Anonymous asked:
Hello, I'm sorry if this has somehow been answered before but I'm overwhelmed by all the information on this blog. x.x So forgive me if I make a faux pas. I read that you consider PIV and PIA problematic in general and I wondered how hetero sex should look like in your opinion to not be problematic. Do you suggest to abolish PIV (and PIA) all together? What would you replace it with? This question is not ironic. I'm really wondering. Sorry if this was offensive and thank you for reading
Hi there. There can be no ethical or un-oppressive PIV within patriarchy (and subsequently the hierarchy of gender).
Our goal is not to abolish PIV, but rather to abolish patriarchy and gender and remove the skewed oppressive power dynamics from PIV all together.
I’m not sure that heterosexual PIA would even exist in a post-patriarchical world.
-Abigail