Almost correct. My issue is with the influx of people, op certainly appears to be included, who are trying to force the commercialization of Reddit's fetish subs. The OP in particular uses the phrase "getting spammy" as a pretense to suggest that she wants transform the sub into something intellectually interesting about fetish. A quick look at her posting history easily shows that her problem isn't with spam persay, but rather that it isn't "her spam". If people like the OP kept their spam to their own corner nobody would care which is exactly the problem. They do not. They branch out to other subs in an attempt funnel people who aren't interested to their sales areas. Take /r/gonewild for instance, a very popular sub for fetish people, over the past year it's been a real problem with those like the OP who ignore the rules about posting commercial offers. The /r/gonewild moderators and community of thousands said that they didn't want their sub polluted with sales pitch posts but this group like OP (yes, I've seen her sales posts there) posts these things for sale anyway. /r/gonewild is only one example, they are doing this in any fetish subreddit that has a decent subscriber base. Posting unsolicited sales offers to subreddits that have specifically asked not to receive them is indeed spam.

There is a bevy of people who have already asked to take over the /r/fetish subreddit for noncommercial purposes http://www.reddit.com/r/fetish/comments/1dreir/moderators_wanted_for_rfetish/

BTW, read some of the threads in the feces selling subreddit I mentioned. There are several talking about whether they should be using the US Postal Service tracking option when they send their toilet's content through the US mail. Though since I see in your posting history that you are a long time commenter in the OP's subreddits , I take it you were actually already aware of this.