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[–]creep_with_mustache 23 ポイント24 ポイント  (78子コメント)

[serious] how is this sexist? I'm sorry, I come from a difficult background..

[–]Cheerful-as-fuck 165 ポイント166 ポイント  (31子コメント)

It suggests that women need to be reminded to give sex for a man's benefit and that men are incapable of not cheating if they aren't getting any.

[–]TwistedPerson 38 ポイント39 ポイント  (0子コメント)

If the advice was made gender neutral it'd be pretty good advice, since a lack of sexual intimacy is definitely a major cause and sign of failing relationships.

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    [–]enceladus7 18 ポイント19 ポイント  (1子コメント)

    To be fair a racist joke doesn't stop being racist when it's a joke.

    [–]RaisedByEnts -3 ポイント-2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Yes it does, when the racism is the joke. All jokes use a setup to target an assumption with a punch. The individual working parts come together and tell the joke. One or more parts of the joke can be racist and not result in a racist joke. It's all in the complete joke, and it's also all in the parts.

    [–]celocanth13 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    This is probably the flimsiest excuse ever trotted out in response to a bigoted joke.

    [–]nubfilter -4 ポイント-3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    They DO need to be reminded of this. And also don't get fat.

    [–]reddly 22 ポイント23 ポイント  (44子コメント)

    This pic puts the responsibility of "men cheating" on women, as though it is somehow their fault when they know men lack self control.

    Basically the former is the same "blame the victim" mentality, while the latter claims men have no self control and can't help themselves.

    Edited the first sentence for clarity. Gender doesn't matter, I just stuck with the genders provided in the picture.

    [–]Grappindemen 12 ポイント13 ポイント  (5子コメント)

    Also, it pretends that men are mindless drones that cannot function when without sex for too long.

    [–]FORCEY-FUNTIME -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (4子コメント)

    You have absolutely no idea what built-up testosterone does to man. No idea, at all.

    [–]Righteousbros 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    I do, and it's not that bad to be honest. Maybe pick up a hobby, like woodworking or hockey. Good way to get your mind off of sex for a few hours.

    [–]TheRandomkid321 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (2子コメント)

    You have absolutely no idea what built-up testosterone does to some men.

    [–]FORCEY-FUNTIME -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (1子コメント)

    Fair enough. I suppose, I should have specified "men who have balls".

    [–]TheRandomkid321 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    I'm personally intimidated by the thought of sexual encounters. Then again my balls are in constant agony due to a surgery complication so I GUESS for the sake of fair argument I can't argue further...

    [–]Itisarepost 29 ポイント30 ポイント  (7子コメント)

    TRIGGERED!!

    [–]hopsinduo 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Are you fucking sorry?

    [–]Veggiemon 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    lol dank meme 11/10 with rice dae hate sjws errytime??

    [–]celocanth13 -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (3子コメント)

    That triggers me lol! Shitlord! Hahahaha as a sandwhich-kin I am reporting you to tumblr RIGHT NOW. Right, you guys? Haha you don't get it because you are Cis scum. Stop raping me! Do you guys get what I'm doing? It's like on tumblr. They're so goofy on there and I think it's goofy to make fun of them for saying goof ball things because they are skeleton. If you don't know what skeleton is I'll tell you: it's like Hitler had a baby with another Hitler and that baby was also pregnant with Hitler twin babies.

    Hahaha right? Please. Lol. Please accept me. I cannot tell you how important it is that I am vindicated by your upvotes. The loneliness and isolation I feel is, at times, utterly overwhelming. How can I be "privileged" when I feel such incredible marginalization by the peer groups I want so desperately to join, but am not allowed to for reasons I cannot adequately explain? As I mature, I am realizing I am not magnificent, not unique, not even desireable. How does one live with the terrible burden of one's averageness? How does one cope? Tell me. Please.

    I am drowning in a sea of incomprehensible fury.

    [–]kharlos 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    I imagine this picture every time someone tries to initiate a TiA style cirlclejerk

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      [–]celocanth13 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

      It's copypasta

      [–]CCCPAKA -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

      Click click... BOOM!

      [–]Caoimhi 6 ポイント7 ポイント  (7子コメント)

      This pic gives advice to keep your partner satisfied so they don't ever get the idea to look around for something else. It's only offensive if you want to be offended.

      [–]reddly 9 ポイント10 ポイント  (4子コメント)

      People should really stop using the word "offended" every time there is debate. People who object to the status quo are often labeled as "offended" as a means to discourage them from speaking out and discredit them as people who are complaining over something minor.

      There's something much deeper going on here, it's only a simple picture if you choose to see it that way. My comments here are offense to this image in the same vein that self-defense is also assault.

      Why am I writing this to you, a random internet user making an offhand comment on the internet? I don't know, I suppose I've been meaning to say something on the topic but have never been given the chance. Nothing personal, I just needed to vent, thanks for reading.

      [–]cockyjeremy 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

      I'm offended by this.

      [–]reddly 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

      k

      [–]Caoimhi -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (1子コメント)

      While I get your point and on some levels agree. The point I was trying to make is that there is usually more than one way to look at something. If you want to, you can walk around pissed off all the time. Or you can try to view things in the way they were intended. In this case is supposed to be humorous, you get a little chuckle and then you go on with your day. Sure you can analyze it to death and then decide that this is patriarchy propaganda and then be pissed of at the world for laughing at it. A lot of people walk around looking for opportunities to be upset or a victim. I'm just trying to say there is another way.

      [–]reddly 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

      I completely agree and I thought it was a funny comparison , but someone else asked how this was sexist so I tried to explain. This discussion stemmed from there.

      [–]sonofaresiii 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

      Not being satisfied is not an excuse to cheat on your SO, and yeah it's bullshit that this article is implying it's something "men" do.

      "Men" who aren't satisfied discuss the issue in their relationship and try to work it out, and if the issue is irreconciliable they dissolve the relationship before moving on.

      Scumbags do the other thing.

      Similarly, it's not a woman's job to keep her man satisfied, sex and satisfaction should be a mutually beneficial and respectful part of the relationship.

      [–]Caoimhi -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

      I didn't say that it was. I said the picture is a reminder to work at keeping your significant other satisfied. In order to have a happy well adjusted relationship both parties should be working on the satisfaction of their partner. Like I said you can take it as a joke and have a laugh with a bit of a reminder to try to do a better job at home. Or you can get pissed off and miss the point entirely. You have obviously chosen the latter, and that's fine your entitled to make that choice. I don't think it's the right one, but that's none of my buisness.

      [–]fakesoicansayshit 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

      Someone has some deflating to do.

      [–]motion_lotion -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (13子コメント)

      Whine some more. If a man isnt getting any in a relationship, he's going to ditch you or cheat. If there's kids tied up in it, he'll probably lean towards the latter.

      [–]Staple_Sauce 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (10子コメント)

      I'm a bi woman and would happily date a guy I already knew and trusted, but this kinda shit is also so fucking prevalent which makes "meeting men" to date feel like a game of Russian Roulette. Which sucks, because many guys are great. But even though most of the bullet chambers are empty, Russian Roulette is not a game I'm willing to play. I've had some bad experiences with other women, but at least I don't feel like I'm entering a trap.

      Boys with this attitude fuck it up for everyone.

      [–]FORCEY-FUNTIME -4 ポイント-3 ポイント  (9子コメント)

      If you're not fucking, we will fuck someone else. Why shouldn't we? If the problem has been brought up and no solution to relief has been acted upon, why shouldn't we find someone who'll do it for us?

      Newsflash: Women do this shit ALL the fucking time.

      [–]Staple_Sauce 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (8子コメント)

      Newsflash: Women like sex too; if she's not fucking you, she has a reason. You're not entitled to anyone's body.

      If you've tried discussing it and trying to find a solution but the relationship isn't working out, then it may be time to end it and find a new one. If you're into casual sex, that's fine, as long as everyone involved knows what's going on and is okay with it. But why would you think it's okay to betray someone's trust and go behind their back like that?

      [–]FORCEY-FUNTIME -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (7子コメント)

      If he's not paying as much attention to you anymore, he has a reason. You're not entitled to anyone's time. It's a two-way street.

      The trust aspect of sex within a relationship is built upon the explicit or implicit understanding that intimate acts like sex are "sacred" and reserved for those within the relationship. If the sex within the relationship is gone and neither party is willing to work on it, that understanding becomes void. "I trust you not to have sex with anyone else but me." If we're not having sex, trust built around that aspect of the relationship is no longer in play. I'm not stating this as fact. It's just my view of things.

      [–]Staple_Sauce 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (6子コメント)

      If he's not paying as much attention to you anymore, he has a reason. You're not entitled to anyone's time. It's a two-way street.

      Right so in that case, neither party is getting what they want out of the relationship so they should break up, not be dishonest with the other person. Relationships are built on WAY more than just sex. If you're willing to break the person's trust and pretend to maintain a relationship while secretly trashing it, then you don't understand relationships and are not ready for one.

      [–]FORCEY-FUNTIME -3 ポイント-2 ポイント  (5子コメント)

      Right so in that case, neither party is getting what they want out of the relationship so they should break up, not be dishonest with the other person. Relationships are built on WAY more than just sex.

      Read those two sentences again and try to tell me that I "don't understand relationships". Perhaps, you're the ignorant one here who is not ready for the real world of adult relationships. Just a thought.

      [–]Staple_Sauce 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (4子コメント)

      I'm well aware of what it said. If you're not happy, break up. That's it. Why would you stay in an unhappy relationship and make it even more toxic when you'd both be better off with someone new?

      I'm in a happy relationship. My girlfriend's ex got her pregnant, cheated on her when she told him, and then she had a miscarriage. I'm all too familiar with the damage left behind when someone can't be honest and face problems like a respectable adult.

      [–]reddly 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

      No one's saying you shouldn't leave that person if they don't make you happy, hell, I'm not even saying not to cheat, that's none of my business. I'm saying you shouldn't shift the blame to someone else. If you cheat then grow up and take responsibility for your actions, don't try to pin it on someone else.

      There's someone out there for everybody, maybe monogamous relationships just aren't for you. That's perfectly fine.

      [–]FORCEY-FUNTIME -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

      People don't like hearing the truth. It's sad.

      [–]Vibr8gKiwi -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (6子コメント)

      You talk like women aren't cheating too. And are either sex responsible for human nature? Maybe the main fault lies with unrealistic expectations of fidelity from a species that isn't naturally monogamous.

      [–]reddly 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (4子コメント)

      You talk like women aren't cheating too. And are either sex responsible for human nature?

      I never said that, I never even implied that. I'm commenting on the fact that this image shifts blame from the person (regardless of gender) who was not faithful, to the person who did not. If someone cheats on you, it was not your fault for not being [insert expectation] enough, it was their fault for cheating.

      Maybe the main fault lies with unrealistic expectations of fidelity from a species that isn't naturally monogamous.

      You're going over my head here, if you want to have a discussion like this you'll have to look elsewhere.

      [–]waz67 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (2子コメント)

      "Why did you cheat?"

      "Because my wife turned into a bitch-cow".

      "Don't blame it on her, you're the one that cheated!"

      Finding fault is more complex than just the one who cheated being at fault. That's like blaming the person who drank the last drop of milk for being the one who drank "all" the milk.

      [–]reddly 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

      I get what you mean but the image doesn't have some sort of backstory for us to go on, it just gives us a cheater and the person who was cheated on.

      Ps. I didn't downvote you

      [–]waz67 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

      Actually it does have a backstory - it's saying that if you want to keep your husband from cheating, you'd better put out. A lot of people here are saying if a man cheats, it's no one's fault but his own. I'm guessing most of them haven't been in a situation of being in a marriage with a low-libido spouse. It can build a lot of frustration and resentment. I'm just saying it's a lot more complex than "it's all the guy's fault if he cheats".

      [–]Vibr8gKiwi -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

      It's not complicated. I'm suggesting the fault here is in expecting monogamy in the first place. How about we don't go imposing monogamy on everyone as a requirement when we get into relationships? I'm not saying dishonesty is ok, I'm saying monogamy isn't natural for humans and expectations of monogamy is a recipe for failure. How about we go into relationships to be with someone and share their lives, not to restrict their sexuality? If everyone is adult, honest, and upfront about it, not being monogamous isn't "cheating." Cheating is the dishonesty not the sex.

      [–]FORCEY-FUNTIME -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

      Truth, right here!

      [–]little_cock -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

      It isn't the least bit sexist.