How long until MRAs use this to "prove" all accusations are false accusations? (cnn.com)
againstmensrights
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63 comments submitted at 19:30:05 on Dec 5, 2014 by chewinchawingum
How long until MRAs use this to "prove" all accusations are false accusations? (cnn.com)
againstmensrights
10 ups - 0 downs = 10 votes
63 comments submitted at 19:30:05 on Dec 5, 2014 by chewinchawingum
I've stated what consent is about is asking your partner if they are okay before acting. You are stating this is a fantasy and that we are demanding people sign contracts before they have sex. Who is the delusional one here?
No not everyone agrees with that, the mras and you are pitching a fit about the idea you ask your partner "hey, do you want to x?" or "can we do x?" beforehand and comparing it to filling out legal documents. Why are you fighting it so hard, ask yourself that question. Why are you objecting so strongly to making sure your partner gives a sober and un-coerced "yes" to sexual activity?
By the way, my language has been gender neutral this whole time with the exception of bringing up the mrm's poor handling of male victims and calling into question how your "wife" just happens to hold these views that you are supposedly only repeating to us from her mouth. You're really stretching acting like I've said all men are rapists.
All mras probably are though with how much they fight for the right to sexually abuse people, but thankfully they're not the whole fucking male population.
Ok, I'm sorry if you interpreted what I was saying as something an MRA would say.
I admit that I was ill-informed on what the actual issue was, and I find it insane that any person would actively dismiss the desires of his or her partner.
I've always thought of rape as the worst possible crime, and I've always said that if the death penalty should ever be used it should only be used in the cases of convicted rapists and child molesters.
But honestly, I didn't realize how prevalent it was, and really had no idea that anyone was advocating FOR it.
I just thought it was natural for people engaging in sexual encounters to automatically give signals to each other about what they're willing to do, and that both parties ought to respect those wishes, otherwise yes, that's rape.
I really didn't know that there was anyone advocating against that idea. And that's horrible.
I apologize and will do more to educate myself in the future and fight against these bastards.