What if behind your delusion of me, the reality is that I am a "good" person, who just enjoys sex?

Nothing wrong or right with that, it is just biology mate.

If she is an adult and has the ability to conduct a business transaction with me, where is the harm?

Is it less sleazy to try and seduce a woman whom is half drunk at a dance club, stumbling on the sticky dancefloor, headache inducing house music pumping over the speakers, too dark to see anything?

Or would you only be ok with me meeting a woman at a church gathering and getting married prior to missionary intercourse?