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[–]djsnakesonaplane 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (5子コメント)

To be honest, this just makes me sad. He's not a Nice Guy - he's probably in all likelihood a genuinely nice guy who's hurt and angry about being rejected because of his size. Not saying you made the wrong call, OP, and I respect your decision to be upfront and honest, but he's basically just been told the big reason he's not getting a date (and probably dates) is because he's overweight. Sure, he throws a "bitch" in there and doesn't really follow his own reasoning, but he seems pretty self-aware to me, just upset. If I was into someone and it didn't go further because of some flaw I'm touchy about, I'd probably have a little rant too.

By my book, Nice Guys hate, objectify, and are bitter about women in general. I don't think this guy's a misogynist. I don't even really think he hates OP, even though he lashed out - I think he's hurt by a decision he already saw coming.

EDIT: OP, /r/fatpeoplehate? Really?

[–]FistofanAngryGoddess 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (3子コメント)

EDIT: OP, /r/fatpeoplehate? Really?

I was just about to reply to your comment with that. Not really too fond of the OP either.

[–]djsnakesonaplane 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Yeah, the "If you'd decided to be my friend I could've helped you lose weight!" part of the conversation was a bit of a giveaway. Way to gloat, OP.

[–]siestar4r[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

In the context of my messages to him, I really don't see how you could interpret it that way. It was a genuine thought. One of the things I like to do with my friends is being accountability partners when it comes to healthy eating.

[–]djsnakesonaplane 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Maybe, but I don't think diet accountability is something most people look for in friendships. While that may be a very valid part of your relationships with people, it's pretty obvious that's not the case for a lot of people, and mentioning it in this context was kinda insensitive.

[–]siestar4r[S] 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I see your point and I understand that he's upset. I never set out to hurt his feelings and I was upfront about my preferences and my intentions from the beginning. I think he's a Nice Guy because he approached my message from the beginning with the attitude of "I am aware that she says she's not into overweight guys, but I am a Nice Guy so I bet that doesn't apply to me". He started by displaying the attitude of "I completely understand your preferences" and ended with "you bitch". He went on a tirade about how he would never reject a girl because they didn't fit his type, obviously implying his moral superiority to me, while ironically being the rude one in the conversation.