That explains a lot. Those hashtags were in response to the #blacklivesmatter and #yesallwomen which were movements highlighting the importance of the fact that more black people are killed by white police officers and the violence against women and the lack of respect these groups get. The response hashtags came about because people couldn't understand that just because these facts were highlighted as being serious issues, that an indictment on the current white on black law enforcement fatalities and the culture of defending men for crimes against women and the inequalities that society has in favor of men, doesn't necessarily villainize the larger group of white people/men on an individual basis. Its a failure on your part to see and sympathize with the fact that gays as a group are repressed by straight society. You as a person shouldn't feel so offended by comments made when you as a straight woman on a forum about drag queens aren't a part of the problem.

I'm not claiming to be better than anyone or a "motherfucking Mother Theresa", its just called being aware of the world around you and understanding that different groups have unique struggles.