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[–]Totenglocke4230/M/Ohio - Single and Snipped! -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (13子コメント)

There's no tantrum on the planet that can't be stopped with a solid smack.

[–]allcapsisyellingfucking dick -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

While I love the idea of smacking tantrumy kids, I am not as confident that it would stop the tantrum.

[–]Totenglocke4230/M/Ohio - Single and Snipped! -3 ポイント-2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

It depends on if you regularly discipline the kid or not.

[–]Mythum -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (10子コメント)

It's really not ok to hit a toddler.

[–]Totenglocke4230/M/Ohio - Single and Snipped! -3 ポイント-2 ポイント  (9子コメント)

And that's why kids are so incredibly uncontrollable these days, it's "trendy" to say it's not ok to discipline your kid.

[–]virtuousnoodle 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (8子コメント)

Abuse is not discipline.

[–]Totenglocke4230/M/Ohio - Single and Snipped! -5 ポイント-4 ポイント  (7子コメント)

Spanking isn't abuse.

[–]virtuousnoodle 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (6子コメント)

As someone who was regularly "disciplined" throughout her childhood, I can tell you it absolutely is abuse. And it doesn't discipline. It teaches children that they can fear bodily injury when they express themselves. Discipline is firmly and persistently teaching them that there are better, more appropriate ways to express their frustration. And that the consequences of inappropriate behavior is loss of privileges, not expectations of physical pain. As a result of my lifelong "discipline," I'm still working on appropriately expressing my emotions.

[–]Totenglocke4230/M/Ohio - Single and Snipped! -5 ポイント-4 ポイント  (5子コメント)

I had a parent who spanked me and a parent who physically abused me. Trust me asshole, there's a huge difference between spanking as discipline and abuse. Just because you threw a temper tantrum about your parents actually disciplining you doesn't make it abuse, it just makes you an entitled asshole.

[–]virtuousnoodle 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (4子コメント)

Trust me, asshole, that my abuse began with spanking and ended much worse. And hitting people who are smaller than you, can't defend themselves, and trust you implicitly, only creates more monsters. As evidenced here.

[–]Totenglocke4230/M/Ohio - Single and Snipped! -4 ポイント-3 ポイント  (3子コメント)

Yes, I'm a monster for thinking kids should be disciplined. People like you are one of the reason I don't want kids, because you're hellbent on making the world a worse place because "It's hurts my feelings to be told no!" and refuse to discipline your kids / attack those who do. Every time you see a child behaving badly, remember that THAT is a direct result of your "discipline is abuse" bullshit.

[–]virtuousnoodle 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Actually no, I don't want kids, so I'm never going to need to discipline them. But I absolutely think that a grown ass person striking a child is abusive and unnecessary. We tell children to use their words, to keep from hitting, but think it's okay to hit them ourselves? It doesn't hurt my feelings to be told no, and I wish that when I was a kid and screaming over shit I wanted, that someone had taken me aside and talked to me instead of causing me physical pain. The part that you're wrong about is that I think discipline equals physically hurting another human being. It doesn't. If you wouldn't beat a dog to keep it from barking, you shouldn't do it to a child who will end up mimicking the way you solve problems for the rest of their life.