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Your entire reply is a perfect example of being an over privileged asshole.

First off, being trans is not a matter of sexuality. That you think it is shows your level of intelligence on the matter of trans affairs: NONE. You are literally an idiot, and it shows, horribly.

Second off, you are tone policing. You are refusing to listen to a valid argument unless it somehow panders to your sense of superiority as a cishet <male I'm assuming>.

Lastly, you may think you're not trying to be dicks, and that would be really awesome if you /actually weren't/, but the sad reality is that you absolutely are being dicks, and are taking offense to shit because it isn't pandering to your inane stupidity on the matter of trans affairs. The reality of the situation here is that you're completely illiterate in the knowledge base of trans affairs, and you are coming on here getting pissed off that us trans people aren't bending over backwards to support your ignorance and intellectual laziness.

Maybe if you don't want to be a dick, you can try with this thing called "having half a clue what the fuck I'm talking about first before opening my big dumb mouth."

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[–]_jojoMonkeyLower Queen Anne 1 ポイント2 ポイント3 ポイント 18 時間前* (20子コメント)

There is a big difference between somebody who just lacks the knowledge but is open to it and somebody who comes rushing in with preconceived notions.

Most of the time, people rush in with preconceived notions. Think concern trolls, people who have ulterior motives, etc. It's really quite more common to run into thick skulled morons who have no interest in actually learning, especially if something they hear goes against their 'sincerely held beliefs' about gender. Plus, on top of it, they have no real interest in learning since there is no real incentive since it doesn't actually personally affect them.

Also, you're tone policing.

(Edit: You have no idea how many times I've been put on the spot to educate people (as though it's my job, somehow), only to wind up having to facepalm over and over again as I try to explain things and they just, not get the point - after so long a time, you are already put on the defensive, because having to deal with asshole-mcgee the 50,000th time is just, so draining)

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[–]_jojoMonkeyLower Queen Anne -3 ポイント-2 ポイント-1 ポイント 17 時間前* (9子コメント)

http://lmgtfy.com/?q=tone+policing

And if clicking is hard:

"A tone argument is an argument used in discussions, sometimes by Concern trolls and sometimes as a Derailment, in which it is suggested that feminists would be more successful if only they expressed themselves in a more pleasant tone. This is also sometimes described as catching more flies with honey than with vinegar, a particular variant of the tone argument.

The tone argument is a form of derailment, or a red herring, because the tone of a statement is independent of the content of the statement in question, and calling attention to it distracts from the issue at hand. Drawing attention to the tone rather than content of a statement can allow other parties to avoid engaging with sound arguments presented in that statement, thus undermining the original party's attempt to communicate and effectively shutting them down."

Also: http://groupthink.jezebel.com/on-tone-policing-why-its-bullshit-and-why-you-need-to-1148310719

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lmgtfy - cute. FYI, I asked because with vague SJW terms like this the speaker often has a very specific definition in mind, and that definition also sometimes varies between speakers.

I guess by that definition I was tone policing at least to the extent that I was critiquing your tone. But I wasn't trying to argue against you, I was just trying to explain why I think the downvotes you complained about weren't due only to transphobia.

But since you're so enlightened and above pesky human distractions like tone, I can make my point much more simply: You come off like an asshole, and people tend to downvote assholes.

As I said, you seem to have valuable knowledge and life experience to add to the conversation. It is my loss that won't benefit from that since I am not so enlightened in the ways of tone and prefer not to engage with assholes. Best of luck to you.

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