Bookworm, gamer, and wannabe writer when I'm not being a cranky tired auditor who overidentifies with robots. Scratch that I always overidentify with robots.
(aromantic/asexual/cis/white/female; she/her pronouns)
Catching Elephant is a theme by Andy Taylor
i am so sick and tired of “isn’t friendship important too” used to devalue the relationships of alloromantic aces, PoC, disabled people, etc
stop stealing aromantic people’s bid for recovering our self-worth to weaponize it against marginalized groups
stop using it for covering your ass for the stuff you’re excited to deny them
"it’s okay to deny you [thing you want] because you should be happy with whatever we decide to leave behind" does not help aromantic people and it never will
and if you’re alloromantic and not part of the marginalized group you’re insisting ~should be happy with just friendships~ you just need to punch yourself in the face or something