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[–]film_composer 630 ポイント631 ポイント  (209子コメント)

This video makes her seem pretty unhinged, but I feel really bad for her. This is going to be all over the Internet for the next few weeks, and every Buzzfeed/Gawker/Cheezburger site is going to post it and have their own vile commentary to add on. She doesn't seem like a great person (but then again, we're only seeing one side of the story), but the amount of abuse and bullying she's going to get from the Internet is way more than a crazy neighbor deserves.

No one should be subjected to one-sided character assassination like what's about to happen to her, no matter how crazy she may come across. It's still OP's story without any context against hers. Maybe OP has been a belligerent asshole to her in the past and is only playing the quiet "just covering my ass here" role in this video to make her look bad. Maybe OP has a habit of leaving his clothes in the dryer for hours after they're done, and she's already asked him not to do that. The point is, the Internet is going to tear her apart, which is hardly fair given that we know exactly half of this story.

[–]TheUsher 327 ポイント328 ポイント  (65子コメント)

but I feel really bad for her

I'm getting so tired of this sentiment. She's a woman having a tantrum over something, and an even bigger one over the outcome. Let's say she just closed the door and waited for the laundry to be out? Then would he have even recorded her, let alone posted it? She kept digging her own hole deeper. Maybe next time she thinks about her actions, and how they make her look.

[–]fecklessness 182 ポイント183 ポイント  (6子コメント)

This 100%. She chose to keep opening the door and be on video. Never had to get to that point if the poor kid could wash his bag of rocks in peace.

[–]sprucenoose 12 ポイント13 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Seriously. My neighbor complains every week when I wash my coin collection. Am I to be expected to clean every one of my fifty state quarters by hand?

[–]dukerustfield 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Am I to be expected to clean every one of my fifty state quarters by hand?

There's a 50 shades of gray joke here, but I'd get sued and fined if I posted it.

[–]Cozmo23 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Tick tick tick tick tick tick tick...

[–]traugdor 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Seriously, fuck that washer/dryer and it's tickticktickticktick

[–]cculos 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Well that was unexpected hahahah

[–]mponte1979 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

bag of rocks!

[–]myPWis_MyMomIsACunt 13 ポイント14 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Forget feeling bad for her or not - The problem is simply that this video MIGHT not adequately explain the situation, for all we know she might have SOME justification for her emotions. We simply don't know. But the public will get ahold of this video and it will be a witchhunt. Just by reading these comments, its clear that there are a ton of people who believe they have completely and accurately assessed the situation, and will feel completely justified in harassing this woman. It's not right.

Our justice system, at its best, follows "innocent until proven guilty" because that's how civilized people should behave. Unfortunately, it's when facts are viewed through a lens of bias (like just viewing the video and passing hasty judgment from that alone) that corruption of justice occurs, and mob rule takes over, and potentially hurts innocent people. Lets be civilized, people. This is really nobody's business except those who can lawfully admister justice. No good comes from OP sharing this with the world.

[–]SexyLittleWolf45 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

 I zink, before ve go round killing people, we had better confirm the fact that young Frankenstein is indeed following in his grandfather's woodstaps!

[–]newnamepls 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (0子コメント)

My 2 year old has tantrums. I still feel bad for her even though they are annoying. Tantrums and anger are immature, but they are still emotional experiences that you can "feel bad" that the person has to go through. Even if it's their own fault. You can see that and still recognize the power of anger.

[–]MagicallyMalicious 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'm with you. If you're behaving in a way that warrants videotaping, and you then request NOT to be recorded, that should be an indication that your behavior is inappropriate.

I'm a chick, and an emotionally mercurial one at that. But, after I embarrassed myself a couple of times, I've learned to shut my mouth and walk away to avoid looking like a crazy bitch.

I empathize with her, we don't know her side of the story...but she needs to learn some decorum if she wants to be taken seriously.

[–]Mlackbamba 40 ポイント41 ポイント  (23子コメント)

Growing tired of what sentiment? Having empathy towards another person? Maybe she's suffering from some sort of mental illness, maybe OP who posted the video is a huge dick to her. Or maybe the fact that the camera was on her really scared her. All you have is the explosion and none of the pressure leading up to this. People do stupid shit when their throwing a tantrum.

/u/film_composer feels bad for her. It's not wrong to feel bad for someone else.

This woman needs help, not ridicule. Grow up.

Edit: apparently my post is 'bending reality,' sorry about that next time I won't use so many maybes. There is just a lot of unknowns in this video and all I'm saying is that we shouldn't throw her to the mob when there may be more to understand here.

Whatever happened to "be excellent to each other."

[–]VitaminBComplez 51 ポイント52 ポイント  (12子コメント)

Yep. People get angry, sometimes at stupid shit, be a decent person and don't publicly shame them, it's something redditors who are themselves fighting for internet privacy tend to forget as soon as they have a difficult day.

[–]myPWis_MyMomIsACunt 8 ポイント9 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Exactly this. It's hard to read some of the comments here from people who would just as quickly say they're for things like "justice" and "order." Wildly hypocritical.

[–]snarpy 9 ポイント10 ポイント  (0子コメント)

This is actually the most relevant comment here. Posting this video does absolutely no good to anyone, anywhere, except the poster, and even there it's only done for views and karma.

[–]rb1353 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (2子コメント)

As OP states in the video, she has been like this before. Maybe if she wasn't always so insufferable, the video would have never happened.

Some people won't have sympathy for her, and that's perfectly fine too.

[–]TwoPeopleOneAccount 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

According to OP. Remember that we are only getting one side of the story. For all we know, OP intentionally wound her up and then starting filming and acted like he did nothing wrong. Hell for all we know, this guy has been washing rocks 24/7 for the last year in order to torture this girl and then filmed inevitable break down.

[–]BonsaiedKitten 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

The lengths some people will go to for karma.

[–]ddIbb 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Having video taken while acting like an entitled ass in public is not the same thing as having private communication monitored. She alone is responsible for her actions.

If I was in this situation, I'd also take video to discourage any chance of physical assault on her part. She seems quite unstable. What recourse would this guy have if she tried to hurt him and he had to defend himself? Good luck with no video evidence.

I've seen too many cases of people getting violent where the only reason they were held accountable was because of the video.

Edit: And according to OP, this wasn't the first time this had happened. I can understand letting this slide with no video once...maybe twice, but after that, I'd be looking for some way to hold her accountable for her actions. Video seems like a good way to do it. If she doesn't want to be filmed, she can go back inside her apartment and close the door.

[–]inquiring__mind 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Public shaming can help someone realize they shouldn't get angry at stupid shit.

[–]Dreamworld-shade -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

nope, I don't get crazy angry like that.Especially never at a polite person just standing there doing their laundry. Don't lump the rest of us in the same crazy basket.

Yes she deserved to be publicly shamed.Maybe now she'll learn the hard way that's not how you behave.And she'll come out of it a better human being.

[–]ITS_CAKE_TIME 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

That is pretty harsh considering we don't know the full story. The video started with her already in pissed off mode. You are a very unsympathetic and closed minded person if you cannot imagine an instance in which the reaction is understandable.

[–]ddIbb -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Having video taken while acting like an entitled ass in public is not the same thing as having private communication monitored. She alone is responsible for her actions.

If I was in this situation, I'd also take video to discourage any chance of physical assault on her part. She seems quite unstable. What recourse would this guy have if she tried to hurt him and he had to defend himself? Good luck with no video evidence.

I've seen too many cases of people getting violent where the only reason they were held accountable was because of the video.

[–]ITS_CAKE_TIME 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

That doesn't excuse putting it on the internet to ridicule her. Maybe the building has rules on doing laundry at a certain time. Maybe he does it on purpose because she gave him a hard time about it before. She is extremely angry over the incident... She is clearly either mentally ill, or he provoked the reaction out of her. Either way the guy is a dick for putting it on the internet.

[–]VitaminBComplez 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yes having the video in case something happens is ok, the issue is uploading it to the internet and publicly shaming her.

[–]justsayingguy 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Or both. Crazy people like this who call the cops and cry those crocodile tears get people arrested. Without this video evidence op could have been in some real trouble.

[–]myPWis_MyMomIsACunt 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Thanks for this comment. I agree.

[–]InternetDenizen 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Reddit can be a raging hate machine and with all the weirdos on here this shit shouldn't be posted, period.

[–]soggybooty92 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Grow up.

Tell that to the lady throwing a tantrum.

[–]Dreamworld-shade 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

''maybe,maybe,maybe,maybe''

The sound of someone bending reality to their agenda.
How can you see a video of a someone acting like a frantic dickhead to a polite person then twist it in your mind to the dickhead being the victim and the OP the horrible abuser?

This woman needs help, not ridicule. Grow up.

No she needs to grow up.
''Maybe she's scared''
What the fuck are we, her dad or mother?Is she the bratty teenagers living under our roof? nor reddit, nor OP is supposed to get her any sympathy.
She's an adult woman, if she can't act like an adult, that's her own goddamn fault.

[–]pwntpants 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yeah I agree. Everyone always says this when someone comes off as crazy in a video... "they need help, that's the real problem here. Probably some mental issues." No, a crazy neighbor throwing a temper tantrum most likely doesn't need "help" or have any legitimate mental issues. People can be whiny brats without being mentally impaired. She needs to just grow the fuck up and realize how ridiculous she's acting.

[–]Mattyrig 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

And when will she get help? Will not sharing this video prod her towards a mental health professional? Most likely not.

[–]ZenZibbeh -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Clearly it's an occurring thing. OP has said this happened in the past.

You are trying to tell me that you would take getting shouted at day in day our while you get the cops called on you? Please...

[–]Super_Asshole -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Oh, fuck you. You're saying it's immature to assume this woman is just an asshole instead of assuming she 'needs help?' You're a fucking moron and people like you are the reason nobody thinks they are responsible for their own behavior anymore.

[–]Viddion -3 ポイント-2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

If anyone needs to grow up its the woman in this video. What help does she need? I know it's hip and cool today to have no one responsible for their actions but she could have walked away when he started recording her or at any time. It's terrifying that people are so weak and soft that every other word has to be a trigger warning or that clapping is traumatic. Good luck America

[–]alohadave 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Who hasn't freaked out about something inconsequential and regretted it later. Most people don't have them recorded and posted for the world to see and laugh at.

[–]capnsouth 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (1子コメント)

maybe at least a few people will start to think twice before they act like this dumb ass in public.

[–]TwoPeopleOneAccount 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

If the punishment fit the crime I might be more inclined to agree. But this video will follow this girl for years, most likely. Random strangers will harass her for a long time. People online will tell her she should kill herself and they will threaten to rape her. People will tell her they are going to rape her and her mother too. People will find out personal information about her and then use that to threaten her and her family and make her feel terrible. And for all we know, she already is emotional unstable. Maybe she has bipolar disorder, borderline personality disorder, who knows. Maybe OP has been harassing her for the last year and she finally had a break down that he conveniently caught on camera. We know nothing about this situation and yet, this girl is going to be bullied and harassed for years to come over a 2-minute freak out. It's going to get really ugly all because she couldn't handle her shit for 2 minutes out of a roughly 80 year lifespan. But fuck her right?

[–]AhabFXseas 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

You're getting tired of people having empathy for someone who is either obviously not doing well mentally/emotionally or is being grossly misrepresented?

[–]SteveAndTheCrigBoys 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

I agree, no sympathy for an adult who throws a tantrum like this.

[–]assfrog -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

why not just crucify her then? Complete worldwide public shaming and character assassination via the Internet isn't much worse. Tantrums should equal life ruin, got it.

[–]ChileConCarney 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Check username

[–]FragileLeglamp 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'm in agreement. While we don't know her story or her battles, she did have a choice to react like she did or to walk away from it. She chose the latter, and now this is the price she's paying for that.

[–]fallschirmjaeger 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Fuck you. You don't know the background of this video. She might be emotionally unstable or even suffer from severe mental illness. Have some fucking empathy.

[–]TheUsher -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Oh the reddit "mental illness" card, played by everyone all the time. Maybe she's just a big fucking baby. Oh no, impossible.

[–]fallschirmjaeger 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

She basically breaks down into a sobbing, screaming mess because someone decided to do their laundry. That's not being a baby, that's being mentally ill.

What do you think is the correct course of action in this situation? I'm dying to hear it. Whip out your phone and start recording her for the entire internet to see? Or maybe try to calm her down a bit, try to find out what her gigantic problem is, in a civil manner?

I know you're a mighty, cynical keyboard warrior, but at least try to have a bit of empathy.

[–]sangriadvx 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

You're right, but justice-wise she's getting punished pretty brutally for being only being a cunt.

[–]protoleg 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Just imagine how a tribal society would deal with her...I'm no expert but I wouldn't be surprised if they shamed her or made her live in a cave in the woods as the crazy crone. Sometimes people need to be embarrassed I think.

[–]JakeLunn 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

If she was mentality ill would you think the same thing or do you have that standard for every person? If she was of sound mind then I would agree with you but it seems like she definitely could not be.

[–]anonanon_sir 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I think his point was that the consequences of her actions will outweigh the damage her actions caused.

[–]meatspin27 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

You have no idea why she's having a tantrum though. For all we know OP has been pushing her buttons and tormenting her and this is the reaction when she couldn't take it anymore. Not saying that's what happened, but it seems no less likely than OP's story. I wouldn't be so quick to publicly shame this person based on the story of someone who quite obviously is commenting from a position of bias.

[–]Teanut 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yeah, should have handled it through building management or started recording him instead of freaking out.

[–]Palindromer101 -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Yes, this, actions speak a lot louder than words. Although, she was screaming pretty loud.

[–]redundantexplanation -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (1子コメント)

That wasn't a palindrome. YOU'RE LIVING A LIE

[–]Palindromer101 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Are we not pure? “No sir!” Panama’s moody Noriega brags. “It is garbage!” Irony dooms a man; a prisoner up to new era.

[–]Swineflew1 -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

How many fucking times have we seen a one sides story like this, and then it turns out that there's more to the story?
The guy running over the bikers comes to mind.

[–]FakeWings -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

To me it doesn't seem like someone just being a jerk, it sounds like someone who clearly has some real mental issues. I can't really make a clear judgement without more info.

[–]DBDB7398 -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Sounds like something an adult would do. She is a grown child.

[–]paid__shill -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I think he's misrepresenting it by suggesting that this was about her wanting his laundry out, if you listen to what she's saying and the noise the thing is making she's more likely being driven crazy by the noise, and presumably has been for a long period.

[–]catalyzt64 -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

She also appears to be mentally ill so this needs to be taken in account

edit:

downvoted because people want to attack her and not put any thought into the fact that she might be mentally ill - it's just easier to attack back and give it no thought

this actually is how animals act

some of you need to go watch

This is Water

[–]IndominusRex -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (2子コメント)

She seems to be legit mentally ill so yeah. I'd feel bad for her. Everyone who judges her now is not going to be coming from the hell of irrationality that mental illness sticks you in so it's pretty easy to say all kinds of crap about her if you can't relate. She needs help before she actually hurts someone or herself.

[–]TheUsher 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

She seems to be legit mentally ill

You have literally no proof of that, other than an adult screaming and yelling she's going to sue somebody. None. Your assumption then is no better than mine.

[–]IndominusRex 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yep, but it's why I feel empathy for her in this situation.

[–]lady-lilith -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Accountability - what a novel idea!

[–]funnygreensquares -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

You're getting really tired of compassion? I'm sorry.

[–]HODOR00 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I mean I just feel like there has to be more to this. If there's not. I don't really care what happens. But the girl does seem mentally ill. Assuming we have the facts correct.

[–]Assh0le_Comments 358 ポイント359 ポイント  (26子コメント)

Well then maybe she'll be less of a cunt in the future...

[–]LTmad 256 ポイント257 ポイント  (19子コメント)

It appears you missed the point he was making...

[–]TiboQc 42 ポイント43 ポイント  (0子コメント)

It appears you missed the comment author's username...

[–]Freezerburn 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

If you raise your voice to call attention to yourself then maybe someone recording you throwing a tantrum isn't so weird. I know if I go out drinking and get in a fight it might be recorded by a person. If I'm in a hallway yelling so loud that other people in the apartment can hear me then I'd accept I'm out of line. When she started lying about suing someone over recording her I knew that was bullshit. I know long as you don't have expectation of privacy such as a bathroom I can record you. So not only is she acting like a fool, she talk like one too. If you're having an argument with someone and they bust out a phone to record and you don't want any of that, just walk away. This isn't the behavior of an adult and I won't put my fingers in my ears going la la la.

[–]NoizeUK 129 ポイント130 ポイント  (7子コメント)

Still shouldn't act like a cunt.

[–]soggybooty92 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I feel like the only reason she's getting any kind of benefit of the doubt in this situation is because she's a girl.

[–]THE_SPLOOGER_69 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (0子コメント)

dw, it's just the blubber whales defending her. She's is a cunt.

[–]Awesomeade 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Everybody acts like a cunt sometimes, and they are well within their rights to do so.

[–]NeverBeenStung -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Hmm. Nvm, no use with you guys.

[–]AQUA2 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Since when are you faggots so sensitive anyway? I guess it's the whole find a way to blame the victim thing

[–]FrostyD7 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Sounds like 2 great points were made. Its a shame she might be humiliated, but she also shouldn't be a cunt.

[–]sprucenoose -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

There are some cunt-worthy actions out there, but they are few in number.

[–]AndersonOllie 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

No it's ok, they're Australian.

[–]tyrion_targaryen 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

It appears you missed the commenter's username.

[–]DerangedGecko 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

His name is Assh0le_Comments ;)

[–]TheReverendWillyG 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

no crazy no video

[–]soggybooty92 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Fuck that.

If you don't want people to see you're shitty then don't be shitty.

Play stupid games, get stupid prizes.

[–]capitoloftexas 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I think you missed the point of his user name.

[–]BrooksAndRedWasHere -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

his user name is the key

[–]Jerameme -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

It appears she was acting a cunt.

[–]sin-eater82 -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Look at their username.

[–]pineapplesofdoom 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Well she is not going to achieve ego death and start acting like a humane human from -not- getting her melt down in a wife beater published on the net.

[–]Blond_Treehorn_Thug 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Appropriate username

[–]Shoola -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (1子コメント)

You haven't demonstrated to her that her behavior is wrong, you've merely intimidated her into acting a certain way - sort of like what she's trying to do here.

[–]Assh0le_Comments 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I really don't see how I'm obligated to show her that being a fat cunt is unacceptable behavior.

[–]organicgardener 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Note to self: no matter if I'm right or wrong, don't make a complete fool of myself in front of a camera - it will come back to bite me and I will be judged.

[–]Shaats 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

While I competently agree with the internet people's tendency to take a side and ridicule a person, this video doesn't portray just one side. Regardless of any annoying behavior Op could have been up to, stomping around and screaming threats at him was definitely less likely to yield the results she wanted. Hell, it could have been 2 am and she could have asked him nicely to stop the wash multiple times (maybe she had work in the morning) but there is no excuse to act this way. Op was clearly calm and Its likely that if she talked in a calm manor, rather than threatening fake frivolous lawsuits with a *fake lawyer she may have gotten what she wanted, or at least spared herself from being publicly embarrassed for her own actions. They say you get more bees with honey than vinegar, and this bitch's honey reserves seem to have been depleted and crusted over for a while now.

I also don't understand how some people use the police as societies mommy, "I'm calling the cops on you because I want to do my laundry now!!" The police have better things to do. Don't bother them with petty bullshit like this when they could be keeping society safe. Imagine If that officer who saved that boy with CPR the other day was on a call about two tenants arguing over who gets to do laundry first?

*no halfway decent lawyer that could win a case would listen to this lady screaming on the phone without charging her 150/hr for it. She was lying about her lawyer, and if she tries to sue over this video for defamation or slander, the video will be irrefutable evidence that it's true.

[–]mofukkinbreadcrumbz 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Found the crazy neighbor.

[–]Bacon_Hero 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

To be fair, if she hadn't acted like a psychotic freak then it wouldn't have been plastered on the internet.

[–]Arch_0 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

She knew she was being recorded and carried on being crazy.

[–]irishcream240 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Oh just stop

[–]ImThatGuy42 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (1子コメント)

k

[–]m-jay 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Y

[–]reddit_crunch 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

she sets off my very reliable cray-cray-dar, OP did the right thing covering his ass and recording the encounter.

posting to youtube seems excessive, if it had to be done, a simple face blur would have put most ethical concerns to bed.

[–]NothappyJane 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

What a bunch of shit. She has the words to request he fixes whatever is bothering her, but she's behaving like a threatening asshole. She could say whatever her problem is without all the screaming and manipulation of lawsuits and police. When she gets I the phone to police you can clearly hear there's no actual compliant she can actually put together other then "he's recording me" . She's absolutely having a tantrum and I don't feel sorry for unreasonable people.

[–]TONS_OF_DAMAGEZ 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

She didn't have to be in the video if she didn't want to. Regardless if the guy was acting like an asshole or not, if you know you are being recorded there is no reason for you to act like that. Also if she had a problem with him there is a landlord for a reason. Calling the cops over someone doing there laundry is kind of crazy imo.

[–]AsthmaticHummingbird 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I don't really see how this video is getting so much traction when it's literally just a guy filming a crying girl on the phone.

I've had crazy neighbors, so I believe she probably did freak out over nothing, but unfortunately he didn't catch any of that on tape.

Uploading it was probably not the best idea either. He did it just because he was angry and wanted people to agree with him.

[–]rblue 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

When she cried I felt legitimately bad for her.

[–]markrod420 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Stop being such a pussy. Everyone just wants to be nice all the time. Dont hurt anyones feelings. Dont color outside the lines. Fuck that, and fuck irrational crazy bitches too lol.

[–]meatspin27 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

This. To me this reeks of OP trying to use reddit as a pawn in some petty war he's got going on with his neighbour and judging by the comments people are eating it right up. For all we know OP tormented her to the point of despair and then started filming, yet most people here seem ready to call her crazy, mock her and generally say some really mean things about her. It's fucked up.

[–]FoxBattalion79 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

nah, she is clearly not afraid of running her mouth off at OP. saying things like "I've sued someone for this and they totally lost" is not the sort of thing a victim usually says. it is more of a threat. she is probably upset that OP is using the obnoxiously loud dryer too early in the morning. it would piss anyone off.

[–]sgebvb 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I agree. The fact alone that OP chose to put her on public display makes me despise him.

Record her behavior, show it to your lawyer, play it in front of a judge if she takes him to court... that's all fine by me but exposing someones weakest moments for the world to see for a laugh and internet points is truly pathetic and disgraceful.

Shame on you /u/Richterzscale

[–]assoncouchouch 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Worth considering

[–]clsbabe 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Sorry. Tough shit. We have to pay the consequences for bad behavior. This is one of the reasons I don't act like a crazy person even though I'd like to.

[–]Tyberius36 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Sooo many way ways for her to handle that problem than having that kind of a reaction. 'Hey can you try to do laundry during x:00 to y:00' is more acceptable than threatening to sue and then crying when you get recorded. I'm sick of people playing devil's advocate and being an angel by trying to negate the fundamental attribution error when what you find is that rational level headed people do not behave like this even on their worst day.

[–]Meziroth 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Anyone who calls 911 and ties up the lines/emergency services for BS like this is a verified POS. People like this cost municipalities $ and valuable time other, endangered people don't have.

Let her burn at the stake for this, that phone call was her choice.

[–]bloodklat 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Twist: OP is a dickhead and uses the drier late at night. That pisses this woman off since he's done it several times before and it keeps her kids awake. Would make her reaction more reasonable. I want to hear her side.

[–]catalyzt64 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Ignorant childish people who really aren't much better than her are going to participate in this and that is why shows like Jerry Springer are popular. It's the redneck soap opera and the funniest thing about it is each party involved thinks the other one is acting crazy or out of line when every single person involved in what I've called the redneck soap opera for many years are part of the redneck soap opera.

People who just listen to one side of the story and accept what they are told are what keep the crappy news agencies going. They are easily inflammed and incited. It is ridiculous.

If you are in a redneck soap opera you are part of the redneck soap opera

[–]run5k 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Considering OP has dodged all the relevant questions asking what happened, I think he's probably in the wrong and likely a fucking asshole / bully. Right now all we have is a video with zero background information on the events that led up to this.

[–]jreid42 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

What you are describing is very rationale. Sadly the internet has no need of that sort of thing.

[–]Kinsata 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I absolutely agree with you, but in an age where absolutely everything is sharable, knowing that any personal breakdowns like this one could go viral should be deterring it from happening.

Vitamin C deficiency leading to scurvy? Lime on Boats.

HIV sexually spread? Promotion of Condoms.

Everyone on the planet seeing you throw a temper tantrum when you're old enough to rent your own apartment? Stop, doing that?

[–]justsayingguy 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Or you know, maybe she deserve all that hate. She did not want to be recorded because she knew she was being the asshole right? It's all speculation granted but the way she acted in the video shows a tale of a crazy bitch.

[–]VonBrewskie 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

What a world eh? Where people actually acted less like entitled little shits because everyone has a camera within easy reach to embarass the shit out of them with? Ah. A man can dream.

[–]kingeryck 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

True. But all she had to do was close her door.

[–]Dreamworld-shade 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

if it was a man acting like a total ass no one would think twice but because it's a ''her'' everything changes?
get the fuck out of here with your sexism

[–]BoSquared 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

She called the police over laundry and a perfectly legal video and threatened to sue, claiming she's done it before.

I think we have the whole story here.

[–]Rileymadeanaccount 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Uh fuck no she called the police and her lawyer for what appears to be nothing.. fuck that fat Fuck

[–]clayism 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

AMA REQUEST: CRAZY LAUNDRY NEIGHBOR GIRL!

[–]defsubs 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Honestly the way I see it there are Billions of people on earth. If you want to be a cunt then prepared to be labeled as such and treated accordingly. I don't have time to give ever cunt the benefit of the doubt. Frankly I just don't give a fuck what their reasoning is for being such a cunt. I want to agree with you on your main point about how the amount of negative attention she will now receive is unfair. However the reality I live in isn't a fair place. Life isn't fair. The earlier in life people learn that better off they are.

[–]LarsThorwald 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

There is a new book out by Jon Ronson called "So You've Been Publicly Shamed," examining the issue of disproportionate shaming in today's society. Worth a read.

[–]pfunkk 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I disagree, I have encountered crazy and it landed me a nice lawyer fee and a criminal court case when I never did anything wrong. Some people deserve what is coming to them.

[–]ToothGnasher 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Buzzfeed/Gawker

If anything, they'll just accuse the OP of literally raping her.

[–]bullet4mv92 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Even if OP was a complete twat and had done all those things you said, the fact that she's this hysterical and is calling the cops/her lawyer and threatening to sue him over LAUNDRY makes her a psycho bitch.

[–]Excess_Sexy -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Yes, reddit and the internet in general is highly reactionary, even though most people will have acted like this at some point in their lives.

[–]sternford 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (0子コメント)

The internet is a powerful tool for ruining people's lives over their mistakes

[–]kissmeimcumming 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Maybe your crazy ass will. You should speak for yourself.

[–]LehrUndKunst -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

you're a good person. this seems like part of the viral phenomenon that gets ignored usually

[–]Chungadoop -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Thanks SJW!

[–]Ninja47 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Monica Lewinsky did a TED talk about public shaming. I'm not comparing what the two of them did, just letting people know about an interesting, relevant talk.

[–]GiddyHorace 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

This should really be higher. A kind of deranged savagery seems to take over some people when things like this emerge. It's like watching a ravenous pack of hyenas. I don't think I'll ever begin to fathom why people can't just consider the possible context for a second. Things aren't/shouldn't be as simple as 'she's a bitch twat from hell, let's get her!!!'.

[–]letmemake1 -3 ポイント-2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Thanks, I love seeing comments like this in posts that seem designed to collectively bully someone.

[–]knullbulle -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Cheezburger

Well, she certainly doesnt need any more cheezburger

[–]Zenodice -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Ah modern feminism, where even if someone is acting like an irrational psychopathic child, if she's female, it must still be a man's fault somehow despite no evidence supporting the case.

Because we "feel" like he must have triggered her somehow right?

[–]LukaTheSecond -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I disagree. You gon' act like a fat bitch, you gon' get treated like a fat bitch.

[–]Musketeer_91 -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

dat white knighting. If it was a male I but you'd feel entirely different

[–]burajin -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Should have blurred her face.

[–]rarelyamused -5 ポイント-4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Her and every other person that's been torn apart on the internet for the last ten years. I get your meaning, but it's not like she'll be the first and she definitely won't be the last. She should have just shut up, gone back in her apartment and closed the door if she didn't want to be filmed. :/

[–]GrimTerra -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

So..? People judge people, don't want people judging you then you shouldn't be losing it on people when you are fully aware that you live in a world full of cameras to upload shit to the internet.

[–]TheHoundFox -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

It isn't a character assassination. Her character clearly committed suicide some time ago.