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[–]metroxed163.5cm 18 ポイント19 ポイント  (34子コメント)

There are more short women at /r/tall than here. It is not so difficult to see why, and it has nothing to do with misogyny. The fact that there are little female participation here is just reflecting real life.

[–]Gonz845,2.5 | 158.75 cm 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Actually you are right. It's like real life in digital form. Short women crowded around tall dudes while short guys are sitting on the outskirts. How.....depressing.

[–]frys1805'5" | 165 cm 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (0子コメント)

There were a lot of women here in the past years. The environment of the sub discouraged them from coming back.

[–]theroyalalastor5' 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (3子コメント)

This place is a hostile environment for women. It's hard to not feel unwelcome when blatant misogyny gets upvoted, female opinions on threads like this, as well as in threads about dudes complaining about their love lives (so like 40-50% of the threads on this subreddit) are always downvoted. Females pointing out blatant misogyny are also downvoted.

[–]Gonz845,2.5 | 158.75 cm -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (2子コメント)

So you want to censor 50% of posts here to accommodate you? The downvoting I can get on board with, the whole system is silly and useless. Downvoting/up voting seems like a cop out for those disagreeing with someone's opinion without having to show their face and reasons.

[–]theroyalalastor5' -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (1子コメント)

It's not censorship I want, it's an attitude change.

[–]Gonz845,2.5 | 158.75 cm 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Maybe if everyone besides us had their beliefs and attitudes changed we wouldn't have such a group of "sad depressing little men"would we.

[–]sherlock00001 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (26子コメント)

Damn, you guys are bitter... The reason why I think fewer short women are apparently here is because it's so damn depressing here

[–]ThrowAwayBro737[S] 12 ポイント13 ポイント  (1子コメント)

That might be somewhat true. But it's certainly not misogyny. Plenty of female participation on /r/fatpeoplehate and other subreddits which happen to make fun of mostly women.

But I think metroxed is mostly right. Plus, there is a ton of female participation in /r/horriblydepressing. So your theory seems kind of silly.

[–]GermanHammer6'4" | 193cm 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

They go into that sub knowing it's going be about horribly depressing things and not just horribly depressing short men. That might be why you see larger numbers there unlike here. They can relate to more there than here.

[–]Gonz845,2.5 | 158.75 cm 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

If we had more pictures of us with people leaning on us or picking us up or dressing us up like children or elves we would have all da womenzs right!

[–]fizolof5'7" | 170 cm 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (21子コメント)

Yeah, women are repulsed by bitter and insecure guys, and a large part of this sub is exactly that.

I wish there was a way to change that. People shouldn't bash women with tall boyfriends, it just looks pathetic.

[–]metroxed163.5cm 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (17子コメント)

People shouldn't bash women with tall boyfriends, it just looks pathetic.

But all the women bashing and hating on short men, that's ok, right?

[–]fizolof5'7" | 170 cm 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (15子コメント)

What the fuck are you talking about?

[–]metroxed163.5cm 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (14子コメント)

Your previous comment makes it look as if short men were the only aggressors, bullying women for having tall boyfriends or something. Yes, it's wrong and deplorable when that happens. But what about the times (and they win 1:1000) when women openly mock and hate short men for no reason, or the times women of any height are pressured by their also female friends to dump a short boyfriend for no other reason than his height? You conveniently mention how pathetic we are, but what about the causes that trigger it?

And get it right, people here don't go around bashing women with taller boyfriends, otherwise we should be bashing on everyone basically. It's happened a couple of times only, when a female user posted a photo with her tall boyfriend. Ideally nothing would come out of that but it does, but what's the point of posting that there anyway? It's like showing off how much food you have in a place full of starving people.

If we want to see a short woman dating a tall man we only need to go outside.

[–]fizolof5'7" | 170 cm 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (13子コメント)

Yes, women often mock short guys. But that's completely irrelevant. It doesn't mean we should act like assholes to innocent people here.

Don't you understand that criticizing a woman who posts a picture with her tall boyfriend isn't going to stop heightism in any way? You're just going to look angry and bitter. You have to concentrate on the long run. You have to work on being a better person instead of unloading your anger on other people.

[–]ThrowAwayBro737[S] 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (5子コメント)

Seems like short men are the only ones being asked to take the high road (heh, heh). It's like tho old bullying tactic of assaulting someone and then when they fight back, "hey...why'd you do that man? I thought we were just joking around. There's no need for violence".

[–]fizolof5'7" | 170 cm -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (4子コメント)

I'm just being realistic. Whining isn't going to change short men's lives for the better.

[–]CrawstonWaffle 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Yes, keep dismissing every single complaint as whining. There's no possible way the problem could be with you or other people.

[–]Gonz845,2.5 | 158.75 cm 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Venting keeps you from being stressed out which leads to other problems. Many short guys especially in the bottom percentage jump through all the hoops that people say they must do to succeed here ad nausium. When they are still treated like they are second class then what? Hey at least I have my self respect and dignity right!! When most of society says you suck people will look at you like you suck regardless of how much effort you put in.

[–]Gonz845,2.5 | 158.75 cm 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (6子コメント)

I've realized that taking the high road doesn't exactly yield anything in the long run. Karma is imaginary in my book. If you are a part of the group that's shit on by the majority nobody really gives a shit if you are somehow righteous in any way.

Que the downvotes by people who still think that being the paragon of morality will protect you from being fucked over by those in a higher social/economic standing. Life isn't a Disney movie.

[–]theroyalalastor5' -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (5子コメント)

Que the downvotes by people who still think that being the paragon of morality will protect you from being fucked over by those in a higher social/economic standing.

You know that being whiny and bitter doesn't protect you from that either right? At least if you take the high road you can actually respect yourself.

[–]Gonz845,2.5 | 158.75 cm 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (4子コメント)

Whiny and bitter meaning coming to an anonymous sub to vent a little frustration? Yeah tried the whole staying quiet and bottling up thing. Not exactly good for health.

[–]jayp7 -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

No. Nobody said it was. Period. The fact that you associate these two sets of women who are completely different humans by virtue that they both have vaginas is the definition of misogyny.

Some women suck. Boo-hoo. That has zero to do with the women who post on this board and get torn apart basically no matter what they post.

[–]Gonz845,2.5 | 158.75 cm 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Should we juggle with funny hats that ring-aling? Perhaps maybe castrate ourselves so we can be like real court jesters!

[–]fizolof5'7" | 170 cm -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (1子コメント)

The fuck? I'm asking you to have a more positive attitude, not to be people who should be laughed at.

Just because you want to fight heightism (yes, I want that too) doesn't mean you have to be bitter 100% of the time.

[–]Gonz845,2.5 | 158.75 cm 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

That's the point. Nobody is being bitter. Short guys especially always have to be careful of complaining lest we get called bitter. This isn't a positive topic so you can't expect constantly positive people.

[–]illperhaps5'4 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

That and maybe they don't think too much of their height to come on the Internet and talk about it.

[–]ijontichy 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

End of thread.