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What are the most annoying statements/phrases/questions that girls drop during dates? (self.AskMen)

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[–]CardinalsFanatic♂ 11 ポイント12 ポイント  (27子コメント)

Because it's generally a little strange if you write off an entire gender of people that you're not capable of being friends with. People have a variety of interests as individuals, so I tend to vibe with both men and women.

[–]chathink[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (26子コメント)

I've never doubted it was a bit strange, but myself I am in this situation. I've tried changing this situation a number of times (and I still am trying), but it's not changing. I've made myself a promise to invite girls to do something together at least once in a fortnight, but most of the times I just get turned down and no friendship ever happens further the small talk zone when we have to. I have 1 very close female friend, 2 or 3 not particularly close, but friends and then everyone else I know are guys. Time to time, when those guys are not single (anymore), I befriend their girlfriends/wives, but usually we don't develop any closer friendship than some casual chat. I just don't share same interests with girls (fashion, celebs, make up, looking sexy, etc) or I do things that are not very common for girls (travel alone, hitch hike alone, ok with using public transport at night, etc) hence I end up hanging out with guys because they have the same interests (arcade games, board games, gadgets, urbex, etc) that help us get along and keep our friendship alive :/

[–]mmp31Male 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

There's a difference between only having a few female friends and not getting along with any women. Not being able to get along with 50+% of the population is not a good way to win points.

[–]Jan_Svankmajer [非表示スコア]  (0子コメント)

Because, and this is a huge stereotype (but a lot of truths lie in stereotypes) women who say things like this tend to have a weird superiority complex about themselves over other women. Whether they are looking down on other women's interests (make up and "looking sexy") or generalising them -all women like fashion riiiight?!? Who are you to devalue their interests? Why is fashion a lesser interest than hiking? Why does it matter?

These types of women are weirdly territorial about the men in their lives. Which is awkward and uncomfortable when they have gfs and wives. These women are often the "I hate drama" girls, coincidently, their whole lives revolve around drama. By saying you don't like women because you're not like the other girls, you're also insinuating the whole "I'm a unique special snowflake" schitck which gets old very fast. It also screams as a lame tactic to become "one of the boys" to get special attention.

It's attention seeking to announce a statement like that. You might not have many female friends, but maybe there is a reason for that?