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Note the double standard (self.OkCupid)

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Another racism issue swept under the rug. Racism against AMWF pairing but no racism against WMAF pairing

http://www.reddit.com/r/OkCupid/comments/2z8dei/why_i_deleted_my_success_story_post/

http://www.reddit.com/r/OkCupid/comments/32dgpf/1_year_success_reposted_bc_i_didnt_have_the/

Had to create a new account cause people were downvoting me for posting facts about racism being swept under the rug about the black / white racism.

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[–]SusheeMonster30/m/NYC 10 ポイント11 ポイント  (7子コメント)

This is why I hate this sub so much, sometimes. We can't have an open discourse on racial issues in dating without berating OP, or anyone else that contradicts herd mentality. That behavior is so toxic.

Just because something doesn't apply to you and/or is inconvenient to talk about doesn't mean it's any less important to bring up.

[–]lifestopped 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

People are more concerned with OP's outrage after posting some comments and reaction-threads that were (rightly) downvoted into the ground than they are about the race issues.

The issue identified here is appalling, yes. Will anything come of posting a bitter angry thread about it? ...Maybe?

[–]Maladjust--Rating: 100% 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (4子コメント)

Context and framing are massively important.

Look at the other post they made. I don't trust their intentions, and it poisons the post.

[–]SusheeMonster30/m/NYC 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (2子コメント)

I'm not inclined to trace the breadcrumbs, can you just give me the tl;dr?

[–]Maladjust--Rating: 100% 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

OP is trying to pull an "AHA! Racism!" while laying everything at the feet of racial divides. It's the shitty Indian dude that caused the drama last week mk II.

Also, the trolling aspect was claiming that a white dude messaging a woman is, in fact, throwing her a bone.

[–]lifestopped 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yeah, that was what lost me forever.

[–]Racekingofokc[S] -3 ポイント-2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

What intentions do I have?

[–]Racekingofokc[S] -3 ポイント-2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Agreed in full

[–]Maladjust--Rating: 100% 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (6子コメント)

My favorite part of this narrative is that you had to commit to the terribly onerous task of creating a new reddit account, because the message can't be stopped.

[–]2bABeeYour #1 best friend -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (5子コメント)

Wait, why isn't that thread from yesterday on SRD?

[–]Maladjust--Rating: 100% 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (4子コメント)

Which one?

Nothing in the last few days has been enough to get linked there probably.

[–]2bABeeYour #1 best friend -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (3子コメント)

The AFWF couple with the green-face.

[–]Maladjust--Rating: 100% 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (2子コメント)

I have no idea what you're talking about. Link?

[–]2bABeeYour #1 best friend -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (1子コメント)

https://www.reddit.com/r/OkCupid/comments/32dgpf/1_year_success_reposted_bc_i_didnt_have_the/cqaseh5

[–]Maladjust--Rating: 100% 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

smh at all involved.

[–]AtTheFuneralParty 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Bleh man, I don't fucking know. At this point in my life, I've gone through so much and seen so much racist bullshit that I pretty much have a completely defeatist attitude towards the issue. I don't think it will ever change. People will forever be racist as fuck and there isn't much you can do about it. I don't even know if pointing it out solves anything anymore. People just don't give a shit, and if they won't laugh and make jokes in public then they'll do it in behind closed doors or wherever they think that type of behavior is acceptable.

Last night I'm cleaning out the ambulance and there's a black lady outside the hospital screaming and crying because she has 3 months to live and has no hair and is completely gaunt from cancer. A white cop comes over and starts shouting at her to leave the premises. She's just crying and everyone's looking because it's a big scene. The cop finally gets her to leave and then he looks at me and says with a straight face 'fucking black women...' and shakes his head as he walks off. This is after Ferguson, with that Walter Scott guy getting capped in the back all over the news. Everything. Doesn't matter to him. I'm not even white and he thinks its okay to say something like that to me. But what am I going to do? The guy's a fucking cop.

People suck man.

[–]El-ahrairah-okcPrince with a Thousand Enemies 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Last night I'm cleaning out the ambulance. The cop finally gets her to leave and then he looks at me and says with a straight face 'fucking black women...'

I'm not even white and he thinks its okay to say something like that to me. But what am I going to do? The guy's a fucking cop.

Interesting. You're a paramedic? In uniform?

If that's the case, maybe cop saw you more as 'non-civilian' than your race.

This is fun about people to me. Figuring out their reality.

[–]heyfgtItalicized lies and lines bold type 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Thanks for keeping us honest. An true hero.

[–]2bABeeYour #1 best friend 14 ポイント15 ポイント  (11子コメント)

Does it matter what color the horse is when you beat it to death?

[–]ClumsyChipmunkyou don't have to be dumb to be clumsy 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (9子コメント)

only if you want it to be categorized as a hate crime

[–]2bABeeYour #1 best friend 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (8子コメント)

Can horses be Jewish?

[–]PrettyFly4aWhiteLieლ(´ڡ`ლ) 10 ポイント11 ポイント  (2子コメント)

The lead in Sex and the City.

[–]end_of_discussionis a girl 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

slow clap

[–]greenchrissynow is the season of our discount tents 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

slow clop

[–]RanTheRedCedarDirty 30/Man/SL,UT 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I've never seen one eat shrimp. How do you know they aren't already?

[–]AthleticNerd_Loves to laugh, works hard/plays hard 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (2子コメント)

It's kind of easy to check.

[–]celltowerTerrible Sub Mother 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

I'll let you check under the hood.

[–]AthleticNerd_Loves to laugh, works hard/plays hard 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'll 2baby do that.

[–]SethQ24/M/CA/diredork 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'd personally love to meet a horse mohel.

[–]lifestopped -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

It matters if it's invisible-color because then you can't find it to beat it to death.

[–]thebrennagadesweet mountain lamb chop 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (4子コメント)

I prefer white pine to red pine.

THERE. I said it.

[–][deleted] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (2子コメント)

White Oak over Red... erryday.

[–]thebrennagadesweet mountain lamb chop 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I like scrub oak. I always root for the underdog that encourages fire behavior in the pine barrens that live just south of you in Myles Standish.

[–]El-ahrairah-okcPrince with a Thousand Enemies 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

corrected dv when you are correct

[–]grizzly323Report back to me when it makes sense. 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

You are annoying but useful. If you keep equating idiocy with racism we may get somewhere.

[–]El-ahrairah-okcPrince with a Thousand Enemies 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Next time I'm chatting with God I'll mention that you've had enough of racism, and would like it to stop now.

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    [–]Maladjust--Rating: 100% 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (3子コメント)

    It's not deleted. It's the big image post at the front of /hot. And the other racism post in /new below this one.

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      [–]Maladjust--Rating: 100% 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

      I misread this. This guy started in the image post about the white guy throwing a bone to black women by messaging them. The other stuff is linked in the post.

      [–]lifestopped 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

      It's disgusting and terrible. It's racism. No question.

      What do you want?

      [–]Theigehttp://www.okcupid.com/profile/Thiege/ 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (5子コメント)

      I think the white chick one blew up because she was a super, super pretty mathematician or something? Forgot her career.

      But she was incredibly pretty

      [–]Racekingofokc[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (4子コメント)

      You don't see white women blowing up the recent success story even though the guy was pretty good looking

      [–]Theigehttp://www.okcupid.com/profile/Thiege/ 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (3子コメント)

      Eh, he was nothing special at all. There are also far less women on this site, of all races, and women care less about looks.

      Your assumption that only white men upvoted that previous post is racist and wrong.

      [–]Racekingofokc[S] 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (2子コメント)

      If it wasn't white guys angry then who was angry?

      [–]Theigehttp://www.okcupid.com/profile/Thiege/ 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

      I didn't say anything about being angry, I said upvoting

      [–][deleted] 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

      GO AWAY

      [–]aj240 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

      This is a very inefficient way of getting your message across.