Guess I'm a weird case. Last girl I dated liked my nonchalance about shaving; she had hairy legs often and I didn't give a hoot.
>>4365399>tfw dated a guy that looks like him except with a full head of hair
>>4367281I hate body hair on women. I hate body hair on men.
>>4367281i don't like body hair at all, but it's ok if you have some, as long as you don't have a jungle in your armpits.fuck this captcha
Do we have any LGBT Muslims, Jews, or Hindus here? I've seen plenty of threads on /lgbt/ discussing LGBT Christians and LGBT atheists but hardly if ever the other religions.I'm personally a gay Christian but I would like to know what it is like for other LGBT people who are members of other faiths.
>>4367512Well yeah because the Satanist took it "turned" it and perverted it like everything else.Or something like that.Thanks for the answer. Peace.
>>4362971Salvation is all about geography, as it'd be. This being an english forum, you'll see mostly people from the west... from countries in which jesus chose to come and save people, I guess.That said, I don't think there's anything as monumentally stupid as an LGBT person who is religious. Seriously, what the fuck?
>>4366431I thought most Jews (and Muslims) got circumcised in hospitals by doctors, like gentile white Christan American babies like me and my brothers.
>>4367493Gay men aren't trans, dumbass. Getting my dick forcibly removed would not be good.
>>4367608You thought wrong.
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>>4366473dis nigga also a dragon, hell he prolly even killed fai's mom
>>4366464honestly who even cares anymore >>4367218adrian :(
>>4365389I think you're referring to Lily Love which is Thai. WDTFS is a webtoon, so manhwa. WDTFS is also consistently lewd. The main girl has sex with a woman in pretty much every chapter which is what gets it attention.
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>>4367599>your coworker just tell you she has fantasies about you being sandwiched between two of your male friends>it's consensualWell, that makes it better then. Carry on.
Reading some of the threads on the first page have made me interested if anyone has any stories.
>Be passable, 8/10 MtF (According to general consensus)>Haven't had a good fuck in months; -;
>>4367434well hurry up so you can post a story, slut
>kissless virgin>slutty urges get so strong I go on omegle and lewd for strangersYay me.
>>4366489> mtf> bump into ftm in a grocery store> lengthy conversation becomes lunch together becomes talking all day becomes "...i think i really really like you..."> he drives me home and comes inside> watch anime for a couple of hours. i rest my head in his lap and he strokes my hair. everything tingles everywhere> eventually i pause the show (music auto-resumes because mpd client that detects the state change) and lean my head back to look up at him> he spiderman kisses me and i almost jump out of my skin, then melt back into his lap> suddenly wandering hands, legs, tongues. i don't know what i'm doing anymore, but it feels nice> he's grabbing my panties, which are embarrassingly wet, and pulling them down over my knees> clothes are finally off and we both are shocked back to reality with an "oh... well now what are we supposed to do?"
>>4367626> he ties a scarf around my eyes and tells me to not move a muscle> walks off (presumably to his car). it was quick, so he probably didn't even bother with clothes and just wore a blanket or something> blood pounds in my ears as i wonder what's going on> he gently takes my shoulders and leans me backwards and starts playing around fingers; i assume he was getting lube> suddenly, something larger. he rolls me over onto my front, top-down-bottom-up, grabs my hips, and starts super slowly> things get faster and he's reaching over my shoulders and interweaving fingers with mine. everything is right in the world> my legs start shaking so much he has to hold me steady so i don't fall over. all of my being focusses on our interlocked hands> when it finally comes i collapse forward and he lays over me, steadying all the little shakes and convulsions and blowing softly in my ear> recovering takes a bit, but when it does come i yank off the scarf, spin around, and throw myself on him> he grips my head between his thighs as i do mouth things. i'm super relieved and excited that he's ok with this> eventually he orgasms too and we flop on the bed in a tangle of limbs> after a while, start talking again softly ("this is so nice...") and then drift off to sleepstrapons are the best
let's try to be as honest as possible. no hugbox and no bullying.>i'm not the girl in the picture btwi'm still afraid of posting my picture on the internet
>>4367570Yeah and we consider those fucking people mistakes. Its bad enough youre a tranny to everyone.Dont fucking dress like a nigger faggot on top of it.
>>4367596>nigger faggot>implying the target demographic of piercings isnt white teens>implying black people outside of tribes pierce their faces
>>4367596>we consider>*I considerftfyOh /pol/. I'm sure one day you will learn about fashion and trends.
>>4367402you're cute dude.i'm mixed too, I wish I had hair like yours, hahaha.how tall are you?
>>4367560okI wish it could go faster
Let's have a closet feels thread. I know there's people here that haven't come out yet or just have to a few people for various reasons>tfw still in contact with a few of my childhood friends >tfw they would completely change their opinion of me over one thing>tfw my parents and family would hate me>tfw have a bromance with a straight friend and it's killing me>tfw only one friend knows and he might be the only one ever>tfw I just want to be happyI can't tell if coming out or staying in the closet is a worse idea
Just too shy.
Well being sexually abused confused the shit out of me. Like I want to do drag. But sometimes I want to be submissive with men but mostly I want to dominate effeminate men. Women are these nice angelic cute things you take care of and protect. But she can guard you also.Like guys are taboo yet so lustful for meGirls are open but more romance also making love I wonder what that orientation would be?
>in love with straight best friend (classic)>too close for it to be tolerable to a closetfag>he's perfectly comfortable changing in the same room>seen him fully naked for extended periods of time>lots of creeper shots taken while he's passed out or sleeping>no longer trust myself to be drunk around him>occasional semi-competitive wrestling>limitless opportunities to cop a perfectly innocent feel>start grabbing his dick and patting his ass as a "joke">he's started doing it to me now too>plan couldn't have worked out better>strenuously masturbate to the thought of fucking his perfect ass and raping his beautiful face>feel like complete shit immediately afterward>have actually cried seconds after flailing off>more than onceComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>come out to myself almost three years ago>too scared to come out to anyone else>feel bad about it at night>always fall asleep thinking about it>i must've subconciously linked sleep and depression because whenever i feel sad i get tired>always find myself waking up with my laptop flat with this board open
>>4367496Shinji, is that you
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>>4367484My girlfriend liked to suck on them even before I started transitioning, could that be what's causing it?
>>4367515maybe but unlikely
>>4367518Well damn. I'm stuck self-medding in secret for a bit longer so the doctor isn't an option.Here's hoping it doesn't kill me.
>>4367526how high is your dose ?
>>4367222Not once, not ever.Also >keeping the dplz no
Why are people still straight?Women>Useless whores who think being female means they just need to sit on some dick and deserve to live life without doing anything>Leeches>Manipulates men to abandon their fun interests for their retarded interests>Completely idiotic interests and wastes money on stuff like clothes>Completely different than men in general>Have disgusting genitals>Are weak physically>Are illogical and emotionalMen>Some are sluts, some are great partners, you should choose>LogicalComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>4367490vaginas are gross, literally the only reason people feel otherwise is because of chemicals in your brain (just like everything else)let's not confuse one for the other here
>>4367490But, I really get no pleasure from vaginal intercourse. Nor anal. Nor blowjobs.
>>4367490>All those straight man that talk about how disgusting sucking dicks is would probably change their tune if they were to experience how good they actually feel.There is no other rational reason except having a child and raise a demographic population, to man having relations with a woman. There is none.Man always will understand other man better and will know how other man feel and what he need to comfort. Woman in other hand will always will be a ticking bomb for them. Same as vise versa - only woman will understand the feeling of other female. it's just both groups can't reproduce themselves and governments of almost every "savage" country need a slavery and "free" working forces go on so they will be against fully blossoming gay family pride. They will be friendly at the time, but never straight family will be replaced by gay family (well maybe only when scientists will figure out how make a human or cyborgs in laboratories)
>>4367490Is that why straight guys covet anal sex so much, complain if their girlfriends won't consider it, and are willing to jump through so many hoops to get it?
>>4367578If someone likes anal, that doesn't mean they hate vaginas. They can prefer one thing over the other, just depends on what your fetish is. Straight guys watch an overwhelming amount of porn, they probably have false ideas about what real anal is like.>>4367547Are you a caveman?
Everybody say SAUSAGE, keep it goingEggs, Bacon, Grits, SAUSAGEI wake up in the morning with a rock hard SAUSAGE
I just finished finals and I am unfortunately quite sober
do you ever trim your armpit hair?
I'm going to be a 20 year old virgin in a month and a halfIs that bad
>>4367478fuckin buuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuurnnnn
>>4367585No. Being a virgin is not a bad thing. Don't do anything dumb just because you can't let go of the high school bullying.
How do I hook up with my trans friend? We were friends before she transitioned. I think shes into me but i cant tell.
>>4366696Hey sorry can you please fucking stop with saying "I'm a piece of shit ugly bridge-troll" then someone saying "Post a pic" AND YOU POST SUCH SIMILAR PICTURES WITHOUT SMILING IN A GODDAMN ONEI'm glad you changed your hair. It looks good. You should try highlighting your cheekbones and eyes because they look very dark.
>>4367099I'm really sorry I just feel like that. A lot of people think the same of themselves I guess just that I have pictures to prove it and I don't mind posting them because I'm stupid.I didn't change my hair though it's just tied up, I'm not sure what haircut to get I just know I want some bangs.
>>4365986Good luck!
>>4365206Where are you from OP?
>>4366976you are still quite early on, you may not be 100% passable yet but you're still really cute and you'll make it there, just work on your makeup/hair skills some and give it time ^-^
Why are Drag Queens so terrifying ?
>>4364786That's cool, take care to realize that drag is separate from crossdressing, even if the common nomenclature tends to blur lines. Keep on truckin'
>>4364810my arousal knows no difference so many things about it that i find hot
>>4364764Exactly. DraQs just doesn't have other talent than being DraQs, or yeah maybe they have some sort of singing-dancing talents. But being a complete fag out in public is their inner sexual revolution. They MUST BE LOUD AND SHINE out of their competition zone. They can't outsing better singer they can't outdance better dancer. But they surely can taking many views by being freaks (no hate though, DraQs are really funny and every country must have them)
>>4364775>Drag is a celebrationdrag is an insult
Drag Queens are part of the Uncanny VAlley. IT's just naturally creepy to see one. No hard feelings.http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Uncanny_valley