Anonymous asked:
Considering I’m closer to 30 than 20, yeah I’d say so lol.
But yeah sure, I always have life advice to give.
- You become the people you surround yourself by, so make sure you surround yourself with people you want to become. If you know a lot of whiners, you’ll end up whining with them. If you know a lot of ambitious, passionate people, you’ll end up striving with them.
- Learn the difference between being kind and being submissive. It’s a big one.
- Learn the difference between being grateful and being loyal. It’s also a big one.
- Success is not in the result, it’s in the attempt. The results are the proof you did it at all.
- My mother always said “Always shoot for the stars, because even if you miss and fall you’ll land on the moon.”
- Cut out anyone who behaves like you owe it to them to make them feel better. They’re leeches. Even if you do everything right, they’ll still find reasons to hate you because you love them.
- Cut out people who act like it’s a chore to love you. They’re cancers.
- You don’t owe anyone anything. No one owes you anything.
- Forgiving yourself means carrying the weight you fucked up and you need to live with that for the rest of your life as a reminder not to do that shit again. If you feel guilty then you’re missing the point/lesson of your fuck up.
- The past version of you is as much of a stranger as the future version of you. The only difference is you don’t know the future one. So make up the version you want to be and strive to be it, the past one is already old news.
- Dealing with bullshit is like building an armory. The first time you deal with a problem, it’s hard. The second time, you’re ready for the rodeo.
- Don’t let yourself die because you’re hurting. You’re building muscle.
- Learn to say “no” without justifying yourself. Just let it end at “no.”
- Whatever happens, you’ll be fine.