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Allaire Bartel's 'Boundaries' Captures Just How Intrusive Everyday Sexism Feels

The Huffington Post  |  By Nina Bahadur
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A striking photo series shows the sexism women face in their everyday lives.
"Boundaries," by artist and photographer Allaire Bartel, is a jarring visual symbolization of male entitlement in a woman's everyday life.
"In this series you will see one woman, an average young professional, depicted in routine daily situations," Bartel's website explains. "The concept of male entitlement is represented by male arms and hands performing a variety of actions that are overwhelmingly intrusive on her body and her life. In each situation she maintains a blank expression, a visual choice that demonstrates how conditioned we as women have become to accept this atmosphere as excusable and even normal."
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Bartel produced the series through 2014 Young Photographers' Alliance Mentoring Program, working with her model to come up with situations where they had felt oppressed or singled out because of their gender.
"Every photo in the series, while not an exact replica of an event, is modeled to represent a situation in which [myself or the model] had experienced sexism or harassment," Bartel told The Huffington Post.
Check out more images from the series below.
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  • Sarah Hanko-Carter · Top Commenter
    Wow, what I'm getting here from some of the male commenters is that a woman has an unreasonable sense of entitlement if she doesn't want to be groped by some random guy.

    The kicker is that these men feel like THEY'RE the victims if they can't just handle women like objects.
    • Court Graham · Top Commenter
      I think most of the male commentators are taking this as symbolic, not an actual physical assault. Those are two different things. the article is not entirely clear as to what it represents.
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    • Secondrate Glorious · Top Commenter · Faber College
      It appears that way. What I think it is, is male repression. It wasn't that long ago when men can do those tings and the further you go back the worse it was for women. I think what we are seeing is a little pent up rage for how rapidly times are changing. Many men currently employed seen a drastic shift from grab ass as friendly banter to illegal. While I do not object to women gaining personal rights as fast as possible. A discussion needs to be had with the large population of men that do object. It is a problem I see playing out naturally. During these final transitional periods a lot of heads are going to bump. I also feel men are being pushed at every front. Twenty years ago co-workers were blowing us and now we can't even look at the butt that is now more revealed than ever. A balance needs to be reached. While I agree wi...th you I also empathize, mainly because I a man, with the men on here. Not only that but some girls are really out going and you never know which one she is without asking. You know men are terrible with word. Upon my arrival to adulthood I thought it polite to call women dollface. At first it was. I stopped using it as a polite greeting when suddenly it became sexual harassment. While I never indulged in grab-ass with female co-workers that too was normal at-work-play and than bam one day that is sexual harassment. I think this anger we see is more backlash that is hard to put into words. And if you know us men you know we say stupid things when we're anger. (everybody does) See More
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    • John Gormley · Top Commenter · Co-Creator at Mens Human Rights Ireland
      Women are not objects.

      However feminists are professional victims.
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  • Lisa Lippitz · Top Commenter
    These are great. They show how any woman; just doing her job, walking down the street, doing everyday things; can be ambushed by sexism when she least expects it. And, all too often, actually physically ambushed.
    • Nate Riggins · Top Commenter · Owner-Operator at N8Flex
      Yes cause woman are perpetual victims who have no control. They should all be assigned bodyguards. Sure, wear the halter top, then cry if someone notices and says something. You can control their behavior.
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    • Clint Irwin · Top Commenter · Bronx, New York
      Nate Riggins Each one needs four men to carry her around in a sedan chair, and one to make sure no peas are under her cushion. Only then will she be comfortable and "equal".
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    • Matthew Tesfai · Top Commenter · Works at San Diego Volunteer Lawyer Program, Inc. (SDVLP)
      Clint Irwin Ha you make it sound like broke guys never get any attention from women. I guess I'm a magician...
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  • Edward Kayser · Top Commenter · The Art Institutes
    Where is the picture of girls constantly trying to get into a guy's bank account?
    • Sarah Conte · Top Commenter · Costume Shop Manager at Christopher Newport University
      You want it, you make it. This is her art, and so it addresses issues she sees. Feel strongly about something? Don't be lazy and whine about how no one's addressed your issue. Do it yourself.
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    • Dave Bann
      Sarah Conte I agree and DAMN RIGHT I will.
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    • Robert J Forsuk · Top Commenter
      lol whining? An entire set of pictures that all but says the male community is full of sexist animals constantly humiliating women every chance they have, and this dude's clever little comment is addressed like its serious attack. Don't you begin to see the irony?
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  • Bradley Gomez · Top Commenter · IT Engineer at Coors Brewing Company
    I would like to think that I have the same core values that the head coach at the University of Texas, Charlie Strong has for his team and his players and that is..... TREAT WOMEN WITH RESPECT!!!. I think as men we should all have those same values and it is not hard to do.
    • Nate Riggins · Top Commenter · Owner-Operator at N8Flex
      Tell the women that, too.
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    • Bradley Gomez · Top Commenter · IT Engineer at Coors Brewing Company
      Nate Riggins I agree the door should swing both ways. Both sexes should learn to treat each other with respect. But with all of that being said, please tell me how many times do you hear about women being accused of raping men? How many times have you heard about women beating up men or killing men? How many times have you heard about men being sexually harassed by women in the work place? Now I know, that some of the aforementioned things have happened to men, but it is far, far more likely that women are likely to be the victims of those kinds of things happening to them by men than it is for men to have those kinds of things happening to them by women. All of the crime statistics and data prove that beyond a shadow of a doubt.
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      Bradley Gomez why do women
      wear skirts so high that
      if they dont hike it down
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      will see the THONG that they
      are so desperately trying to
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      Quit this behavior and you will
      see that the "harrasent
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  • Sean Stephane Martin · Top Commenter · Comics artist at Doc and Raider
    Great concept, but I wish the photographer had pushed it a bit more: perhaps by making the arms and hands semi-transparent to suggest that just because we cant see it happening, that somehow it just isnt. This really is nice work. but it feels like the first draft of what could be pretty awesome.
    • Matt Simms · Top Commenter · Brentsville District High School
      I agree, I think the transparent idea would make the concept seem less like its something obvious that we should all be able to see.
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    • Micheal Waldrup
      Of course a transparent hand could also be misinterpreted as the hand not being real, the exact opposite of the intention. But I suppose if a viewer were seeing these in a book (with a title or description), or an article like this it would be more obvious. I'm thinking just on a photo by photo basis I guess.
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    • Dan R Clark · Top Commenter
      Stylistically, I agree: It is sophomoric and not worthy of this much attention, artistically. The photographer has gone for shock value instead of genuine craft, which is like putting sprinkles on a turd. The Achilles' Heel of this series is that the photographer, an avowed feminist, falls into the trap of stereotyping the women as well as the men. Ever notice how Victoria's Secret store window displays always feature young, small breasted nymphlike gorgeous women but the majority of the women shopping their look nothing like the models? That is a glaring disconnect. Likewise, the photographer has the same disconnect and does the cause a disservice by insinuating that only attractive white women get hit on or are the victims of Domestic Violence. Most DV victims are black and overweight females. Men are more likely to ge...t raped in America than women (rapes happen every day in America's prisons). Men are subject to half of all Domestic Violence but due to shame and a lack of protection by Police men are less likely to report it. The photographer's choice of a beautiful woman as a subject really demonstrates the photographers own ambition to be a fashion photographer and using the subject of Sexual Harassment as a vehicle while backing the bus over the actual victims who are black, obese, homely and frequently men....."yeah, but that just doesn't fit the narrative we want to sell", the photographer would say. If the pretty girl bleeds, it leads cause homely dont sell. See More
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  • Chris Mann · Top Commenter
    I don't get it. Is it saying that eyes are like hands? Also why is the lady at the stove being strangled as opposed to groped?
    I feel like it's a strange message to be saying that looking at someone or something is the same as touching it, cause they are by definition different things. I feel like I missed the point pretty badly here.
    • Eli Hathaway · Top Commenter · West Virginia University
      Elizabeth Doyle - Trying to coax a woman into giving out her phone number is especially troubling. I've even heard of men at bars trying to ask women for their numbers because they found the women attractive!! Can you believe that?!?
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    • Club de lectura
      It's called men bashing and victimhood... don't bother only feminist are entitled to be professional victims. Basicaly everything a man do or do not can be called sexist, misoginist or something else.
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    • Tracey Thomas · Top Commenter
      Eli Hathaway
      yes and just because they think she's attractive doesn't mean if she avoids giving them her number on the first try she wants them to continue to bother her about... hence the "coaxing" part. they wouldn't have to coax if she'd already agreed to give them the number the first time around.
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  • Donald Rachmaninoff · Top Commenter · Works at Helicopter Repair
    Oh, poor poor white American liberal women of privilege and their "problems".
    • Jill Gillian · Top Commenter
      Because you'd simply love a random man grabbing your throat.
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    • John LaFontaine · Top Commenter · University of Delaware
      Jill Gillian It was art, and posed. But you knew that, and straight out of the professional victim card playbook you threw out an indignant snarky response to a statement that was not made.
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    • Jill Gillian · Top Commenter
      Nope, not at all. The snarky comment was made by Donald who seems to think guys grabbing someone's throat our of the blue never happens.
      IT may be art here in this series of pics, but it does happen - by men who assault their partners, for instance.

      Oddly enough, it happened to me once, by a "friend" who, oblivious to etiquette, reached across a table to demonstrate a security technique . Though I knew he didn't mean to be threatening, I didn't like it at all.
      A similar thing happened to a male I knew, by another male.

      Maybe you should get out more, or read more, or just understand that just because YOU haven't experienced this or YOU haven't done this, that these things do happen and being snarky or contemptuous about them doesn't help anything.
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  • Eli Hathaway · Top Commenter · West Virginia University
    Oh my god, you mean there are still men who are sexually attracted to women!!?! Don't they know that's politically incorrect in this day and age! I just can't believe there really are people who think the female body is beautiful and sexy, what an outrage!!

    This photo series deserves an Emmy at least for it's powerful message!
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  • Matt Simms · Top Commenter · Brentsville District High School
    I think this message has failed, I understand what its trying to say, it just doesn't do a very good job expressing it. What do the hands represent? Actually being groped? Some guy checking her out? Some guy telling her she looks pretty? Asking her to cook dinner?
    • Marc Sylvestre · Top Commenter
      It fails because it is ham-handed in it's delivery. It fails because the hands/arms are disembodied, so it makes no sense - for example the bar-stool picture - what's up with the guy lying on the ground? Is he in need of help? is it a zombie? What about that office photo - for goodness sake there's a dude hiding behind her chair - what the heck is up with that?

      Whomever dreamed this up didn't try very hard.
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    • Gina Elliott Proulx · Top Commenter · Charlottesville, Virginia
      Marc Sylvestre I agree.. Photographically, it just doesn't make any point with clarity.. It implies many things.. Probably many more things than the original idea the photographer wanted to convey.. It's sloppy work, sadly. It was not ready to be seen.. It needed more critique.. Sigh.
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  • Nate Riggins · Top Commenter · Owner-Operator at N8Flex
    It's sexist to think that only women suffer from sexism. Women are sometimes even worse. How you all say it? "a real man this", "a real man that" as if you can define it.

    And women cat all the time. They even do it in front of the man's wife/girl.
    • Shwah Kram · Top Commenter
      It's okay if they laughed at it. You are still a real man.
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    • Sarah Hanko-Carter · Top Commenter
      So saying a "real man this or that" (fyi, I don't do that) is worse than being groped? Surely, you jest.
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    • Mela Cabrera · Top Commenter · Project Manager at Tribal Worldwide · 299 followers
      This is not saying that ONLY woman are victims of sexism, it just focused on women because this happens more often on women than men.. But you're right! Men also experience sexism in many ways and it'll be very interesting to see something like this from you guys... You know, instead of just complaining on "Huffington Woman" :)
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