OPINIONS

A call to end housed Greek life at Stanford

Last week, Provost John Etchemendy announced a new policy regulating housed Greek life on campus. The policy outlines a punitive system based on the severity of a “transgression” by a member of a fraternity or sorority chapter. One “major transgression” — “such as a serious injury caused by overconsumption of alcohol, sexual assault by a member, drugging or spiking drinks served at the house, failing to call for needed medical help for seriously intoxicated students or hazing” — is now (appropriately) justification for revoking housing for the entire Greek organization involved. The same is true of three “minor transgressions” — anything from serving alcohol to minors to “intolerant or disrespectful comments.”

While the distinction between major and minor transgressions may be problematically subjective, Etchemendy’s new policy is a step in the right direction. By holding accountable not only individuals but Greek organizations collectively, the regulations serve to foster self-policing in frats to uphold the fundamental standards expected of all of us as Stanford students. While the residence agreement that all housed undergraduates sign functions on an individual level, the collective culpability espoused by the new policy is novel and particularly important in Greek houses.

But, the policy change does not go nearly far enough.

It’s time to consider abolishing housed Greek life altogether.

Now, I know this seems like a dramatic statement, but bear with me. First, note that I say housed Greek life. Though, in full disclosure, I would prefer to obliterate Greek organizations completely, I respect and acknowledge that frats and sororities have significant merits, and eliminating them might leave a social vacuum for many students. However, by allowing Greek organizations to remain active on campus while revoking their housed status, I think the social and cultural problems propagated by the Greek scene could be largely resolved.

But what “social and cultural problems” does Greek life propagate? In light of media attention to sexual assault on college campuses, Greek life has come under fire. Nationally, men in fraternities commit sexual assault at three times the rate of college males in general; women in sororities are 74 percent more likely to be victims of sexual harassment or violence than non-Greek women. An article in The Atlantic, moreover, argues that alcoholism and alcohol abuse are deeply entrenched in Greek lifestyle. While these studies are on national Greek organizations and their applicability to our campus can be debated, there are nevertheless social and cultural problems that housed Greek life proliferates at Stanford specifically.

There are seven housed fraternities on campus, and only three housed sororities. With about 60 people to a house, this means that there are about 240 more Greek men who are guaranteed housing on the row than Greek women. Fair? Obviously not. And, the gender-biased housing priority upheld by housed Greek life masculinizes the Row, the social epicenter of campus. Women are quite literally left in the margins of campus. The draw is notoriously worse for women ­— meaning it’s harder for women to get “good” housing — and the disparity between the number of male and female Greek houses is a major reason why.

This alone is certainly not enough rationale to disband a deeply rooted system. But let’s now look at the power dynamic between fraternities and sororities, and its implications. National Greek governing board policy dictates that sorority dues cannot be used to buy alcohol, which leaves the frats in charge, placing power in their hands. Fraternities largely determine the social atmosphere on campus — they host the parties, they supply the booze, they choose the themes. Traditional, patriarchal gender norms are therefore institutionally supported: Males are dominant and control the party scene, putting women in an inherently deferential position.

If campus Greek organizations put excessive social capital in the hands of male participants, they also underscore female desirability, the reduction of women to physical objects and competition amongst sororities to win the preferred attentions of fraternities — invites to the best party pregame, for example.

Another national Greek housing policy (nominally) prohibits men in the living quarters of a sorority. While it is not widely upheld at Stanford, this policy puts not only social but also sexual power in male hands. A woman living in a sorority, by mandate, cannot take the initiative to invite a male sexual partner to her room. This results in profound sex negativity and oppression and possibly requires sexually active sorority members to have sex outside the house in what could be a more compromising location, so housed Greek life could therefore undermine the efforts of the SHPRC and SARA offices.

It seems clear that the double standards between fraternities and sororities undermine female agency not just ideologically, but practically. In addition to normalizing troubling gender roles, Greek life also proves to be dramatically classist and elitist. Extremely high quarterly dues (hundreds of dollars across the board) may be prohibitive of membership by students of limited means. Interviews with members of multiple Stanford Greek organizations suggest that, while financial aid options are occasionally available, they are rare and difficult to obtain.

The financial obligations of Greek organizations lead to a socioeconomic homogenization of their members. With the majority of members from upper and upper-middle classes, Greek life is removed from the diversity of student experiences that Stanford emphasizes. While there was a push for diversity by the Greek Life Diversity Coalition last spring, the institutional framework of Greek life — the simple fact that they must demand high dues to sustain the organizations’ social endeavors — prevents it from coming to fruition. A similar argument has been used to critique co-ops on campus — though few would argue that co-ops have the same foundation in gender normativity that Greek life has. Although this socioeconomic commentary targets not just Greek houses, but organizations, Greek houses exacerbate the class divide by maintaining insular communities, while unhoused Greek members are disbursed throughout Stanford’s somewhat more diverse student body.

My preceding arguments have focused on the insularity, normativity and exclusivity of housed Greek life as compared with the rest of the Stanford experience. However, another line of critique of housed Greek life exists within the Greek community: More inequalities are perpetuated by having some Greek organizations housed and some unhoused.

In allowing some fraternities or sororities housed status over others, unhoused Greek organizations are systematically devalued relative to their privileged counterparts. Housed Greek organizations have major obvious advantages over unhoused ones — the ability to have house staff paid by the University, while unhoused Greek leadership is unpaid; the opportunity to host parties without burdening another, non-Greek house (again, limited to fraternities); and simply the social status differences between housed and unhoused organizations. Moreover, whether or not a Greek group has a house is arbitrarily based on historic precedents.

If you worry that abolishing housed Greek life would be detrimental to the social lives of those involved, fear not: Unhoused Greek organizations foster similar strong friendships and social ties among members. Another benefit of Greek life is that Greek organizations are requisitely philanthropic. However, transitioning from housed to unhoused Greek life would have no impact on philanthropy — in fact, Alpha Phi, an unhoused sorority, raised the most money for their charity last year out of all Greek organizations.

One major question raised by my arguments might be: “Well, where would all the parties be?” And, in fact, as they are now, fraternities provide a service to the Stanford community as a whole by hosting all-campus parties (though not without their own issues). However, as illustrated by the success of Kairos’ Wine & Cheese, EBF’s Happy Hour, Casa’s Pizzeria, La Maison’s Crepe Night and others, the social burden of hosting widely inclusive parties could easily be disbursed amongst other row houses. And, if parties were outside the social hegemony of fraternity control, they could reach out to a wider population of students.

The social and cultural consequences of housed Greek life, I hope to have convinced you, far outweigh the benefits of insular camaraderie amongst members. Etchemendy’s policy changes may attempt to reform the ideology and social environment of the Greek system, but that’s not enough. Only by breaking down the underlying structure — the housed status of fraternities and sororities — can we enact meaningful change and foster inclusivity in the larger Greek community.

Contact Mark Bessen at mbessen ‘at’ stanford.edu.

About Mark Bessen

Mark is the Desk Editor of Opinions for the Stanford Daily. He is a senior studying English, working on an honors thesis on the contemporary coming-of-age novel. He is particularly interested in the narratives of minority writers in the United States (taking minority to include issues of race, class, and gender/sexuality). Contact him at mbessen@stanford.edu with comments or questions.
  • Clark

    http://thefraternityadvisor.com/greek-life-statistics/

    So far off base I’m rendered speechless, which is beyond rare.

  • No, but really

    First of all, attendance and how fun the sorority is ranks near the top as well. Either way, your point completely castrates (lol) the role that sororities play in the process. I don’t think you understand the fact that a sorority has to agree to schedule an event with a fraternity. They hardly compete for any pregame or pre-party event. Most of the yearly events are established traditions based on inter-house relationships (e.g. the same sorority and frat tend to go on ski trip together year after year). Other events are scheduled based on the social chairs (are the sorority and fraternity social chairs already friends from freshman year? probably means more events together). Sororities are involved in the initial scheduling, theme choosing, party set up, drink making, alcohol distribution, and a long list of other tasks that go into making a party successful. Do looks play a role? Yes, undoubtedly, but it cuts both ways–sororities will schedule more events with good looking frats. Last I checked, Theta had way more events with Theta Delt than with Phi Psi (sorry to call you out Phi Psi, you’re great still). Women also care about looks. As for objectification, you fail to realize that members of fraternities and sororities know each other already, and have potentially been doing events together for years. Frat members have many many friends in sororities and vice versa. Your idea that my friends in a sorority are a mere object to me and my fellow frat members is ‘delusional’ and misguided. Many of these girls I’ve known since freshman year, many of them are my study buddies, and a lot of them are really fun to hang out and drink with.

  • Not in a frat, but…

    I’d like to address a couple of Mark’s specific points. I’ll leave the debate about the truth of his claims to those who know more, but even without knowing the reality of Greek life on campus, I feel I can still weigh in with a response.

    > “With about 60 people to a house, this means that there are about 240 more Greek men who are guaranteed housing on the row than Greek women. Fair? Obviously not.”

    According to U.S. News (http://colleges.usnews.rankingsandreviews.com/best-colleges/stanford-1305), the male to female ratio of the 7,061 enrolled undergraduates is 53% male to 47% female. This means there are about 420 more male than female undergraduates. Even if Greek housing means 240 more Greek men are guaranteed housing, that still does not fully account for there being more men on campus in the first place.

    > “Another national Greek housing policy (nominally) prohibits men in the living quarters of a sorority. While it is not widely upheld at Stanford, this policy puts not only social but also sexual power in male hands.”

    One commenter already pointed out that the prohibition of men in sororities is essentially disregarded at Stanford, and Mark seems to accept this. If Stanford students did indeed obey this rule, then Mark’s claim that it “results in profound sex negativity and oppression” would perhaps carry truth. However, if the reality is a disregard for the rule — as would seem — Mark’s claim is unsound, and not based in reality.

    > “In allowing some fraternities or sororities housed status over others, unhoused Greek organizations are systematically devalued relative to their privileged counterparts.”

    I would argue that this, even if true, is inconsequential for the mere fact that aspiring Greeks continue to rush and choose unhoused fraternities and sororities over housed ones. I would further believe that there is a BENEFIT to having both housed and unhoused frats: it allows students more choice for how they want to experience Greek life.

    > “…the social burden of hosting widely inclusive parties could easily be disbursed amongst other row houses.”

    Would co-ops and self-ops be willing to take up this burden?

  • Clark

    The description applies to life, greek or not. I think for many the real world may come as a shock. I’m an alum greek and friendships were made not on that basis, rather common interests, enjoy hanging out, etc. If you looked closely at the pictures of the students in the greek system (<10%) they look remarkably similar to the population as a whole. There is more capacity in the greek system than supply–anyone who wants to join can find a place. The limitation is how many spots are open for housing–not because you aren't pretty/rich/skinny enough. If we could take as many as we wanted, we would. But it boils down to filling the slots.

    As far as the selective, connected, rich, nepotistic, description, I'm confused. Were you referring to the Greek system, or Stanford admissions?

    I'd love to say that I am one of those rich, connected, skinny and pretty guys. I'm not, but willing to try it out! But I will say that having been a part of the greek system at 2 different schools, it has made all the difference in the world for me and my experience at Stanford made even more fulfilling. Going through serious cancer treatment, those around me and my wife throughout were my fraternity brothers. Some I was not that close to while at Stanford, but they were there.

    There is something to be said for row houses and their shared interests–that is an important aspect of student life. But aren't they self-selecting too? Would it be best to simply randomize all available rooms on campus and draw numbers? Options are part of what makes Stanford great. Eliminate the greek system and you will change the culture of the Farm, and I remain unconvinced it would be for the better.

  • A REAL Feminist

    This isn’t so much of a discussion as it is corrections to your falsely made accusations that generalize Greek Life. This piece is one-sided and from the perspective of someone not involved. You state your opinions without reaching out to anyone who is a part of Greek life.

    It is highly inappropriate that you are speaking for sororities. First, you are not a woman and cannot speak for women. Second, you clearly have no idea of how sororities at Stanford, or nationwide for that matter, operate, and third you are commenting about fairness when you clearly don’t know the facts. Not everyone wants to live in a sorority house and there are plenty of sorority members, those who are members of housed and unhoused sororities, who prefer not to live in the house. Also, no one said sororities ever wanted to throw parties to begin with. That isn’t sexism, that’s a choice. We don’t want you in our house, if we did, you’d be there. And by the way, women in housed sororities are not forced to go to fraternities to engage in sexual encounters. Clearly you don’t know anyone in a housed sorority or any sorority.

    While other social events exist on campus, it would be unwise to say that they suit everyone. Assuming that those who attend fraternity parties would feel comfortable at Wine&Cheese, EBF, etc. is incorrect. Those parties, while they are great, aren’t for everyone. Neither are fraternity parties, but no one is forcing you to attend them.

    Just to make it clear, your article was poorly written and without any references or sources other than yourself. I also wonder if you participated in rush freshman year, and didn’t get a bid because this article just sounds like you’re BITTER.

  • I smell a hypocrite

    https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10151496490880470&set=a.469076565469.249641.506240469&type=1&theater

    You want to eliminate fraternities and sororities all together, but you have no problem attending a sorority special dinner. I sense some hypocrisy.

  • Agreed

    Yes, thank you! If someone makes the decision to go Greek, they should have the option to live in a house. Rush here at Stanford is so much based on where personality fits, but saying that one type of personality gets tier 1 housing versus another type of personality getting tier 3 housing? So unfair. House all the Greeks that can fill a house, but hold them to a high standard.

  • Lo

    Lolz he’s a joke.

  • frosh dormmate

    this guy rushed sigma nu with me

  • Stanford Greek Alumn

    As a recent Stanford Grad in the Greek system, I’m pretty appalled by this article.

    And, maybe I’m shooting myself in the foot here as well, but yes, there is less “diversity” in Greek organizations, whether it be socioeconomic, race etc. (I could go on, but you get my point). I think one thing that has not been brought up (hence shooting myself in the foot) is there are a lot of powerful alumni that have come out of Greek organizations who have given millions of dollars to the University, some of who do it based solely on their experiences they had in Greek organizations while they were at Stanford.

    I can tell you this, those alumni would be absolutely furious and pissed if the University did away with Greek life. Those donations will disappear (I have heard this from an Alumn firsthand) or decline in dollar amount, upon which many students (Greek students too) rely on for financial aid, great facilities etc.

    Etchemendy would really be shooting himself in the foot and piss off a lot of the University’s biggest donors if he were to abolish Greek life.

    Be grateful for those that have come before us that have enjoyed Greek life and other organizations on campus. Many of these people happen to be the biggest donors of the University who pay for the great facilities, financial aid, etc. They give you (yes, you Matt and everyone else) the opportunity to attend such a great University.

  • Oh Mark, I feel sorry for you

    Mark Besson, you truly are a sad, sad human. If only you could find something positive in life at Stanford and stop writing articles full of slander, maybe someone would accept you into their community so you wouldn’t have to feel so left out.

    I agree that sexual assault is a major concern within Greek life at any university, however that’s about the only valid argument you bring up to merit any discussion on this topic. And even then, it’s not the Greek organizations that are responsible for incidents of assault–it’s the individual who committed the act. You could disband Greek life at Stanford, but that still wouldn’t eradicate the potential for sexual assault–the individuals would still have to same propensity to commit these acts if there were substances involved at parties…which would still happen.

    If you’re a female and want to live on the row, feel free to join Columbae. But just keep in mind, Mark Besson doesn’t approve of co-ops either. Maybe we could all just live in freshman housing for our four years at Stanford and be stuck with terrible roommates like Mark Besson.

    And on that note, PARTY AT SIGMA
    NU TONIGHT!!!!!