Well, lets say your uncommon fetish is you enjoy choking your sexual partners to the point of unconsciousness. Not a gentle choke either, full blood/airway choke. That color of purple they turn is just what does it for you every time. Now you've gone and done it. You went just a little too long on the choke, and now you have a corpse on your hands. Still see nothing wrong? There's absolutely nothing wrong with paraphilia, however, exclusive paraphilics are usually diagnosed as PD, paraphilic disorder (diagnosis is not valid unless there is an element of danger to self or others in your paraphlia). So while there's nothing wrong with whatever floats your boat, there is something wrong with dangerous obsession. Would you like to make another go at trying to be an internet asshole or you done now?