Am I in the wrong if I'm not attracted to someone because I think they're too fat, or have too many pimples, or because [redacted], or because they have pointy knees?
I've heard that this sort of thing is called "lookism." It's where you hold people to culturally accepted standards of beauty. And while it seems, on the one hand, superficial and odious, I feel like I should have some "right" to my taste or opinion. Still, when I go on a date, and I'm not attracted to them, I feel shallow, and like I need to see their inner beauty. But if that's the case, I shouldn't be unattracted to anyone.
I feel like the answer lies in somehow weighing all their qualities on a figurative scale, and subjectively deciding whether or not I'm attracted to them. And furthermore, that a "more mature" attitude would not put as much importance on physical appearance.
What do you think?
Edit: I apologize for any offense caused by my poor phrasing.
[–]BrienneFlakes [非表示スコア] (32子コメント)
[–]turntandburnt [非表示スコア] (31子コメント)
[–]so_srs [非表示スコア] (29子コメント)
[–]locriology [非表示スコア] (13子コメント)
[–]BrienneFlakes [非表示スコア] (5子コメント)
[–]turntandburnt [非表示スコア] (3子コメント)
[–]nomoarlurkin [非表示スコア] (1子コメント)
[–]bilnit[S] [非表示スコア] (0子コメント)
[–]ellouelle [非表示スコア] (0子コメント)
[–]locriology [非表示スコア] (0子コメント)
[–]so_srs [非表示スコア] (6子コメント)
[–][削除されました] (4子コメント)
[deleted]
[–]ThePerdmeister [非表示スコア] (3子コメント)
[–][削除されました] (2子コメント)
[deleted]
[–]invisiblecows [非表示スコア] (1子コメント)
[–]yellowmadgey [非表示スコア] (14子コメント)
[–]Hamstak [非表示スコア] (7子コメント)
[–]turntandburnt [非表示スコア] (6子コメント)
[–]bilnit[S] [非表示スコア] (5子コメント)
[–]so_srs [非表示スコア] (4子コメント)
[–]AbradolfLincler [非表示スコア] (3子コメント)
[–]so_srs [非表示スコア] (2子コメント)
[–]blarghable [非表示スコア] (0子コメント)
[–]so_srs [非表示スコア] (4子コメント)
[–]yellowmadgey [非表示スコア] (3子コメント)
[–]ThePerdmeister [非表示スコア] (0子コメント)
[–]so_srs [非表示スコア] (1子コメント)
[–]yellowmadgey [非表示スコア] (0子コメント)
[–]blarghable [非表示スコア] (0子コメント)
[–]Lolor-arros [非表示スコア] (0子コメント)
[–]misandrasaurus [非表示スコア] (8子コメント)
[–]bayesianqueer [非表示スコア] (7子コメント)
[–][削除されました] (6子コメント)
[deleted]
[–]bayesianqueer [非表示スコア] (5子コメント)
[–][削除されました] (4子コメント)
[deleted]
[–]A_HUMAN_REAPER [非表示スコア] (3子コメント)
[–][削除されました] (2子コメント)
[deleted]
[–]A_HUMAN_REAPER [非表示スコア] (1子コメント)
[–]Glory2Hypnotoad [非表示スコア] (0子コメント)
[–]Sir_Marcus [非表示スコア] (2子コメント)
[–]tivooo [非表示スコア] (1子コメント)
[–]cinderella_story [非表示スコア] (0子コメント)
[–]Fimmschig [非表示スコア] (1子コメント)
[–]i_am_a_meatpopsicle [非表示スコア] (0子コメント)
[–]javatimes [非表示スコア] (0子コメント)
[–]bilnit[S] [非表示スコア] (3子コメント)
[–]so_srs [非表示スコア] (1子コメント)
[–]bilnit[S] [非表示スコア] (0子コメント)
[–]MicahdM [非表示スコア] (3子コメント)
[–]BastDrop [非表示スコア] (0子コメント)
[–][削除されました] (1子コメント)
[deleted]
[–]modalt2[M] [非表示スコア] (0子コメント)
[–]vicpro1 [非表示スコア] (0子コメント)
[–]justice1988 [非表示スコア] (0子コメント)
[–]patonieto [非表示スコア] (0子コメント)
[–]vi_warshawski [非表示スコア] (0子コメント)