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Either Jesus was silent for His entire life except for an hour or so, or the Bible doesn't contain everything He said. による [deleted]において Christianity

[–]jacobheiss 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

People are typically really sloppy when it comes to rhetoric. You make a valid point.

My BF suddenly and unexpectedly found himself in over $20,000 in debt that he cannot pay. He feels hopeless/worthless and needs prayers. による BFNeedsPrayersにおいて Christianity

[–]jacobheiss 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Will pray, but he definitely needs to get legal counsel now. On the far side of this experience, you both might strongly consider also spending some time on /r/personalfinance itself or perhaps the resources those folks recommend. Speaking right now as a pastor, I can tell you that more lives are damaged and more relationships fail over financial issues than just about any other category of challenge.

I posted specific suggestions for your bf in the thread he posted here. The key thing is going to be focus and moving fast.

[TX] Car Accident - Allstate wants to suspend my driver's license による CarAccidentTexasにおいて legaladvice

[–]jacobheiss 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Came here from the thread your gf posted in /r/Christianity. Presuming everything you have communicated is accurate, you probably need an attorney for this to level the playing field power-wise. It doesn't matter if you are totally in the right and everybody is totally wrong if they have more power and want to come after you--you are still exposed. These are the hard facts of life. Steps you need to follow in this order are:

  1. Minimize all distractions and bear down on this; it will feel worse before it gets better. If this means getting off Reddit or deleting Candy Crush or whatever from your phone, do it.

  2. Get legal counsel for yourself. If you don't know any lawyers, ask the most ethical yet well established people both socially and business-wise for referrals. I don't know the specifics of your part of Texas, but in my part of Chicago there are countless options for this, from pro bono legal aid to prosecutors will only draw their bills from what they are able to effectively "win" your case in court or private settlement.

  3. Draw from your network of support to keep moving forward--the people who are physically capable of being their for you right now--to beat this. You probably feel like shit these days. It happens to everybody. This is survival; think: survival. Not dealing with this isn't an option. Beating yourself up over it isn't an option. Reach out for assistance to others while also pulling your weight as you continue to gain strength.

Hang in there.

Edit: I'm bad at words this late :(

Randy Alcorn: Similarities Between Palestinians, Native Americans Growing More Obvious による DonManuelにおいて NativeAmerican

[–]jacobheiss 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I was going to add that /u/justjacobmusic is my alt account I typically use when I feel like discussing music related stuff versus the main account I've had for the past seven years, but I felt like there was enough of a rejoinder already in play with what I mentioned.

This is the first time I've been accused of being a Jewish shill, though; I really don't have much of a clue for propriety of response with this sort of thing :/

10 American Catholic archbishops live in homes worth more than $1 million による burrbro235において news

[–]jacobheiss 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

$1m for just about all of the locations mentioned is not impressive. I live in Andersonville, Chicago, and there are a slew of homes priced above $1m less than a mile from me. For more specific context, a buddy of mine recently bought a single family home on the cheap and rehabbed it in a substantially less expensive neighborhood than mine for roughly $600k in the final analysis. Within a two block radius of my flat, the least expensive condo currently up for sale clocks in at $167k and the most expensive house clocks in at $1.7m.

Plus, those archbishops don't own those homes. The Roman Catholic Church owns them and basically provides housing to its clergy as a form of compensation.

Alibaba IPO による JPD678において finance

[–]jacobheiss 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Softbank is the better way to access this. It's business model is better right now than Yahoo's.

Just found out guy I'm seeing is in a relationship. help! による [deleted]において dating_advice

[–]jacobheiss 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

This one is easy. Just quit pursuing contact with him and deny his attempts to connect with you. If / when he asks what's wrong, tell him that you learned that he is in a relationship and that you're not interested in wasting your time with anything like that. Wrap up the conversation swiftly afterwards; beware any attempts on his part to explain or downplay the matter.

To make sure you don't abuse your own boundaries if he persists, start pursuing other dating relationships as soon as you are ready. Don't leave a gap in your life to which he can emotionally appeal. In class, be courteous on a professional level if you wind up in a position where you can't avoid him (e.g. assigned to a group project) but otherwise basically ignore him in favor of building friendships with others.

Be strong! You got this one in the bag.

Simple Questions 06/27 による AutoModeratorにおいて DebateReligion

[–]jacobheiss 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

First, thanks for such a substantive response. Since the ethical framework at which I've currently arrived its heavily pragmatic, I appreciate the usefulness of utilitarianism and empiricism.

In response to your question, I'm Jewish from my father's side of the family and strongly value this part of my heritage while strongly identifying with a Jewish reading of scripture in the exegetical tools I use to interpret the Bible. It is a fact that Christianity sort of spun off of late antiquity Judaism, and it's true that contemporary mainstream Judaism and Christianity are virtually irreconcilable as they were formed in conscious opposition to each other. At the same time, it is also a fact that the earliest followers of Jesus were Jewish and that there has always been some group of people who both self-identify as Jews and also as followers of Jesus as Messiah and Son of God since that time. I belong to that small group of people today.

Simple Questions 06/27 による AutoModeratorにおいて DebateReligion

[–]jacobheiss 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

For all: How would you very concisely summarize what functions as the core of your personal life philosophy or religious perspective? In a nutshell, what is life about for you?

Simple Questions 06/27 による AutoModeratorにおいて DebateReligion

[–]jacobheiss 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Oh man, there is a ton of stuff out there on the Sabbath. Rather than try to summarize all of that, I'll just mention one resource I found pretty helpful along these lines in Abraham Joshua Heschel's short but excellent book, The Sabbath. One rabbi reviewing the book said this about it:

Heschel was the first Jewish theologian (as far as I know) to explain how traditional Jews live more in sacred time than in sacred space. While other religions have devoted their energy to building physical temples and cathedrals in sacred places, Jews have erected sanctuaries in the form of sacred days. Time, like physical space, has a varied texture to it. Just as there are differences between mountains and oceans, so, too, are there are there differences between the Sabbath and the ordinary days of the week. The Sabbath is more than just a secular "day off." It's a specific creation made by God in the very dawn of Creation. The Sabbath is as real as the physical things we see and touch everyday in the natural world. But in order to experience the specialness of the Sabbath, one must step inside the structure of its special rules and observances -- to enter the "palace in time."

Simple Questions 06/27 による AutoModeratorにおいて DebateReligion

[–]jacobheiss 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'll take a shot at this:

  • The entire sacrificial system in the OT points towards Jesus. There's nothing inherently salvific about the shedding of animal blood; it's the just the way God chose to get the point across to humanity that sin yields a destructive effect that is costly to reverse. In other words, the OT practice of animal sacrifice just helps to bring about a consciousness of sin's weight, namely, by having the person who has committed the sin give something they value to God--usually by killing that thing. (There are offerings of things like grain or precious metals in the OT and not just animals.) It is always God doing the forgiving and reconciling; animal sacrifice is ultimately a teaching tool to get this point across.

    • "So then, the law was our guardian until Christ came, in order that we might be justified by faith. But now that faith has come, we are no longer under a guardian." - Galatians 3:24-25
    • "The Law is only a shadow of the good things that are coming—not the realities themselves. For this reason it can never, by the same sacrifices repeated endlessly year after year, make perfect those who draw near to worship." - Hebrews 10:1
    • "It is impossible for the blood of bulls and goats to take away sins." - Hebrews 10:4
    • "No one will be declared righteous in God’s sight by the works of the Law; rather, through the Law we become conscious of our sin." - Romans 3:20
  • Jesus is not just a human sacrifice. Rather, Jesus can be understood as God more intensively expressing how forgiveness works, leveraging that sacrificial system from the OT with Jesus not only being like the animal sacrificed but also like the priest offering the sacrifice and also God accepting the sacrifice. Nothing much has changed here with respect to the primary agents in the process of salvation since it is still God doing the forgiving and reconciling of people who need that. But once humanity has (presumably) understood the destructive effect of sin and its costliness to reverse thanks to all that animal sacrifice stuff, we'll be able to better understand and value the forgiveness God offers as that is depicted by Jesus's sacrifice.

    • "The next day John saw Jesus coming toward him and said, 'Look, the Lamb of God, who takes away the sin of the world!" - John 1:29
    • "Therefore, since we have a great high priest who has ascended into heaven, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold firmly to the faith we profess." - Hebrews 4;14
    • "Unlike the other high priests, he [i.e. Jesus] does not need to offer sacrifices day after day, first for his own sins, and then for the sins of the people. He sacrificed for their sins once for all when he offered himself." - Hebrews 7:27
    • "In Christ God was reconciling the world to himself, not counting their trespasses against them, and entrusting to us the message of reconciliation." - 2 Corinthians 5:19
  • Side note: Why not skip the whole animal sacrifice thing and go straight to God doing some Jesus-y stuff right off the bat? Basically, because God wanted to reveal this saving / reconciling / forgiving part of God's self to us. If we treat God as a transcendent being who exists beyond and yet also created material reality, including time, then it is within God's power to instantaneously reverse the damaging effects of anybody's sin; however, if God did that, we wouldn't know about it. It would be like an adult to always stops a kid from touching the sharp thing such that the kid never learns the damage that cutting themselves inflicts nor values the work the adult does to heal the kid with bandages and ointment and kisses and stuff. So, there's a sort of necessarily, pedagogically laborious aspect to the precise timing of Jesus's physical arrival on planet earth, as preceded by all the animal sacrifice stuff. Also, Jesus's sacrifice is temporally universal in that it not only affects people after Jesus arrived but also "traces back through time" as we understand it to affect people who lived before Jesus physically arrived.

    • "Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in Christ with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places, even as he chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless before him. In love he predestined us for adoption as sons through Jesus Christ, according to the purpose of his will, to the praise of his glorious grace, with which he has blessed us in the Beloved. In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of his grace, which he lavished upon us, in all wisdom and insight making known to us the mystery of his will, according to his purpose, which he set forth in Christ as a plan for the fullness of time, to unite all things in him, things in heaven and things on earth." - Ephesians 1:3-10
  • Finally, the "no human sacrifices" mantra in the OT exists in the context of the OT to prevent people from killing something God doesn't want to be killed in people's zealous attempts to achieve forgiveness. A particularly heinous aspect of several of the people groups surrounding the Israelites was child sacrifice, and some of the rulers of the Israelites who are depicted as being the most evil also did this, like Ahaz as discussed in 2 Kings 16:1-3. Nevertheless, the story of God commanding Abraham to sacrifice Isaac only to stop Abraham from doing so is probably the most famous narrative portion unpacking this prohibition as mentioned in Genesis 22. Christian theologians tend to read this story also as a foreshadowing of Jesus, expect that where Abraham was prevented from sacrificing his son, God actually went through with it in Jesus. Again, this only works because Jesus is functioning on all sides of the sacrifice--as the thing sacrificed, as the one conducting the sacrifice, and as the one accomplishing forgiveness through the sacrifice.

Edit: Accidentally hit submit before completing the last part.

The Way Church is Done による alarming94において Christianity

[–]jacobheiss 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Well, most of the modern world today is not like the one in Acts and so on. And, yes, if you stripped away the knowledge you grew up with in the church and started a new one fresh, it would probably look a lot different--but is that not the case for basically any form of endeavor, e.g. education, fishing, accounting, canning ham, medicine, crafting pool cues, etc.?

Maybe a more focused line of consideration would be: Are there legitimately transferable characteristics of the church as depicted in Acts that each of us individually can and should try to actualize today? If so, what's most promising?

Unemployed Christian Men による seminaryharryにおいて Christianity

[–]jacobheiss 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Keep rocking, man! Are there ways you have sought to bone up on this or that employable skill / certification? There was a discussion a while back on /r/Frugal about this.

I'm a Bad Programmer. This is What I've Done. による Tebboにおいて Entrepreneur

[–]jacobheiss 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Ouch! This is the best object lesson ever for why agile project development beats the pants off of waterfall. Have you checked out that option, /r/agile, anything on SCRUM, etc.?

My old man has been working with an IT consulting company for somewhere close to fifteen years now, and they have moved the entire squad over to agile since it consistently delivers the best results for their particular batch of clients. Your situation sounds like it would have benefited from this approach, too.

Hang in there!

Unemployed Christian Men による seminaryharryにおいて Christianity

[–]jacobheiss 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Your attitude and confidence that God is telling you to wait sound pretty admirable--I can imagine how easy it would be to crumple under the weight of anxiety and social expectation here. I did want to ask one question, though: Would anything in your strategy change if we weren't talking about vocational ministry?

For example, median annual wage of clergy across all aspects of the job sector is $43,800 according to the latest U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics data. Using that as a benchmark, pastors land in an earnings category similar to a carpenter or a postal service clerk or an aircraft cargo handling supervisor. Let's suppose on hypothesis that you were an unemployed one-of-those-guys, and let's also suppose that job growth prospects were about the same across all those lines of work in the near term. If you were an unemployed postal clerk, would you think it best to keep looking for a job or else pursue work in some other context? If you had sought carpentry jobs for the past year without landing one, would you continue to do that or pivot to some other source of employment? If you got laid off from your job as an aircraft cargo handling supervisor a year ago and hadn't been able to find work since, would you ditch that type of employment or keep looking? If you would stick with the exact same strategy in all those circumstances by continuing to look for work in your original field of employment, then your reasoning is consistent. On the other hand, if you would switch your line of work around provided that you started off in the "secular" sector, then you may strongly want to consider why you wouldn't do that now.

Being a pastor isn't the same thing as getting paid to serve a given church as its pastor. Please understand that I am in no way challenging your sense of calling here. And, again, if you're certain that God is telling you to wait, all of what I'm saying is nothing more than a thought exercise. Still: Even if you are certain that God has truly called you to be a pastor, it may be worth considering how creative you are willing to be to exercise that calling. For example, you could continue to look for a ministry gig and ultimately wind up finding one. You could also continue looking for a ministry gig while working in some other sector. (For the sake of full disclosure, I spent seven months either doing odd jobs or looking for work as a pastor myself back in 2009, although I was single with no children at the time.) Or you could basically create your own gig by church planting--doing whatever you need to do to make ends meet during launch. Willow Creek started as a youth group in the early 1970's. Community Christian Church (i.e. the one that started the New Thing network) started as three separate small groups back in the late 1980's / early 1990's according to page 23 of the Ferguson brother's text, Exponential. The church I currently serve started as a Bible study for Swedish immigrants in Chicago in somebody's basement with nobody getting paid to serve as the pastor or Bible study leader or whatever.

I haven't seen you respond to anybody's input so far on this thread, but I would really like to hear your thoughts on this. Hang in there, and thanks so much for sharing a bit of your journey with us!

Edit: Clarity.

Mree -- Such Great Heights [Folk] (2010) Just...Wow Not sure of the genre. による YourProblemにおいて listentothis

[–]jacobheiss 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I never listen to music like this, and I find almost all of it really boring and derivative and popularly contingent on the singers cuteness versus any real talent.

But for Pete's sake, this girl's fully produced stuff is actually pretty damn good, cf. "Into The Well." Thanks for the nudge, OP.

The Dignity of Sexual Identity from an Evangelical Perspective, Part 1: The Difference Between Sexual Identity and Lifestyle Choice による jacobheissにおいて Christianity

[–]jacobheiss[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

ごめんなさい。これは既にアーカイブしてあり、もう投票はできません。

What I think you may be saying here is something like: "The only evangelicals who don't come off condemning are those who agree that committed gay sex is morally equivalent to committed straight sex." Am I hearing you correctly?