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[–]D4rthkitty 245 ポイント246 ポイント247 ポイント 10 時間 前 (15子コメント)
They are a very vocal, but very tiny minority. Like outspoken racist they exist, but they rarely spend time with others not like them
[–]themojofilter 48 ポイント49 ポイント50 ポイント 8 時間 前 (7子コメント)
This is the truth.
[–]BlakeSteel -2 ポイント-1 ポイント0 ポイント 7 時間 前 (6子コメント)
I just don't understand why people listen to them. It's always the outspoken few who seem to get laws passed.
[–]Sr_Carlos_Danger 28 ポイント29 ポイント30 ポイント 6 時間 前 (3子コメント)
Can't even imagine what laws you're talking about. The scant evidence that a movement of man-hating feminists exists hardly points to an additional, related conspiracy to have their views (whatever those may even be) written in to the law.
[–]jacksrequiem 8 ポイント9 ポイント10 ポイント 5 時間 前 (2子コメント)
"Them" is not the feminists in the OP. "Them" is the "very vocal, but very tiny minority" from the original reply, which is casting extreme feminists as a minority in the general sense.
AKA, they were just saying that they don't understand why people listen to minorities in general, not necessarily this specific minority.
[–]DethFiesta 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 2 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Which laws are those?
[–]Jamesev93 32 ポイント33 ポイント34 ポイント 7 時間 前* (3子コメント)
I think it's like one of those things that people really open up about on the internet. You don't see people talking openly about it in person, until they know they are in agreeing company.
"Men are making the world literally the worst place to live, am I right[, group who all agree with me]?" "Oh yes" They reply, "Oh yes!"
They don't want their views challenged, or to have a cooperative debate to resolve any issues. They just want to pat each other on the back about how right they are, and how people will never agree with them because they hate women. Happens all the time, with a whole range of topics, even right here on reddit.
There are 'feminists' who will have a reasonable chat about equality and improving everyone's rights, many of them are male - myself included. But these aren't the 'feminists' we're talking about.
[–]McSavvy 8 ポイント9 ポイント10 ポイント 6 時間 前 (2子コメント)
I'd consider myself a feminist. I would look you in the eye and say thank you while you were holding open the door. I'd also hold the door open for others. I'm in no position to talk about physical strength. I can't pick that up and you can for me? Than you! That being said I'm lucky I work a job that does not bring up issues of pay, time off etc. I will say that as a woman who knows she will get paid time off for having a child, as a partner you should too. I hate extreme feminists, you make the rest of us look bad.
[–]Jamesev93 5 ポイント6 ポイント7 ポイント 5 時間 前 (1子コメント)
I open the door for everyone because its polite. I thought that was how it was meant to be.
[–]The_Anti-Monitor 184 ポイント185 ポイント186 ポイント 12 時間 前 (20子コメント)
I've only experienced it once, and it was pretty much like other experiences I've heard people bitch about. I wasn't upset or annoyed, just confused.
About 15 years ago, I was on summer break and visiting Chicago (I've gone every summer since I can remember for a Cubs game). I was walking up to a building and held the door open for a lady walking a few steps behind me. She stopped in front of me and made me extremely aware that she was capable of opening her "own damn door." Confused, I just let go of the door handle without entering the building. She stood in front of me, glaring while the door closed at a comically slow rate on its hydraulic hinge. Once it closed, she grabbed the handle and walked on in. I turned back to my buddies, who were just as confused as I was, and we all kind of shrugged and thought, "that was fairly odd...but maybe that's a 'big city' thing."
I've since moved to another big city and regularly go to Chicago (and other large cities) for work. I've never encountered anything like it since, and I still hold the door for anyone that is a couple steps behind me. (More than that, you're on your own).
[–]redneckrockuhtree 161 ポイント162 ポイント163 ポイント 9 時間 前 (12子コメント)
I still hold the door for anyone that is a couple steps behind me.
As it should be. Simple common courtesy -- race, gender, religion, physical ability, it doesn't matter. Holding a door for someone is just being polite.
[–]The_Anti-Monitor 41 ポイント42 ポイント43 ポイント 9 時間 前 (7子コメント)
Agreed. I wasn't really calling myself a champion of humanity, just noting that I didn't become instantly jaded by an odd encounter.
[–]redneckrockuhtree 18 ポイント19 ポイント20 ポイント 9 時間 前 (6子コメント)
I was basically agreeing with what you did
[–]The_Anti-Monitor 27 ポイント28 ポイント29 ポイント 9 時間 前 (5子コメント)
I figured. Good talk.
[–]Tia00017 9 ポイント10 ポイント11 ポイント 7 時間 前 (3子コメント)
Now kiss
[–]GlobindobinButler 5 ポイント6 ポイント7 ポイント 6 時間 前 (1子コメント)
http://i.imgur.com/VPhMHv6.gif
[–]Tia00017 3 ポイント4 ポイント5 ポイント 6 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Ah Tom Baker. The best doctor IMO.
[–]redneckrockuhtree 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 6 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Only if he shaves his mustache, first - it irritates my stubble
[–]skysten 0 ポイント1 ポイント2 ポイント 6 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Oh you two!
[–]thedude388 3 ポイント4 ポイント5 ポイント 7 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Agree, but physical limitation gets a few more steps. Don't need people on crutches toppling over
[–]pouscat 2 ポイント3 ポイント4 ポイント 5 時間 前 (1子コメント)
I'm a woman and I held the door for an old man in a wheel chair and he yelled at me for it. To be fair it was at a assisted living place and I think he was crazy. So crazy is crazy, male or female!
[–]Shesmylittlethrowawa[🍰] 25 ポイント26 ポイント27 ポイント 7 時間 前 (1子コメント)
Hell I'm a lady and noticed a woman struggling with her purse on the phone trying to go into a door so I held it open for her and she glared at me and opened the door next to it.
[–]The_Anti-Monitor 16 ポイント17 ポイント18 ポイント 7 時間 前 (0子コメント)
How DARE you
[–]yorikage 10 ポイント11 ポイント12 ポイント 7 時間 前 (0子コメント)
As a Canadian, I'm confused.
[–]zjaeyoung 2 ポイント3 ポイント4 ポイント 8 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Conservative gentleman, you are.
[–]QueenShnoogleberry 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 5 時間 前 (0子コメント)
I would have just said "Sorry. I'm not trying to offend you. I'm just Canadian."
[–]Da_Pwn_Shop 37 ポイント38 ポイント39 ポイント 7 時間 前 (3子コメント)
I live in Louisiana and I don't think they have many around here, I've never met one. On the flip side I run into an almost politically correct redneck multiple times a month.
[–]iCantSpelWerdsGud 7 ポイント8 ポイント9 ポイント 3 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Go to any liberal arts school. They pretty much own those places.
[–]malobaby 55 ポイント56 ポイント57 ポイント 6 時間 前 (3子コメント)
As a non-radical, man-appreciating feminist, I assure you that the opposite is very real. I've been yelled at for being not a good enough woman for not being a lesbian, that my mother should be ashamed of herself for being educated and choosing to put her career on hold to be a stay at home mom, that I should be ashamed of wanting a family of my own one day. They're terrible people.
[–]mastersword130 10 ポイント11 ポイント12 ポイント 8 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Yes, my 8th grade substitute teacher was the first time I encountered one. She had it out for men, even children male students, after her divorce.
My friend could literally hit me and shit but when I play hit her back she kept yelling shit about men this and that. Was super confused about it, the girl was bigger than me so it wasn't like she was a fragile doll of some kind.
[–]zallen1868 91 ポイント92 ポイント93 ポイント 10 時間 前 (22子コメント)
I know I haven't. I've also never met a neckbeard or any other mythic Reddit creature.
[–]Aerokii 72 ポイント73 ポイント74 ポイント 8 時間 前 (3子コメント)
I've met plenty of neckbeards... but Engineering programs are just like that sometimes.
[–]Jamesev93 7 ポイント8 ポイント9 ポイント 7 時間 前 (1子コメント)
IT student, seen a fair few here. Also knew a guys in my highschool that was like it. Surprisingly common, if you have some demographic overlap.
[–]Carako 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 4 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Video game design has its fair share, too.
[–]scotbud123 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 1 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Yeah, Computer Science student here.
I've had a few mini-neckbeard moments, but I've caught myself before they've gotten out of hand. There are some people in my program who LITERALLY wear fedoras and have said "M'lady" on multiple occasions.
At this point, I'm almost convinced they're doing this purposefully and are trolling, but I'm too afraid to ask.
[–]zydric 5 ポイント6 ポイント7 ポイント 7 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Work at a call center. Last one I worked at had dozens
[–]damningcad 5 ポイント6 ポイント7 ポイント 6 時間 前 (1子コメント)
Went to university anime club. Knew PLENTY of neckbeards. One of them had to have failed all of his classes one semester, because he was always locked in his dorm room watching My Little Pony. He only left to go to Walmart or come to club.
[–]____o_0 11 ポイント12 ポイント13 ポイント 7 時間 前 (5子コメント)
Knew plenty of neckbeards before Reddit. D&D guys and such.
[–]cogentorange 12 ポイント13 ポイント14 ポイント 6 時間 前 (4子コメント)
D&D isn't just for neckbeards!
[–]Sentari 3 ポイント4 ポイント5 ポイント 5 時間 前 (3子コメント)
No, but you can't deny that it attracts them.
[–]pfthewall 5 ポイント6 ポイント7 ポイント 7 時間 前 (1子コメント)
I've met a few neckbeards in real life as well. They literally only had hair on their necks and not on their faces. I didn't know anyone actually did that. Do they actually like that look?
[–]santana722 2 ポイント3 ポイント4 ポイント 5 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Some people (self included) only grow hair thick/dark enough on their neck to pass for facial hair. I shave it, because I think it looks bad, but with the whole "beards are manliness" fad, I can understand why some may embrace what they can grow.
[–]Vrse 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 6 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Go to a store where they sell collectible card games. I see at least five a week.
[–]JasonOfAllTrades 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 4 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Found the neckbeard.
[–]ImAWizardYo 0 ポイント1 ポイント2 ポイント 6 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Just the metaphorical kind.
[–]firmness 8 ポイント9 ポイント10 ポイント 6 時間 前 (0子コメント)
There are plenty of them, but like racists, they do not always walk around wearing a hood.
[–]darkphenox 57 ポイント58 ポイント59 ポイント 10 時間 前 (18子コメント)
Sex-Negative Feminists (gynephilia is inherently exploitative) and TERFs (Trans- Exclusionary Radical Feminists) (which as a Transwomen I encounter a bit from time to time) both exist and fall well within "Men-hating" and even so far to "Male-hating".
[–]GlobindobinButler 36 ポイント37 ポイント38 ポイント 6 時間 前 (4子コメント)
I knew one person who said fairly outright that she won't be friends with anyone with a penis who was born with that penis and continues to identify accordingly unless he likes people of the same nature sexually, or if he is ethnic. Water that down and she pretty much said she wouldn't talk to straight white cis men. She stopped talking to me too after this because my response was, "I wish I could do the same, but I just don't have enough strength to hate someone for the characteristics that they were born with and can't change. I wish I were as strong as you."
[–]otterquestions 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 4 時間 前 (2子コメント)
You should have stayed friends with them. Think of all of the bullshit you could have overheard and laughed at later that day.
[–]InternetBodhisattva 2 ポイント3 ポイント4 ポイント 6 時間 前 (0子コメント)
You are my hero.
[–]Sr_Carlos_Danger 2 ポイント3 ポイント4 ポイント 6 時間 前 (2子コメント)
The TERF ideology doesn't bear a lot of resemblance to the "man-hating feminist" boogeyman stuff you hear about around here, though. Cathy Brennan's rare forays into the mainstream, maybe, but she's a troll of such epic proportions I have a hard time counting that, either.
[–]darkphenox 2 ポイント3 ポイント4 ポイント 3 時間 前 (1子コメント)
TERFs believe that M2F Transgender people are Men trying to infiltrate Feminist movements and F2M as gender traders who give up solidarity to join the patriarchy. At least according to the ones I met.
[–]nihil8r 3 ポイント4 ポイント5 ポイント 8 時間 前 (6子コメント)
Do you think there is a strong correlation between sex negative feminism and asexuality?
[–]darkphenox 12 ポイント13 ポイント14 ポイント 8 時間 前 (2子コメント)
That is a complicated question, I know people who have identified as asexual since highschool and I would describe them as mostly sex-neutral, the most actively sex -negative person I know was raped in an abusive relationship but are asexual afterwards. The most sex-positive person I know was brutally raped when she was a teenager abd metal plates hold her head together now.
TL;dr, No and its complicated.
[–]elementalist467 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 6 時間 前 (0子コメント)
If someone was too lazy to read that answer after either posing or having their interest piqued by the question, the issue wasn't the length of your response. They are simply lazy to a degree that it is curious they made it to the TL;DR.
[–]nihil8r 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 5 時間 前 (0子コメント)
i would agree with your tl;dr.
[–]puppyinapartyhat 8 ポイント9 ポイント10 ポイント 6 時間 前 (1子コメント)
Hi! I'm asexual and a sex positive feminist (the good kind). Just because I don't enjoy or understand sex doesn't mean I wont high five my friends when they get laid. I get that it's important to them :) I've found the asexual community to be open-minded and accepting in general
[–]nihil8r 2 ポイント3 ポイント4 ポイント 5 時間 前 (0子コメント)
thx for your comment. i can definitely see the difference between not having an interest in sex (asexual) and actively hating sex and trying to stop other people from enjoying it (sex-negative) =/
[–]livefox 3 ポイント4 ポイント5 ポイント 7 時間 前 (0子コメント)
I don't think the correlation is that high. I've met both and rarely have the two mixed. My SO is asexual and a strong sex positive feminist, for one. But I've known others.
[–]ontopofyourmom -1 ポイント0 ポイント1 ポイント 7 時間 前 (2子コメント)
Do you think that there are any contexts where it's okay for ciswomen to exclude trans women?
[–]violent__violet 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 6 時間 前 (1子コメント)
No.
(Am hetero[ish], white, cis-woman, so maybe you don't care about my opinion?)
[–]k0np 20 ポイント21 ポイント22 ポイント 8 時間 前 (4子コメント)
After 11 years in college I can say they do exist. However their issues tend to come from something else.
[–]GlobindobinButler 6 ポイント7 ポイント8 ポイント 6 時間 前 (2子コメント)
11 years? Damn, what's your major?
[–]theonethatyouwant 29 ポイント30 ポイント31 ポイント 6 時間 前 (1子コメント)
Drinking, I'm guessing.
[–]Rusty5hackleford 4 ポイント5 ポイント6 ポイント 4 時間 前 (0子コメント)
PhD in beer pong. Masters in circle of death.
[–]ungulate 5 ポイント6 ポイント7 ポイント 6 時間 前 (0子コメント)
I've only met one in my whole life. It was in my college english medieval lit course. At the end of the course when the prof asked for feedback, she went into an appalling 10-min tirade about how he was sexist and the course was sexist and the writers were sexist and "mother means bitch" and a whole bunch of other stuff, while the class just sat there in shock.
This was in roughly 1990, before the web and before a lot of radical feminists today were born. It goes way back.
[–]EZTguy 13 ポイント14 ポイント15 ポイント 7 時間 前* (0子コメント)
A girl I use to be great friends made a post about feminism on facebook. I commented, stating that I agreed with her position and thought that more men should consider themselves feminists.
Her response was some of the most ridiculous shit ever! She insisted that I wasn't a feminist because she knew that I used reddit and that made me a sexist! I continued to be polite and explain that reddit has a great many sections to it and that I was a regular on /r/feminism, but she got so ridiculous about it I had to eventually delete her from facebook and cut off all communication.
I considered her a good friend until that day... I still can't put my finger on what the fuck drove her to such insanity.
I've since learned she has come out as a lesbian... I suppose that's not surprising.
[–]tmt1993 94 ポイント95 ポイント96 ポイント 11 時間 前 (20子コメント)
I'm in college. So yes.
[–]So-Cal-Mountain-Man 11 ポイント12 ポイント13 ポイント 5 時間 前 (1子コメント)
I had the "pleasure" of spotting one in the wild, I spent 12 years of my nursing career in Psychiatry. The boss invited some female empowerment speaker for the staff, as we had been dealing with a lot of depressed young ladies. This was 1993 and she maintained in her talk that every act of heterosexual penetrative intercourse was rape. Everyone, even the ladies who leaned feminist looked at her like she had 3 heads and was speaking Latin backwards.
[–]tomdarch 2 ポイント3 ポイント4 ポイント 3 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Pfft, casual. Only claiming that sexual intercourse is rape? How about claiming that every interaction between any man and any woman must be understood through the framework of rape? There's a reason that some people started identifying themselves as "third wave" feminists to differentiate themselves from the previous, sometimes crazy-as-fuck "second wave".
That said, and yes, I am serious, we all need (sane) feminism.
[–]G3n3r4lch13f 44 ポイント45 ポイント46 ポイント 7 時間 前 (10子コメント)
Yep. Met a couple women-studies majors that were actually overtly sexist. One of them I talked to claimed that I was wrong, because the words I was using were from the dictionary, which was written by white men, and so therefore inherently incorrect. I rather wisely chose to walk away.
[–]Jerzeem 24 ポイント25 ポイント26 ポイント 6 時間 前 (2子コメント)
"Glrp dop, fobblis condlleton."
[–]Thurito 10 ポイント11 ポイント12 ポイント 6 時間 前 (1子コメント)
Fen frun yih reppelep tono.. :/
[–]Sentari 4 ポイント5 ポイント6 ポイント 5 時間 前 (0子コメント)
I don't speak Spanish, can someone translate?
[–]texantillidie 11 ポイント12 ポイント13 ポイント 7 時間 前 (3子コメント)
Oh yeah I got that once. I was apparently wrong in my argument because i used dictionary definitions of words rather than what she felt they meant. I immediately ended the conversation and that also made her mad.
[–]Methofelis 9 ポイント10 ポイント11 ポイント 6 時間 前 (1子コメント)
Dude, I'm a chick, and they fucking hate me when I argue them and use my uh... "tainted manbrain" (?????) to talk to them. If you try to reason, use logic or even dare to use a word as intended you're a shithead. No winning against them.
I like fighting with them though. I fuck with 'em and pull out lines like "how dare you, as a white woman, try to tell me I'm wrong." It trips them up.
[–]Shoofus 16 ポイント17 ポイント18 ポイント 6 時間 前 (3子コメント)
This. Good god this. I'm all for equality across the board of gender, race, religion, etc. (Specifically I'm all for them leaving me the fuck alone and doing their thing, I'll do mine.) But come on, I'm not holding the library door open to oppress you or try to assert some sort of dominance over you, I'm doing it because you're 4 feet behind me and I don't want to be a prick. I don't care if you're an Albino African hermaphrodite, I'm just being polite... ._.
[–]mmzznnxx 6 ポイント7 ポイント8 ポイント 5 時間 前 (2子コメント)
But come on, I'm not holding the library door open to oppress you or try to assert some sort of dominance over you,
Reminded me of these sorts of stories you occasionally see.
[–]wcbgn 2 ポイント3 ポイント4 ポイント 2 時間 前 (1子コメント)
[/r/talesofprivilege](reddit.com/r/talesofprivilege)
[–]Dyesce_ 34 ポイント35 ポイント36 ポイント 13 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Just be happy about it...
[–]treestick 15 ポイント16 ポイント17 ポイント 7 時間 前 (3子コメント)
Make a college-aged female friend that lives in Portland. If they post anything, rest assured that the massive circleschlick will arrive to agree with it while giving their 2-cents about white males.
They're out there.
[–]Elguybrush 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 6 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Also valid for Seattle - but really it's not most women, it's heavy on the ones coming from small shitty towns (Women from Bellingham are apparently cray)
[–]AM_key_bumps 18 ポイント19 ポイント20 ポイント 7 時間 前 (8子コメント)
Radical feminists are real, but like fat activists and otherkin and all the other tumblrinas they're much rarer then reddit thinks they are.
[–]redneckrockuhtree 13 ポイント14 ポイント15 ポイント 10 時間 前 (4子コメント)
Sadly, they do. I had one as a TA my freshman year of college. Out of about 30 students in the class, 3 of us were male. Whatever we said or did was wrong. I took the "grin and bear it" approach.
Two years later, I ran into a young lady who'd also been in the class. She brought the class up and how incredibly sexist the TA had been.
[–]Zidlijan 10 ポイント11 ポイント12 ポイント 10 時間 前 (2子コメント)
Even feminists and women are sick of the mysandrist bullshit
[–]puppyinapartyhat 3 ポイント4 ポイント5 ポイント 6 時間 前 (1子コメント)
Especially real feminists and women are sick of it, they make enemies of potential allies, we can't change the way things are for the better without the cooperation of men, yknow? Those women are no better than misogynists
[–]Zidlijan 2 ポイント3 ポイント4 ポイント 6 時間 前 (0子コメント)
THANK YOU. that's exactly what I mean, real feminists and women (not mysandrists) are seriously sick of this kind of thing. It's not helping, it's not educating anyone, and it's not going to change anyone and anything.
There are women and children being murdered by the thousands, trans kids and other-sexuality oriented kids killing themselves and rapes happening almost every second, and acting like a dick is not going to fix anything. It's only going to make it worse.
[–]Gothic_Banana 15 ポイント16 ポイント17 ポイント 6 時間 前 (3子コメント)
Reddit wants you to think that all of tumblr is full of SJWs, while tumblr wants you to think that all of reddit is full of men's rights activists.
[–]Elguybrush 9 ポイント10 ポイント11 ポイント 5 時間 前 (2子コメント)
so true. Tumblr is mostly porn, just like Reddit, just like literally everywhere on the internet.
NASA Picture of the day site? If you look hard enough...
[–]ZobmieRules 2 ポイント3 ポイント4 ポイント 5 時間 前 (0子コメント)
fapfapfapfapfapfapfapfapfapfap
[–]Dizmn 2 ポイント3 ポイント4 ポイント 5 時間 前 (0子コメント)
NASA Picture of the day site?
every time they post a picture of the earth, they're posting more sex than many porn sites post in a day.
Every time they post a picture of the cosmos, there's a non-zero possibility the amount of sex happening in that picture outweighs all other pornographic content we will ever produce combined.
[–]mariuxpunk 26 ポイント27 ポイント28 ポイント 12 時間 前 (9子コメント)
Yup, i was raised by one.
[–]gunnar117 15 ポイント16 ポイント17 ポイント 9 時間 前 (0子コメント)
I'm... I'm so sorry.
[–]diesel_stinks_ 12 ポイント13 ポイント14 ポイント 9 時間 前 (7子コメント)
Same here. Growing up, I was convinced that males were a lower life form than women.
[–]themojofilter 24 ポイント25 ポイント26 ポイント 8 時間 前 (6子コメント)
I wasn't raised by a feminazi or anything, but a feminist who is also very religious. I grew up thinking that I was not only sinning, but disrespecting a woman by simply wanting to get physical with her. Eventually I got so bad I was convinced if a woman was willing to sleep with me there must be something wrong with her, and I was incapable of continuing to respect and cherish her. Took me a lot of influence to help me come to a better understanding of my relationship with women. Figuring it out was a fast track to a healthy relationship that I am grateful to be in because she is grateful for me too.
[–]Jamesev93 11 ポイント12 ポイント13 ポイント 7 時間 前* (3子コメント)
It's ironic because the bible can be easily read as heavily anti-women.
Edit: Downvotes. Really? (edit 2: I was at -x when I updated) I didn't say Christianity was Anti Women (or being a christian makes you anti women), I was saying how it could be read that way. In the eye of the beholder etc.
But I suppose if you downvote, thinking I'm wrong:
Timothy 2 12: I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man; she must be quiet.
(I Corinthians 11:3)"But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God."
(I Corinthians 11:8-9) "For the man is not of the woman; but the woman of the man. Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man."
(Judges 19:24-25)"Behold, here is my daughter a maiden, and his concubine; them I will bring out now, and humble ye them, and do with them what seemeth good unto you: but unto this man do not so vile a thing. But the men would not hearken to him: so the man took his concubine, and brought her forth unto them; and they knew her, and abused her all the night until the morning: and when the day began to spring, they let her go." [Comment: he makes clear that sexual abuse should never befall a man (meaning him), yet a woman, even his own flesh and blood, or a concubine belonging to a perfect stranger, can receive punishment from men to do what they wish. ]
[–]themojofilter 3 ポイント4 ポイント5 ポイント 6 時間 前 (1子コメント)
her religious views are strongly built through life experience, not blind obedience. She is not anti-gay, nor a young Earth creationist, and never argues that every word in the bible is literal. Quite far from it actually, and has a head on her shoulders that isn't quite as clouded up with post-divorce anger as it once was.
[–]Jamesev93 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 5 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Yeah, sorry, when you said 'very religious' I just put it in the box of 'blind and strict obedience to the rules'. As is often the case when others refer to their parents as 'very religious'. I apologize for the misunderstanding on my part.
the bible isn't "easily read as heavily anti-women," it's hardcore misogyny. if you don't believe me, try reading the old testament (all of it).
[–]Artkas 0 ポイント1 ポイント2 ポイント 6 時間 前 (1子コメント)
Your name isn't John is it? Because that pretty much perfectly describes John in Brave New World.
[–]themojofilter 0 ポイント1 ポイント2 ポイント 6 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Not familiar with that work, but no, my name isn't John. It's a true story, and hasn't damaged my relationship with my mother, just gives me that balls to be able to say when I think she is being biased or unfair. She has also calmed down a lot in the 20 years since the divorce.
[–]WPKage 16 ポイント17 ポイント18 ポイント 10 時間 前 (1子コメント)
My "Surprise!" introduction to feminism came from who I had thought was a really good friend. Intelligent, caring, well-read, (so i thought) One day she posts a facebook rant that seemed to claim that if a man and a woman are both drunk and have sex he's the default rapist. I asked something to the effect of "How can being guilty of a crime or the victim of it be solely determined by gender?"
And that's all it took...
What followed was an incoherent rambling diatribe that left me unfriended with my head spinning faster than I could even articulate a reply.
They exist, and sometimes they've really learned to hide themselves.
[–]jacksonmr 6 ポイント7 ポイント8 ポイント 7 時間 前 (2子コメント)
Portland, Seattle, San Francisco. You will find them.
[–]nicktod 4 ポイント5 ポイント6 ポイント 7 時間 前 (0子コメント)
In portland.. You sir, are correct.. Work with one.. Married a total lame ass abuser douche.. Divorced him years before.. Now it's all men.. Feel sorry for her 15 year old son..
[–]Elguybrush 2 ポイント3 ポイント4 ポイント 5 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Also Sweden. Can't forget Sweden!
[–]DasWraithist 27 ポイント28 ポイント29 ポイント 8 時間 前 (7子コメント)
Well, "radical" and "man-hating" are two different categories, and you're right that neither is characteristic of most feminists.
Feminism, broadly, seeks to "define, establish, and achieve equal political, economic, cultural, personal, and social rights for women."
Radical feminism is a perspective within feminism that focuses on the hypothesis of patriarchy as a system of power that organizes society into a complex of relationships based on the assertion that male supremacy oppresses women.
Radical feminism is a coherent philosophy. I don't mean that I personally ascribe to its assumptions or prescriptions, but it is internally consistent, and holds up to intellectual and academic analysis and inquiry, and radical feminists definitely exist.
"Man-hating" feminists, I guess, would be misandrists. Misandry is the hatred or dislike of men or boys. Misandry can be manifested in numerous ways, including sexual discrimination, violence against men, or sexual objectification of men.
Sexual discrimination against men, violence against men, and the sexual objectification of men all exist, so misandrists or "man-hating" individuals must exist, and I suppose some of them probably call themselves feminists.
But since "sexual discrimination against men, violence against men, and the sexual objectification of men" are all pretty uncommon (relative to their equivalents against women), I think it's safe to say that "man-hating feminists" are pretty uncommon too.
[–]BubblegumIPA 8 ポイント9 ポイント10 ポイント 5 時間 前 (1子コメント)
I appreciate your distinguishing between the two, as it is important to do so. But I really have to disagree with you in that last paragraph
Male domestic violence victims are more prevent than you would think and very rarely taken seriously to tie a story to this, a friend of mine had a girl he had hooked up with a couple of times show up at his house at 3 am when he was drunk and sleeping. He opened the door and she punched him in the face, kicked him in the ribs, beat him pushed him into the kitchen yelling at him about something, can't remember why but it was really insignificant, telling him he should die. He was yelling for her to get off and eventually just threw her which is when she threatened to call the cops. I guarantee that if she called the police, despite the fact that she was a home invader he would have gone to jail that night.
My biggest issue with people being dismissive towards Male sexual assault victims is that dismissing a fairly large group of people's pain as invalid because there is a bigger group of people who have had a similar experience ignores that issues like sexual assault effect each person very differently.
And male obejectification? Pick up any copy of men's health magazine and tell me the dude on the cover or in the ads isn't being objectived. Channing Tatum is treated like a sex object even though he has a wife and child, and people think it's ok because he played a stripper in a movie. Ladies nights at strip clubs are notoriously rowdy and agressive towards the dancers. Then there's the whole "manly man" thing as well. Men are objectived in the media almost as much as women are because "sex sells" isn't restricted by gender.
[–]MagikalGoat 15 ポイント16 ポイント17 ポイント 8 時間 前* (0子コメント)
Comparative Literature, Cultural Studies, New Media and otherwise critical-theory/Frankfurt-School focused departments have their share of "bad feminists." It mostly comes, I think, from being thrown into course material that requires historical grounding and a lot of work to rigorously understand; most of these departments aren't structured so as to have prerequisites and a gradual build-up of knowledge (like a STEM field would). That isn't a bad thing in itself, but you just get people taking the authors at their word and not yet having the critical skills to evaluate the work and understand its limitations. Though I think, by the time they graduate, most of these students do have these skills.
Also, you have to realize that a lot of the shit you see are actually jokes, e.g. "God sometimes I just want to exterminate all the men on the earth." We all can understand that they are joking, much like someone might say, "Bitches be crazy." The contradiction often comes when they claim (due to the oppression-driven model of acceptable violence) that they can make a joke as an oppressed or unprivileged class, but that the flipside is totally unacceptable, disgusting, violent, triggering, et cetera.
edit: More on the 'lack of prerequisites':
You also have to realize that, after postmodern theory took off, there was a strong push to eliminate the whole philosophical tradition from the curriculum. Theories of 'cultural capital' understand, through the postmodern lens, that there is no essential canon of Western thought. From this comes the elimination of continental philosophy from cultural studies departments. The only problem is that all of the famous theorists have a background in continental philosophy. Karen Barad? Yup. Judith Butler? Yup. Bell Hooks? You better fucking believe it. The reason it is helpful is because these are really nuanced issues which have been discussed, more or less, for thousands of years. Yet these students are often being taught without the history that might help them situate the current rad-fem arguments in a greater discourse.
My biggest pet peeve is when I am told to "go read <insert Feminist scholar here>" when I disagree with someone, as though if I disagree with anything someone says I clearly just haven't read any contemporary Feminist theory. Of course I have! That's being a good philosopher! You're supposed to read everything! The problem is that these students aren't being taught to be thinkers, but radicals or activists. This puts the focus of their study on the evangelization of a particular ideology instead of the evaluation of ideologies in general. smh
[–]goldenharmonica 29 ポイント30 ポイント31 ポイント 7 時間 前 (8子コメント)
My mother was one. She hated men so much that she pretty much devoted her life to the cause. She wanted children (daughters) and had me; a boy. She used my dad to get pregnant making him dislike me as I grew up. She spent my whole childhood trying to turn me into a good little feminist lesbian she wanted me to be. At age 12, I started going through puberty and she realized I was fully aware of my gender. She left me at an airport in another state the summer after I finished 6th grade.
[–]otterquestions 19 ポイント20 ポイント21 ポイント 4 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Hi u/goldenharmonica, I just had a look through your history. Pretty amazing life you lead.
Along with the tragedies that occurred to you at the airport with you being abandoned by your mother for being the wrong gender, she is also a crackhead alcoholic and a racist despite marrying a white guy (being black herself). Your wife is bipolar, has chronic acne, is legally disabled and absolutely hates children and threatens to kill you. You purposefully give her food poisoning to get back at her, long expired cream cheese in food that you only feed only to her. Your dad, who was emancipated at 16 by the way, threw you out in junior high and blames you for his divorce even though you weren't born at the time. He didn't buy you braces even though you had terrible teeth but lashed out on jewelry and cars. Dispite your mom abandoning you earlier for being male, she took you back in after your dad threw you out.
Your great grandma pickled human heads. You cut your nails twice a day (how?? Even lightly filing them twice a day would result in no nails after a month), yet dispite cutting twice a day you still get ingrowns? How fast do your nails grow? You lied about passing a kidney stone and even fabricated pictures to start a conversation with a co worker. You're a claustrophobe. John McCain is a family friend.
Man, seriously, you are either absolutely full of shit or need to write a book this second. I hope it's the latter because i would read that book in an instant.
[–]SteveRudzinski 16 ポイント17 ポイント18 ポイント 6 時間 前 (2子コメント)
...and then what? Did you turn her in? Cops do anything about abandonment? Did you grow up with family/in a foster home? How are you now? Is she aware of how much you hate her/how shitty she is?
You gave me a story up until the start of Act 2, can't leave us hanging.
[–]goldenharmonica 4 ポイント5 ポイント6 ポイント 4 時間 前 (1子コメント)
I called my grandmother (dad's mom) in my home state and she bought me a ticket back. I spent my teenage years going back and forth between my dad and my grandma. I finally was emancipated when I was 17. I went to college, got married, had kids, and got married. Haven't talked to my mom in 16 years and my dad in 11. Family wise, on my dad's side I only talk to my grandma and younger cousin and on my mom's side I'm super close to my half sister (my mom lost custody of her while she was a baby).
[–]xxbzrk99 2 ポイント3 ポイント4 ポイント 7 時間 前 (0子コメント)
That sounds terrible. I'm sorry
[–]Elguybrush 11 ポイント12 ポイント13 ポイント 8 時間 前 (3子コメント)
yep, a college professor of "Psychology of sexual behavior" at UW (good class except her obvious disdain for males), and two coworkers at a high end tech company, one a trans dude who was ok and the other a white upper middle class woman who actually admitted to being bigoted against men but that this wasn't sexism because sexism is institutional.
I just avoid feminists now
[–]puppyinapartyhat 3 ポイント4 ポイント5 ポイント 6 時間 前 (2子コメント)
Please don't avoid feminists, avoid misandrists. Normal benevolent feminists (most people claiming to be feminist) have everyone's best interest in mind :)
[–]Elguybrush 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 6 時間 前 (1子コメント)
I would love to see feminists tell misandrists to STFU, god that'd be glorious. Don't think that day will come though
[–]puppyinapartyhat 2 ポイント3 ポイント4 ポイント 6 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Personally when I encounter them (only online so far) I try to show them how they're being counterproductive and essentially no better than misogynists... have yet to have a civil conversation though. I know that all normal feminists want nothing to do with misandrists, they give the movement a bad name
[–]UberLobster 5 ポイント6 ポイント7 ポイント 7 時間 前 (0子コメント)
You lucky bastard. There's so many at my university that I'm practically tripping over them.
[–]TechnoSam_Belpois 11 ポイント12 ポイント13 ポイント 9 時間 前 (0子コメント)
In college, all the time.
[–]Cybertronic72388 2 ポイント3 ポイント4 ポイント 8 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Anita Sarkeesian?
[–]exasperatedgoat 3 ポイント4 ポイント5 ポイント 7 時間 前 (4子コメント)
My mother is one.
Sadly for her, I love men. LOVE THEM.
[–]Elguybrush 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 5 時間 前 (3子コメント)
I'm sure it's quite exasperating for you. Good on you for being loving towards billies though.
[–]exasperatedgoat 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 3 時間 前 (2子コメント)
haha I think it's more exasperating for her!
[–]xblindguardianx 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 6 時間 前 (0子コメント)
oh they exist. I suppose it depends on where you are located.
[–]V_Elze27 44 ポイント45 ポイント46 ポイント 13 時間 前 (27子コメント)
Tumblr.com proceed with caution.
[–]imherefornews[S] 53 ポイント54 ポイント55 ポイント 13 時間 前 (21子コメント)
Ok, I should have said; I'm not convinced they exist outside of an online persona.
[–]thatssoright 18 ポイント19 ポイント20 ポイント 8 時間 前 (0子コメント)
They absolutely exist, but as with all groups of people, they tend to congregate with like minded people, so unless you walk in those same social circles or happen to work with a person like that, you are less likely to actually run into them.
[–]Cooleosis 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 6 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Well yeah, because people suddenly get less whiny when they are talking to a real person
[–]DWlGHTschrute 4 ポイント5 ポイント6 ポイント 12 時間 前 (4子コメント)
I'm sure they do, they're probably too busy feeding their 100 cats.
Because cats are waaaaayyyyyy better than those nasty male things
[–]SteveRudzinski 12 ポイント13 ポイント14 ポイント 6 時間 前 (1子コメント)
As a male I think cats are pretty fucking great. I'd rather hang out with my cat than a lot of people from both genders.
My cat just purred, I assume my cat agrees.
[–]CherreBell 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 6 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Yeah, I like being around animals in general more than people. I'm also an introvert and pretty shy though. Animals are just easier.
[–]UltraVioletDoge 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 10 時間 前 (1子コメント)
Yeah at least cats understand them
[–]AverageUnknown -2 ポイント-1 ポイント0 ポイント 9 時間 前 (1子コメント)
Look up the protests against Warren Farrell's talk at the University of Toronto. They exist.
Not even the biggest reason many people oppose feminism, though. There are several harmful views that even the moderates hold, and several faulty "facts" that even society in general has accepted as truth.
[–]SynisterBaconLord -1 ポイント0 ポイント1 ポイント 7 時間 前 (0子コメント)
lol downvoted because sjws hate when people bring that video up, but they don't actually want to disagree with or condemn those actions, so they quietly downvote.
[–]strikerdeath -3 ポイント-2 ポイント-1 ポイント 12 時間 前 (0子コメント)
They exist. They really exist.
Have you gone to college yet?
[–]Thackebr 4 ポイント5 ポイント6 ポイント 8 時間 前 (1子コメント)
I have, isn't hating someone for their sex sexist, even if they are men?
I've worked with SJWs and found that in their mindset the term sexism has been redefined as "institutionalized sexism" so it's not sexist for a woman to hate men, just bigoted, and it's not racist for black people to hate white people, just bigoted.
Hope that helps clarify it from their perspective
[–]Dulanski 2 ポイント3 ポイント4 ポイント 6 時間 前 (0子コメント)
I experience it every day, a woman I work with is almost militant in her pursuit of proving men are beneath women.
[–]Zidlijan 6 ポイント7 ポイント8 ポイント 10 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Yes they're called mysandrists and they're disgusting, horribly disgusting. Some are islamiphobic, homophobic, judgemental, hateful as HELL, I just need to look at FB, Reddit, some parts of deviantART and the dark side of the tumblr feminism to feel that chill run down my spine like, it's terrifying to have to deal wuth such a hate fueled person ever.
(It's come to a point where you have to be very careful following people, the great majority are ignorants, haters, or trolls.)
[–]themojofilter 12 ポイント13 ポイント14 ポイント 8 時間 前 (0子コメント)
They so fucking exist. They don't just hate men, they hate women who are happy to be homemakers or mothers too. Be grateful you don't know one, because the struggle is real.
[–]numberonealcove 12 ポイント13 ポイント14 ポイント 9 時間 前 (1子コメント)
Well, people are complicated. Nobody is one thing. Nobody is a radical man-hating feminist and that's it; even Andrea Dworkin was married to a man. Contrariwise, even old-timey misogynists love their daughters and want the best for them.
That said, radical feminism is a real thing in the world. These folks exist. And if you haven't met any examples, it's probably because you don't hang out in left wing and academic circles in major Northern cities.
[–]captmarx 7 ポイント8 ポイント9 ポイント 5 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Saying a woman can't be a misandrist because they've married a man is just as stupid as saying someone can't be a misogynist is they marry a woman.
[–]TharBeSquirrels 5 ポイント6 ポイント7 ポイント 7 時間 前 (0子コメント)
My 18 year old cousin is one and it makes me smh. She is also a hard core liberal. She went on a Facebook rant about how we need more Feminism in this country because an obviously mentally ill man who wanted to kill all women because they are all sluts.
She makes me crazy sometimes.
[–]xGordon 4 ポイント5 ポイント6 ポイント 6 時間 前 (0子コメント)
they exist, can confirm
[–]SirGoofsALott 7 ポイント8 ポイント9 ポイント 10 時間 前 (1子コメント)
They don't hang out in basements. My bad.
[–]imherefornews[S] 5 ポイント6 ポイント7 ポイント 10 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Lol.
[–]cooliovonhoolio 3 ポイント4 ポイント5 ポイント 8 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Be glad you haven't. I've gotten the, "What? Do you want a medal for being tolerant?!" and the "Wow. Aren't you so great for wanting equal rights. Do you want recognition for that!?" They're a pain in the ass.
[–]ThaThIIIrd 3 ポイント4 ポイント5 ポイント 7 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Yes, yes you are.
[–]hobbychain 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 7 時間 前 (0子コメント)
I think you are. I've encountered them a few times in my life.
[–]allenme 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 7 時間 前 (0子コメント)
About half a one, but she's mostly just misanthropic. She also had a problem with the fact that most of our Gay-Straight Alliance was straight. Actually a bit of fun, as long as you ask her opinion of nothing
[–]BagelBenny 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 7 時間 前 (0子コメント)
They're more vocal online where they have the benefit of anonymity but I'm certain there are one or two in the wilds. I've only encountered one myself and was very much taken aback by the experience.
[–]4-bit 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 6 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Met a few. So up its for using the meme correctly.
[–]StrideMinthy 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 6 時間 前 (0子コメント)
A few go to my school. A few. A goddam few. How have you not seen one
[–]be4sun 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 6 時間 前 (0子コメント)
I dated one for a short time period. (Had no idea before hand but didn't last long)
I do have a lot of friends that are normal feminists and the relationship didn't effect my views on them at all. I understand she was just nuts but part of a tiny percentage of actual feminists. In college I encountered probably about three over the years. They do exist but they're pretty easy to ignore.
[–]malshnut 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 6 時間 前 (0子コメント)
I don't know if you're the only one, but you're one of the few! Good on you!
[–]cupcakefix 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 6 時間 前 (0子コメント)
When I was checking out my apt before moving in, the neighbor came out and said " oh good, a female, we don't want any other men here"...didnt bother to tell her it was me and my husband. She and her girlfriend were AWFUL to him. I also went to ucsc, so can confirm that nor cal is where they all live.
[–]lagspike 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 3 時間 前 (0子コメント)
of course not, feminists are supposed to care about rights. but most "feminists" are just using it as a shield from criticism, when talking shit about men (aka, misandry).
so you've probably met many "feminists" but very few feminists.
[–]kronborq 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 2 時間 前 (1子コメント)
Im from Danmark, and we're very open-minded, so there aint much of it here. But i've met one. I myself am a native white Scandinavian dude. I was out having dinner with my girlfriend and there was this buffet at the place. So i go there to grab some food, and amidst im putting it on my plate, someone pushes me aside and blocks me from the food. I politely ask if they can move aside so i can finish what i was doing. And then this massive woman turns around and shouts at me for "being a privileged white boy". I try to think nothing more of it, but she keeps going on and on. I see myself as a trollish person, and thus i tell her that she should probably stop taking more food, since her body clearly doesnt get healthy from it. This triggers her big time. To my luck the restaurant owner sees this and throws her out, he grants me a free coke afterwards and laughs a little at my comment on her body. TL;DR, met a feminist good stuff came from her aggressiveness. 8/10 would run into again
[–]cl3ft 10 ポイント11 ポイント12 ポイント 12 時間 前 (0子コメント)
No only some men trawl tumblr for rage bait.
It's like hanging out at godhatesfags.com and judging all Christians.
[–]SmoothOperator89 13 ポイント14 ポイント15 ポイント 13 時間 前 (16子コメント)
You probably didn't go to a community college with a women's studies program.
[–]Jamesev93 4 ポイント5 ポイント6 ポイント 7 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Don't read the replies here down. It is a waste of your time.
[–]bolivar-shagnasty 2 ポイント3 ポイント4 ポイント 10 時間 前 (14子コメント)
I had one in my sociology class at community college. Every time we talked about inequality throughout America's history, she'd throw in some bullshit about "rape culture".
I asked (foolishly) what rape culture is once. She went off about how a woman can't even walk down an American street without a fear of getting raped. They can't trust their family, friends, classmates, and colleagues. Then she started spewing out random statistics that I'm pretty sure she made up on the spot.
I couldn't bite my tongue and I said some things that I'm not proud of, but I got it across that what she described is paranoia. Real "rape culture" exists in countries that end in -stan and -ia.
She eventually dropped out due to lack of attendance.
[–]UltraVioletDoge 9 ポイント10 ポイント11 ポイント 10 時間 前 (0子コメント)
United Stans of Americia
[–]iced327 6 ポイント7 ポイント8 ポイント 9 時間 前 (8子コメント)
I literally just got blocked by one on Facebook about 15 minutes ago.
She posted an article about pro-lifers protesting outside a Planned Parenthood and I facetiously commented "well it is their first amendment right to be assholes".
She messaged me, accused me of man-splaining, told me I have no right to talk down to her given that she's a constitutional scholar (she is in law school), told me I should stop being a smug hypocrite, and then blocked me.
I am a feminist. I support feminists. I support gender equality. This girl is a crazy bitch tho.
[–]Elguybrush 5 ポイント6 ポイント7 ポイント 8 時間 前 (6子コメント)
I just call myself an egalitarian now
[–]GlobindobinButler 6 ポイント7 ポイント8 ポイント 6 時間 前 (1子コメント)
I referred to myself as an egalitarian to someone I know and she called me a sock-puppet being controlled by the MRA "niceguys" who isn't interested in my own well-being.
[–]Elguybrush 3 ポイント4 ポイント5 ポイント 6 時間 前 (0子コメント)
she sounds like a blast at parties
[–]starfuzion 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 5 時間 前 (0子コメント)
You're missing the context, wherein the Supreme Court upheld their right to "free speech zones" but then abolished the anti-protest zones of clinics. I disagree with special protest free zones, but the juxtaposition of the two so soon after each other was what riled many people up.
[–]whats_an_upvote 3 ポイント4 ポイント5 ポイント 13 時間 前 (0子コメント)
yes
[–]chafedinksmut 4 ポイント5 ポイント6 ポイント 12 時間 前 (3子コメント)
You've met plenty of them, you just don't know it. Start bringing up self-evidently equal laws that need to be on the books. Automatic 50% custody laws, forcing women to sign up for the draft, equal sentencing laws...etc. You will VERY quickly see how surrounded you are and how intense and common this hatred it.
[–]Neurofiend 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 6 時間 前 (2子コメント)
I'm not American, so I might be completely wrong on this, but is there a draft anymore? I thought it hasn't been done in decades.
[–]chafedinksmut 5 ポイント6 ポイント7 ポイント 6 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Power still exists, even if un-exercised.
[–]Schleiermacher 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 7 時間 前 (0子コメント)
They do exist (and they shouldn't be considered real feminists), but not to the degree some would have you believe. The reddit population is a lot of dudes in their 20s, so they like to complain about women a lot.
[–]dgpoop 3 ポイント4 ポイント5 ポイント 12 時間 前 (2子コメント)
Had an English professor force me to drop a class with her hate mongering assignments and lessons. They are there. You're just the lucky one. Also this meme does not fit the subject matter.
[–]BadReynolds 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 10 時間 前 (0子コメント)
I've experienced encountering at least one. It was a while back in college, but they're out there. It was significantly less than pleasant. Then again during grad school, now that I think about it. Somewhat more prevalent in grad school actually. It was annoying.
Look up Big Red or Anita Sarkeesian. They're very high profile "feminists" though opportunists and professional victims are more accurate descriptions.
[–]available_username2 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 7 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Typical man, all women are invisible to you. Overlook us just like society does.
[–]PoofythePuppy 2 ポイント3 ポイント4 ポイント 7 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Am I the only one around here who automatically assumes OP is a feminist?
[–]MsWhimsy 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 6 時間 前 (0子コメント)
I was an English major and I met a lot of these people. I'm also a doodeler and classmates would often sneak peeks at my notes and drawings. I realize it is immature but I used to enjoy writing "you're a feminist? How cute."
[–]moonray55 0 ポイント1 ポイント2 ポイント 9 時間 前 (1子コメント)
No I think like many of these things people read examples from the internet (which are probably untrue) and get irritated about it as if they are common occurrences.
[–]mrekon123 2 ポイント3 ポイント4 ポイント 7 時間 前 (1子コメント)
They don't exist until you bring up anything gender related in conversation, then they show their true colors.
[–]otterquestions 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 8 時間 前 (0子コメント)
I've encountered a few, but I've encountered more misogynists.
[–]Kintarly 2 ポイント3 ポイント4 ポイント 7 時間 前 (6子コメント)
I attend art school.
Feminists are rampant here.
about 10% of them are scary motherfuckers who are triggered by everything.
[–]M_Allen108 0 ポイント1 ポイント2 ポイント 13 時間 前 (0子コメント)
I used to be in the same boat as you. Then it happened one day at my school library a couple years ago. I think I even made a meme about slamming the door in her face due to her rudeness.
I wish I was still in the same boat as you :(
[–]Gopackgo6 -1 ポイント0 ポイント1 ポイント 12 時間 前 (0子コメント)
I've never met one in person. Just see the dumb shit they spew on tumblr
[–]Tommyboy420 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 11 時間 前 (3子コメント)
Visit California or the upper east side.
[–]PillarOfWisdom 0 ポイント1 ポイント2 ポイント 12 時間 前 (0子コメント)
Yes...you are the only one.
[–]VenaterStugots 0 ポイント1 ポイント2 ポイント 8 時間 前 (0子コメント)
That's because they spend all their time prowling Tumblr.
[–]GlobindobinButler 0 ポイント1 ポイント2 ポイント 6 時間 前 (0子コメント)
They exist, but most are under the age of 18 and blindly follow those over that age.
[–]azlionheart312 0 ポイント1 ポイント2 ポイント 6 時間 前 (0子コメント)
I have only met one briefly while I was working retail.
[–]puphop -1 ポイント0 ポイント1 ポイント 6 時間 前 (0子コメント)
They exist.
[–]ejbalington 0 ポイント1 ポイント2 ポイント 6 時間 前 (0子コメント)
I hadn't until i joined a social media site. I was both blown away and happy I'm now part of the club.
[–]delawana 0 ポイント1 ポイント2 ポイント 5 時間 前 (0子コメント)
I've met some in university. Many, if not most university students are a little radical because they have good ideas and no grounding in reality; it's not just feminism, it's whatever cause is hot. As a historical example, the revolt in Les Miserables is just a group of university students, one instance of the student uprisings that were occurring throughout Europe in the 1830s.
People generally mellow out and become reasonable human beings after they leave university unless they refuse to let go of their new-young-adult mentality.
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