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[–]ggsacks 12 ポイント13 ポイント  (11子コメント)

This is really fucking creepy, just by the way.

[–]PigeonProwler 6 ポイント7 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I think it's a great idea! OP should ensure that all his friends wear their most expensive watches, and bring their laptops, and cell phones, and a lot of cash.

[–]LuchiniMontenegro[S] -5 ポイント-4 ポイント  (9子コメント)

How so

[–]ggsacks 9 ポイント10 ポイント  (7子コメント)

HOW SO?

You're asking strangers (WARNING SIGN) on the internet (WARNING SIGN) to come to a private bachelor party (WARNING SIGN) in a hotel (WARNING SIGN), with the only criteria being: female (WARNING SIGN), while giving absolutely no information about yourself (WARNING SIGN).

Women at a bachelor party generally consist of:

1) people you actually know/are friends with

2) strippers

3) prostitutes

Basically, this sounds a lot like you're looking for someone to gang rape. If you don't actually know any women that you can invite, that in itself is a pretty massive red flag.

[–]LuchiniMontenegro[S] -5 ポイント-4 ポイント  (6子コメント)

We have girls already coming, We have the works in place.

We are looking for girls to fill out suite, balance out the guy to girl ratio

[–]PigeonProwler 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (3子コメント)

Can you let us know if any of your friends are cops, trained in martial arts, or tend to carry weapons?

[–]LuchiniMontenegro[S] -3 ポイント-2 ポイント  (2子コメント)

None of the above, we are all regular guys in our mid. 20s, if you are a female and are seriously interested PM me and ill give u all the details you need.

[–]PigeonProwler 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Alright, since you're obviously not getting it - aside from the creep factor from a woman's perspective, you are also setting yourselves up to be robbed and/or taken advantage of in a multitude of ways that I won't get into detail here.

I know you're "young", but you should really be a little more smart about your personal safety, your friends' enjoyment, and understanding that no one wins when you invite complete strangers to your party.

Did you ask your friend what he wants to do? It's his bachelor party - I can't think of a single person I know that would want to celebrate a special occasion with a bunch of strangers.

[–]LuchiniMontenegro[S] -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

We can take care of ourselves, and Im not releasing any information on the location or anything until I can verify a person, Im a college educated person, I understand the risk and safety just thought this will help out reach out to people

[–]sokpuppet1 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (1子コメント)

What a normal person does:

"Hey, Girl-I-Know-Who-Has-Agreed-To-Come-To-This-Terrible-Idea, do you have a friend who might like my buddy so-and-so? He'll be at the party. Why don't you invite her along."

What a person who hasn't thought any of this through does:

"Hey random stranger on the internet who may be a drug addict, alcoholic, human disease laboratory, or someone who might get a bit too drunk to shove off unwanted advances from my equally drunk friends, resulting in possible criminal rape charges and lifelong consequences, would you like to come to the party?"

[–]PigeonProwler 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Meanwhile, I feel like this is a great opportunity for a bunch of people to roll up and rob and/or rape this group of drunk idiots.

God, are we old or have we watched too much Law & Order?

[–]Chops211 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'm assuming your the craigslist killer, now to be dubbed reddit killer.

Just pick up girls at a bar or get a prostitute off backpages. Done and done.

[–]sokpuppet1 6 ポイント7 ポイント  (3子コメント)

Wow. Dude, this is very creepy. Let me count the ways.

  1. Dude is getting married. Yet you're setting up a hook up environment. Not cool. Strippers? Sure. Everyone knows the boundaries. Random strangers... this is how Law & Order SVU episodes start.

  2. Let me emphasize again. Random strangers. Your only filter? They need to be female. Lets call this what it is. You're not looking for females to "attend." This is not a TED talk. You're looking for DTF... with people you've never met, who have never met you, who may be carriers of all sorts of venereal diseases, including the ones not easily prevented by condoms.

  3. Again. Your asking for random strangers to come to a drunken party with a bunch of guys in a hotel room. If this doesn't sound creepy to you-- from both perspectives--you've got a very warped understanding of human relations.

I could go on, but they all pretty much reiterate the same points.

[–]LuchiniMontenegro[S] -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Wow, tell me how you really feel

[–]sokpuppet1 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Look, I get it. A bachelor party feels too gay to you without females. That's why guys hire strippers. And in truth, it's way better. Because the reality is, you're not going to get that super-awesome-smokes weed-and-fucks-for-fun-cool-girl to answer this invitation. If anyone, you'll get someone who is quite a bit off, because someone of sound mind and body would see the obvious dangers and pitfalls of the situation. And as fun as some crazy girl might sound... chances are something bad will happen. Someones shit will get stolen, someones getting herps, worst case scenario, epic shit goes down that results in this wedding getting cancelled. None of this stuff is unforeseeable.

The advantage of a stripper-- they're willing to do exactly what is expected. No surprises. And they have clear boundaries (related to what you're willing to pay, normally) that prevent situations from getting out of hand. I've had strippers at bachelor parties hang out, smoke weed, play beer pong and everything else. A stripper can absolutely be cool if you hire the right one and say what you want beforehand.

Take this advice or leave it. Either way, let us know what ends up happening because I'm fascinated by the made-for-tv-movie potential.

[–]LuchiniMontenegro[S] [非表示スコア]  (0子コメント)

Well we have strippers coming, so we dont need girls to come in and strip for us, like i said entertainment has already been taken care of now we just need to fill up the hotel suite

[–]PigeonProwler 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Damnit, my friends and I are only available on the 38th.

[–]LuchiniMontenegro[S] -5 ポイント-4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Thank you for making me aware of my mistake!

[–]EggbroHam [非表示スコア]  (0子コメント)

So you just want me and my girlfriends to come and party with you? Sounds reasonable. How much does it pay?

[–]paratactical [非表示スコア]  (0子コメント)

I hope OP reports back with how this goes.

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