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[–]2bABeeYour #1 best friend -3 ポイント-2 ポイント  (42子コメント)

That's a fucking red flag if I ever saw one.

[–]tokengingerkiddaccept no imitations 12 ポイント13 ポイント  (26子コメント)

don't be bitter. let them be happy today.

[–]2bABeeYour #1 best friend 9 ポイント10 ポイント  (25子コメント)

I'm not bitter. I'm just sad she is delusional enough to think someone saying "I am open with my feelings" means something. Plus the 'not like other guys' is so basic bitch boy.

The way he said it shows that isn't isn't open with his feelings. Nobody fucking brags about being a healthy communicator...except people who can't communicate well.

[–]teknoise 12 ポイント13 ポイント  (6子コメント)

At first I was like "damn, that's a little cynical", but ya the 'not like other guys' line is an eye roller for sure.

[–]mcknazzy[S] -5 ポイント-4 ポイント  (5子コメント)

Maybe to you, but I can't tell you how refreshing it is to me.

[–]yinzcity29/half man half amazing 6 ポイント7 ポイント  (3子コメント)

I'm not like other guys, mcknazzy

See, any asshole can say that

[–]Lilcheeks32/Bro/Massachusetts 9 ポイント10 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'm not your average special snowflake, brah.

I like to travel AND netflix

[–]mcknazzy[S] -3 ポイント-2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

He's not just saying it though. He is different from other guys, at least most of the ones I come accross. Why is it so hard to believe or accept that someone, somewhere is a sincere person?

[–]Justreallylovespussy 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's because of the way he says it. It's very self righteous and frankly yelling someone else how great and different you are is fucking weird.

[–]teknoise 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Fair point. If you like it, you like it!

[–]tokengingerkiddaccept no imitations 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (10子コメント)

i am waiting for the day that you are open with your feelings.

[–]RanTheRedCedarDirty 30/Man/SL,UT 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (8子コメント)

Did you nuke your other account? I just noticed the second d.

[–]tokengingerkiddaccept no imitations 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (7子コメント)

i nuked tokengingerkid a year ago. I scrubbed 44calibre because i want to use it other places and not link to here.

[–]RanTheRedCedarDirty 30/Man/SL,UT 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (2子コメント)

People who know their google fu can still link 44calibre to here. Just sayin.

[–]tokengingerkiddaccept no imitations 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

STOP PEEING IN MY CHEERIOS

[–]RanTheRedCedarDirty 30/Man/SL,UT 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

You thought that was milk in them?

[–]kharper4289I lift therefore I am a douchebro 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

How do you scrub? Manually? or python?

[–]2bABeeYour #1 best friend -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (2子コメント)

WHO ISN'T OPEN WITH THEIR FEELINGS NOW?!?!

[–]tokengingerkiddaccept no imitations 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (1子コメント)

I AM A GINGER, I DON'T HAVE FEELINGS JUST LIKE I DON'T HAVE A SOUL.

[–]2bABeeYour #1 best friend -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

At least you're honest about it.

Or do you wear contacts to cover your soulless eyes?

[–]2bABeeYour #1 best friend -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I am very open with my feelings.

It's just that women keep assuming I have ones that aren't there.

[–]wiseoracleA/S/L?? 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

It's too bad because that person just did brag about it. Deal with it.

[–]2bABeeYour #1 best friend 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I am dealing with it, by warning OP that it is a red flag.

[–]sandithrow 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (3子コメント)

This is ridiculous. Some people have accurate assessments of themselves. And some people are good communicators. And some people combine both. Don't be a not-so-basic bitch and reject a statement simply because it is cliche and often hollow.

[–]2bABeeYour #1 best friend -3 ポイント-2 ポイント  (2子コメント)

"YOU CAN BE A WINNER!!!"

Excuse me while I go buy some lottery tickets now. Becase some numbers win, and some numbers win BIG.

[–]sandithrow 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Too often you make good points but fail to do so in a balanced way and undermine your own authority.

[–]2bABeeYour #1 best friend 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'm a jackass on the internet. Why the fuck would I think I had authority?

[–]mcknazzy[S] -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

This isn't our only conversation, and it's not the first time he has been very open. It is, however, the first time he ever mentioned being that way. Also, not very nice to assume I'm delusional. Them's strong words!

[–]Esotastic"You're the first girl I've met on OKCupid." 9 ポイント10 ポイント  (5子コメント)

"I'm not like the other boyz!"

Ugh.

[–]mcknazzy[S] -4 ポイント-3 ポイント  (4子コメント)

Thing is, he's not.

[–]yinzcity29/half man half amazing 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

And what are other boys like, exactly?

[–]Esotastic"You're the first girl I've met on OKCupid." 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Maybe I'm just cynical, but I feel like that's something that's far more effective when it's shown rather than told. To assert that comes across, to me, as nigh-on posturing.

Either way, if the situation makes you happy, then the opinion of some stranger doesn't matter.

[–]proofrawk26/F/NYC/"drama-fueled hellbeast" 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

How old are you?

[–]yinzcity29/half man half amazing 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Comments say 18, post history says 41

[–]Maladjust--Rating: 100% 6 ポイント7 ポイント  (7子コメント)

"Mutual Excitement Is A Red Flag." should be the name of your book.

[–]2bABeeYour #1 best friend -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (6子コメント)

The red flag is the bullshit phrase. Plus her reply. It's indicative of two people who are following a rom com script because they don't have any words of their own.

[–]Maladjust--Rating: 100% 8 ポイント9 ポイント  (3子コメント)

Not everyone is applying academic rigor and editing to their casual texting, you twat.

[–]2bABeeYour #1 best friend -3 ポイント-2 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Way to totally miss the point, country hick.

Which is that telling someone you like them is not 'open with your feelings' anymore than be jogging three block is 'running a marathon.'

[–]Maladjust--Rating: 100% 6 ポイント7 ポイント  (1子コメント)

This is why people hate marathoners. If someone told you they went for a run, and you scoff because it was only a mile, the problem isn't with them for only being able to run a mile, the problem is that you're a douchebag for assuming everyone should already be at your level of fitness. They're fucking trying.

These two are probably just young and naive and earnest.

[–]2bABeeYour #1 best friend -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Post history shows they are 40.

[–]mcknazzy[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Seriously? Wow. People think they know everything about everyone.

[–]2bABeeYour #1 best friend 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's more like that 95% of people's behaviour is 100% predictable.

[–]StalinWasAJerk31/m/CT/ 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

"I like you"

OMG SUCH A RED FLAG!!!!