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[–]waffletoast 202 ポイント203 ポイント  (10子コメント)

Damn she laid his whole life out. But it's really fucked up that he was like, "no one likes black women so surely she'll like me even if I treat her like shit!" Who taught him this? Who told him this would be okay?

[–]tsukinon 108 ポイント109 ポイント  (9子コメント)

Society to some extent. You see black men dating white women way more than you see white men dating black women because society has some really screwed up and racist values that can devalue black women. Basically, he thought his whiteness was such a prize to bring to the relationship that he felt that the OP should be grateful enough to ignore his negative traits.

I mean, the guy is disgusting, but his attitude didn't happen in a vacuum. It was reinforced by parts of our society.

[–]StraightTalkAdvice -36 ポイント-35 ポイント  (8子コメント)

You're right about what happens (black women being rated lower than others) but your explanation of why is pure guesswork.

See this http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/race-attraction-2009-2014/

TLDR: men find black women least attractive. women find asian men least attractive. Them's the facts.

EDIT: for the illiterate oversensitive retards - yes, everyone would like to have sex with beyonce and jet lee. Learn the meanings of 'average' and 'outlier'.

[–]tsukinon 46 ポイント47 ポイント  (6子コメント)

And you don't think that historical and cultural attitudes regarding beauty are the reasons for these preferences? What about black men who won't date dark women? I understand that you're putting together data and learning what you can from that, but you also have to look at the history of black women and the restrictions that were placed on them the to be considered "beautiful."

It's not that black women are less attractive than white, Latina, or Asian women. It's just that we want to dump a lot of baggage on the while they're just out trying to live their life.

[–]seastar11 6 ポイント7 ポイント  (0子コメント)

for the illiterate oversensitive retards

Wow dude. If they didn't already downvote you..