What Is This Shit???

Excuse me, what?

WHAT?

WHAT!?!?!?! 

This is really a thing on tumblr apparently. Blogs upon blogs upon fucking blogs of people who have outright and boldfacedly said that they have HIT THEIR SIGNIFICANT OTHER? I’m not talking about like “Oh haha I smacked his head for being a dork” or “I’ma little rough when we play punchbuggy.” No these are girls talking about how they have physically beaten- BEATEN their boyfriends. The people they claim to care about. The person they claim is “up to their standards” (which can be ridiculous standards mind you.) These same girls who have posted endless blogs about domestic abuse, who have never once shut up about how life is so SCARY for women because we could be beaten or raped or murdered at any fucking time- THESE WOMEN… Are beating their boyfriends. What is more disturbing than the hypocrisy it presents, is the MENTALITY behind it. They claim without any kind of hesitation that they DESERVED it, that for reasons ranging from saying something mildly offensive to not doing something correctly they have HIT their lovers with a CLOSED fist and had them AGREE that they deserved it. They are beating and breaking these poor men while preaching about being OPRESSED?

God dammit that is like a KKK member saying they’re oppressed while lynching a black man. Okay well maybe not quite that extreme but you get the idea. These men aren’t their boyfriends anymore. in fact they have ceased to humanize them completely. they’re misbehaved pets. They’re abused property. These men deserve just as much support and sympathy and help as the women who go through the pain because they are feeling the same fear,the same hurt, and sadly the same love. They might even be bigger or stronger than these women and they aren’t putting a hand back at them which tells me something really serious-

BEING PHYSICALLY BIGGER ISN’T THE SOURCE OF ALL POWER, ASSHOLES.

Just because you are smaller does not mean you always get to be the victim. You can be an abuser at any size. Just like you can be a victim at any size. You can be an abuser at any gender. You can be a victim at any gender. You are not a special snowflake or a warrior you are not teaching men anything other than the fact that you will never be a nurturing or supportive partner. you will never be an equal partner you will always bee a controlling abusive cocksucker. The same kind of controlling abusive cocksucker that you see on episodes of cops. the same kind you read about in the paper. if you hit your men you will hit your children. if you hit your woman you will hit your children. It doesn’t matter if you’re in a  same sex relationship either. there is nothing more redeeming about he abuser being the female.I really hate this term and I HATE using it but you bitches have force me to use it.

Fuck you and your pussy-pass.

Thats what you’re doing. you are proving yourselves to be unequal by exploiting special social treatment given to you for being women. Fuck you all. you’ve set us back 50 years with this wicked-wife bullshit. Go back to sitting in your castle towers with plots to murder your step daughters you cackling witches. 

(P.S. I also love how these same women reblog hate against BDSM. Where people CONSENSUALLY beat he crap out of each other but when its not consensual its just fine right because you’re a girl and that’s smashing the patriarchy? Right? lololololol god I’m done with this gay earth.)