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[–]Carbun 14 ポイント15 ポイント  (25子コメント)

But there is also a difference between beating the shit out of your child and an occasional spank or a slap on the cheek when he has really done something wrong. It happened to me and I turned out pretty well. Of course when it happened I got explained what I did and why I should not do it again afterwards.

[–]TVUpbm 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I've only ever been spanked once and I don't even remember it.

Apparently it was because I tried to run around in a parking lot when we were getting back to our car, so I guess I never did that again, which is good.

I'd rather be spanked than dead under a tire.

[–]servantoffire 11 ポイント12 ポイント  (21子コメント)

I've been spanked twice in my life, and you can be damned sure I never did what caused it again. Am I wrong for thinking that that kind of discipline is not child abuse? It's gotten pretty vilified lately, but I and most my friends have gotten disciplined like that, and we've all turned out pretty well.

[–]Part_Time_Hero 6 ポイント7 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Spanking is not abuse.

Source- child protective services

[–]Kelsig 8 ポイント9 ポイント  (17子コメント)

And people who don't get slapped turned out well

Its a cop-out of parenting.

[–]servantoffire 8 ポイント9 ポイント  (12子コメント)

I'm not saying it's the only way to raise a good child, but I also don't see the harm.

[–]Carbun 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (3子コメント)

Because parents don't need to do it. But it can help sometimes.

[–]NotSquareGarden -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (1子コメント)

So you admit that they don't need to do it? Why on Earth do you think that uneeded violence is acceptable?

[–]Carbun 7 ポイント8 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I was kind of a brat in my teenage years. I crossed the limits once or twice. Got slapped hard the second time and I never ever did it again. So yeah parents don't need to do it but in case of "emergency" it really helps. It wasn't unneeded. This is the difference between raising your child, teach him not to cross the limits and child abuse, beating the shit out of him just because he forgot to buy bread on his way back from school.

[–]Mouth_Full_Of_Dry 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

There is a 100% correlation between a parent touching a child and that child turning out to be a felon and batterer. /s

[–]drakmordis 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

EVERYONE WHO WAS EVER TOUCHED BY ANOTHER HUMAN HAS WOUND UP DEAD!

[–]Pvt_MJCaboose 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Exactly. I remember getting a quick slap on a couple of occasions after making a smart ass comment, but a fucking belt is too far.

[–]Carbun 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Definitely yeah, never something else than the palm of the hand.