Q
I am pretty sure i'm lithromantic because i've had a crush for over a year and i still don't want my feelings to be reciprocated. Yet i have fantasies where we are together, or kiss, or even have sex, so i'm really confused????
Anonymous
A

It’s not uncommon for lithro people to have non-lithro-seeming fantasies.  As with other areas of romance and sexuality, liking to fantasize about a particular thing doesn’t necessarily mean you want to enact that fantasy.