to the waitress who seated me at a bigger table

It is not acceptable to insist that I wouldn’t be able to fit at a ‘normal’ table. To you, I may look like a buttergolem, but I still have feelings and I can feel hurt by your inconsiderate suggestions. 

I realize myself that the ‘normal’ tables and chairs were too narrow for my body. However, I like to make decisions myself. I would’ve changed seats after trying to sit at a smaller table. There’s no need to coddle me.

I will never go back to your restaurant because I felt harassed and triggered by your actions.