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[–]redditarcm89 -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (21子コメント)

The fact that a guy they're not immediately attracted to is acknowledging their presence, and talking to them like an equal. Who's to say her "personal space" isn't an 8'x8' circle around her? Not us, because OP didn't give enough context for this to be considered "neckbeard activity". The person simply made the mistake of not understanding "flirty" becomes "creepy" if you're unattractive.

[–]le_Dandy_Boatswain 10 ポイント11 ポイント  (4子コメント)

I think you're focusing on the wrong part. We don't have context here, so we don't know what her personal space was or what transpired. However, if the approached blatantly tells the approacher to leave them alone, anything but leaving them alone is overstepping. There is no obligation to entertain anyone who tries to approach you in public. In fact, the directness is good so there is no misunderstandings about intentions.

[–]NudeEudaimonia[S] 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Thank you.

[–]shinyhappypanda 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (5子コメント)

"The person simply made the mistake of not understanding "flirty" becomes "creepy" if you're unattractive."

Except this isn't true. I've come to the conclusion that this sentiment is just a way for guys who act creepy to avoid taking responsibility for how they act and instead attempt to blame the women they've been creepy towards. They want to believe that the women are shallow instead of accepting that their actions are creepy.

[–]YallAreElliotRodger 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

That's a very mature and thoughtful conclusion. It's nice to see guys who are willing to take responsibility for their actions.

[–]redditarcm89 -4 ポイント-3 ポイント  (3子コメント)

"What you said isn't true, this is my opinion on the subject: ___"

Alright, what makes you think that? I and every other guy who has bettered themselves physically (which results in more confidence in their approaches) have noticed that women (and people in general) respond much better to attractive people.

[–]shinyhappypanda 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (1子コメント)

The fact that women are attracted to attractive men doesn't prove anything. I known plenty of funny, flirty guys who I'm not at all attracted to who aren't creepy, and I've met attractive guys who did come off as creepy because of their personalities. Creepy is a behavior.

[–]redditarcm89 -3 ポイント-2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

By definition, but that's not how it's usually used.

[–]YallAreElliotRodger 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Except that's not the point. The point is that you can be physically unattractive and not creepy. Creepy is its own thing independent of attractiveness.

I smell a butthurt creepy dude who can't get over the fact that he is ugly.

[–]NudeEudaimonia[S] 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (6子コメント)

Definitions of "personal space" are subjective. It doesn't matter how big it is, it matters if someone is violating it.

[–]redditarcm89 -4 ポイント-3 ポイント  (5子コメント)

What if I claimed you, OP, are in my personal space right now? Does that mean you're doing something wrong? Fuck, I don't even think the guy in the post was right, but you people are vitriolic.

[–]NudeEudaimonia[S] 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (4子コメント)

Dude. Get over yourself. If you want to act like I'm groping or harassing you, fucking go for it. I like to respect people, clearly something you can't grasp.

[–]redditarcm89 -4 ポイント-3 ポイント  (3子コメント)

Respect people like you did by pretending the person in the post was advocating groping or harassing the other person in the post?

[–]NudeEudaimonia[S] 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Please show me where I did that.

[–]redditarcm89 -4 ポイント-3 ポイント  (1子コメント)

What if I claimed you, OP, are in my personal space right now?

If you want to act like I'm groping or harassing you, fucking go for it.

You equated "violating personal space" with "groping or harassing", and the person in the post said it wouldn't be difficult for someone who doesn't have immense emotional intelligence to not be able to know another's "personal space boundary".

[–]NudeEudaimonia[S] 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

You know, you're right. You're so so so so right.

Have a nice day.

[–]YallAreElliotRodger 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (2子コメント)

OP didn't give enough context for this to be considered "neckbeard activity".

nice guy spotted

but but but m'lady, hear me out! I wish to woo you with my vast intellect and my total disregard for your wishes! M'lady pls

[–]NudeEudaimonia[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'm glad I'm not the only one who picked up on his scent.

[–]redditarcm89 -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Assuming you're referring to me, what makes you think I'm a "nice guy"?