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[–]StacksOfBudahhh 463 ポイント464 ポイント  (7子コメント)

for real tho, rape is never ok, male or female, if they smashed you can't smash

[–]ShredderZX 148 ポイント149 ポイント  (2子コメント)

if they smashed you can't smash

Words to live by.

[–]Shitforballs 34 ポイント35 ポイント  (1子コメント)

If you're hammered you don't get to nail.

[–]NotiLoch 8 ポイント9 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Nah, it would be "If they're hammered you don't get to nail." -- can't hammer what's already hammered son.

[–]visa_viisa13 15 ポイント16 ポイント  (0子コメント)

they smashed you can't smash

https://imgur.com/C40QEP5

[–]feelsbatman 22 ポイント23 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Realest comment I've seen upvoted here. Proud of y'all 💯💯

[–]ILoveChickeeen[S] 7 ポイント8 ポイント  (0子コメント)

True that.

[–]poonslayer2000 -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

tell that to rick ross

[–]Gr1pp717 92 ポイント93 ポイント  (3子コメント)

This should make for plenty of reasonable and light-hearted discussions.

[–]I_want_hard_work 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yeah, abandon thread here.

[–]higmage 211 ポイント212 ポイント  (88子コメント)

45% of rape victims are men.

[–]dorito_bag 113 ポイント114 ポイント  (38子コメント)

Is there a reliable source for this number? Because when I search it up, the responses vary a lot; from 3% to 38%. So I don't know what to think.

[–]unemployedfatty 11 ポイント12 ポイント  (3子コメント)

There is probably no reliable source for any rape numbers. So many rapes go unreported. Then you have to factor in child rape where the child is too afraid to tell anyone.

[–]geezerthecat 15 ポイント16 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Uh also adult rape where the victim is too afraid to tell anyone.

[–]sethboy66 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Also adult rape in which is falsified.

[–]PALMER13579 127 ポイント128 ポイント  (30子コメント)

I'm pretty sure its 45% when including 'forced to penetrate' into the legal definition of rape. As in when a man is date-raped by a woman some statistics won't count that as rape because the man was not penetrated.

[–]kwprules 72 ポイント73 ポイント  (9子コメント)

Once again, is there a source for this number?

[–]camycam178 17 ポイント18 ポイント  (0子コメント)

http://time.com/3393442/cdc-rape-numbers/

This is what I found from googling, if they start considering "forced to penetrate" as rape the amount of reported rapes seem to be relatively equal.

[–]WarrenHarding 68 ポイント69 ポイント  (2子コメント)

You're on reddit man there's no hope

[–]higmage 46 ポイント47 ポイント  (3子コメント)

You are correct.

[–]KShults 11 ポイント12 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Are they? Then do you have the missing source?

[–]Vuanaunt 47 ポイント48 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Here's the report from the CDC The numbers on pages 28/29 of the pdf (18/19 of the report). You'll have to do the math yourself, and with the lifetime results, but when I did a while back, I think I got 38%. That being said, I don't know what the overlap in the categories is.

[–]KShults 10 ポイント11 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Thank you for this.

[–]dorito_bag 20 ポイント21 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yeah, that makes sense. It's still hard to find any reliable statistics online about it without them being sensationalist articles, though. So I'll take that number with a grain of salt.

[–]WhenIWasDrinking 17 ポイント18 ポイント  (11子コメント)

The majority of sexual assault claims in the US military are male-on-male.

[–]TylerTJ930 37 ポイント38 ポイント  (9子コメント)

The majority of people in the US military are male...

[–]whitehat511 12 ポイント13 ポイント  (8子コメント)

That doesn't in any way detract from his point, in fact it was central to it.

[–]TuezLaLune 17 ポイント18 ポイント  (6子コメント)

What? It entirely and completely detracts from his point. If he was making a point at all, it was the assertion that these numbers from the military say something about the incidence of rape by men against men.

How would the proportion of men in a population not be relevant when making claims about a high number of man-on-man rape cases in that population? It's a confounding variable, and the identification of confounding variables is arguably the most important part of population studies- otherwise you're making false assumptions of causation, such as this guy (and maybe you? I have no idea what you think is happening here based on that comment) thinking that the fact that so many military assault claims is due to anything other than the fact that men make up a huge majority of the armed forces.

[–]aoife_reilly 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Do you even statistics?

[–]radams713 8 ポイント9 ポイント  (0子コメント)

What actually drives up this number or lowers it is when prison statistics are added. Prison rape makes up a large percentage of male rape statistics.

[–]prollylying 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

equality!

[–]Swamp85 -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

no sources

[–]camycam178 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

http://time.com/3393442/cdc-rape-numbers/

This is what I found from googling, if they start considering "forced to penetrate" as rape the amount of reported rapes seem to be relatively equal.

[–]Mike_Lamydia-Burns 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

according the the american bar association around 39% of domestic violence victims are men, and 23% of domestic rape cases have a male victim. Doesn't really relate to the statistic above but it does give some perspective. Plus men are significantly less likely than women to report domestic violence or rape.

[–]thelordofcheese 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

RAINN, CDC, WHO also various national LEO.

[–]Purecheetodust 23 ポイント24 ポイント  (14子コメント)

Not calling you a liar, but can you back that up? It was 1 in ten as of 2003. That's not 45%.

[–]ReddRawr 38 ポイント39 ポイント  (4子コメント)

I think that's when you take into account prison rapes too

[–]Swamp85 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (0子コメント)

no sources

[–]MonsterBlash -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Should we exclude some rapes as not really rapes?

[–]icanseeyou2 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

well the teachers are raping boys by the dozens and they are claiming that the boys wanted to do it or that they were raped. some women are raping boys getting pregnant and getting child support for raping the boy. so it looks that way. the bigger question is why are rapist getting custody of children.

[–]thelordofcheese 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (7子コメント)

RAINN, CDC, WHO

Females rape males using coercion (blackmail) or intoxication, and they rape people they know so the people will feel guilty about reporting them to the police. Females rape other females at least as much as they rape men.

Most rapes committed by men are by a small number of serial rapists.

[–]dorito_bag 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (1子コメント)

That last sentence sounds far fetched. "A small gang of serial rapists" really undermines the fact that while there are many nasty female rapists, majority of rapists are male.

[–]thelordofcheese 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Well, that's relative. And using a strawman by substituting the word "gang" in there is some unethical practice you do there.

Male rapists are less than 5% of the male population, and many of them are already in prison raping other men.

[–]JilaX -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

1 in 10 is only if you only count "Penetration with a penis" as rape.

[–]I_want_hard_work 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'll call you a liar on this one. What's the definition of rape in this case, and where did you get these numbers?

100% of people who post these stats are liars.

[–]guerrilla_terrorist 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (12子コメント)

If you take into consideration prisons, more men get raped then women.

[–]Swamp85 12 ポイント13 ポイント  (3子コメント)

no sources

[–]TheWhiteKnightFedora -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (4子コメント)

Yeah how do we know how many of these men are simply lying?

[–]Silentwes 16 ポイント17 ポイント  (1子コメント)

10/10 username + comment. #menisism #fedorasaresexy #mensrights

[–]AdvancedToast 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

#neckbeardacceptance #menslivesmatter

[–]icanseeyou2 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

don't you know, you can't question rape victims.

[–]geezerthecat -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Also supposing that statistic is true, I am sure the perpetrators of man-rape are more often than not other men.

[–]RedditsRagingId -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Hahaha, reddit.

[–]Swamp85 -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

no sources

[–]robledog -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I want to be rapped

[–]HiddenDumpling 29 ポイント30 ポイント  (3子コメント)

I don't know who that is/in what context it was said, but I hate that the punchline to this joke seems to be 'male rape'

[–]Silentwes 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (2子コメント)

This is where a brave RJW will stand up and tell you that everything is okay to laugh at, or nothing is.

[–]KShults -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

lol

[–]romanreignsWWECHAMP 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

haha the hypocrisy on this site

thanks for pointing that out

[–]42shadowofadoubt24 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (0子コメント)

R.I.P. this thread.

[–]mermalerm 39 ポイント40 ポイント  (8子コメント)

i don't get why this is funny. men can be raped too.

[–]ragincajun83 20 ポイント21 ポイント  (2子コメント)

White reddit is leaking into blackpeopletwitter way too much.

[–]chosen_few 12 ポイント13 ポイント  (3子コメント)

Great so now we cant just fucking laugh at shit. No we have to fucking comment on social issues. Fuckin sub is dead

[–]JezusaurusRex 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (1子コメント)

This subreddit is getting soft.

[–]chosen_few 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I unsubbed fuck this shit

[–]romanreignsWWECHAMP 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

not social issues

just white male social issues

[–]Silentwes 20 ポイント21 ポイント  (3子コメント)

Reading the comments, this subreddit.

[–]poopdikk 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

ITT: SJWs implying that it isn't inherently harder for a woman to rape a man

[–]Ethan5476 16 ポイント17 ポイント  (21子コメント)

In Sex-Ed in my school we were informed that men couldn't be raped

[–]Glenn1990 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Source?

Love me a good Wilkos storyline.

[–]itskisper 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (1子コメント)

White people and sensitive SJW's be leakin into black twitter because it's cool lmao smh.

[–]turkeybot69 -5 ポイント-4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

K

[–]NamityName 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (11子コメント)

this is actually a serious issue. many male victims of rape are afraid to tell their partners that they were raped for fear that they will be accused of cheating. and it's a legitimate fear. it happens. many people don't believe female on male rape is even an issue. it's the butt of a joke. ask yourself this, "if the roles were reversed, would it still be funny?"

[–]UsualFuturist -3 ポイント-2 ポイント  (10子コメント)

The roles aren't reversed though

[–]NamityName 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (9子コメント)

so rape is a joke?

[–]UsualFuturist 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (8子コメント)

Well no, rape is when you force sex on someone. Sometimes jokes are about rape though. Louis CK does a great one about how if we didn't have such a social stigma against child rapists you would actually see a lot less murdered kids because the child rapists just want to rape kids but then they end up having to kill them because they can't just like bring them home after. Lots of excellent rape jokes.

[–]NamityName -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (7子コメント)

but you're saying rape is ok if a guy is the victim.

[–]UsualFuturist 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (6子コメント)

Well no actually I'm laughing at a humorous post on /r/blackpeopletwitter

I've made no statement about my feelings towards rape one way or another.

[–]NamityName -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (5子コメント)

but that's my point. if that was a picture of a woman the joke wouldn't be funny. the fact that female victims are a travesty and male victims are a punchline is terrible. no rape is appropriate. there are some funny rape jokes. but this is not one of them. this joke just diminishes the seriousness of a real problem by, among other things, making the whole idea seem so unlikely, so ludicrous that it cant be true.

[–]UsualFuturist 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (4子コメント)

Considering 90% of rape involves a woman victim and only 1% of rape involves a woman attacker and most male rape victims are raped by other males and most female rapists rape other females I think it's safe to assume that dis nigga lying. Hence joke.

[–]NamityName -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (3子コメント)

well besides pulling numbers out of your ass, the studies into the issue vary wildly. in truth, we are uncertain how many women commit sex acts. but what is known is that many women (and men) don't think it's possible for a woman to even commit a sex act and this "joke" encourages that mindset. saying that a victim is a liar without at least attempting to find the truth is horrible. that guy may be lying about being raped. but many women lie about being raped too. but that doesn't mean we should automatically disregard a person because they might be lying. everyone might be lying about everything.

[–]UsualFuturist 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (2子コメント)

http://www.bjs.gov/content/pub/pdf/SOO.PDF

Sourced, bitch.

Anyway I had a chick blow me once when I was basically passed out and certainly couldn't give consent. Shit was pretty cash so yeah as a "victim" myself it's pretty hard to get riled up over the subject. Anyway, none of this matters really, because the joke is funny. You don't get to veto jokes based on your personal beliefs.

[–]LordoftheNetherlands 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's times like these I regret sorting comments by "controversial"

[–]DVSWhatItDoes 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Booooo!!!! God damn it, thought this was one of a handful of subs where I could escape this Reddit BS, guess not.

[–]Mr_honesty_ -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Those fat hoe's always be bitching bout gettin raped, we men can also get raped by a girl.

If a girl comes to me and forces me to have sex with me not willing, then it aint cheatin.

So my gf has to comfort me..

[–]Mur-cie-lago 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Damn bruh, who hurt you....

[–]saleszombie -5 ポイント-4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Black men are hella unfaithful, apparently.