trudandy:

trudandy:

heteroboys:

stop truscum 2k14 stop throwing asexual nonbinary and various other non-dysphoric trans people under the bus and deciding they’re “not trans enough” 2k14

What does asexual have to do with this? that’s an orientation, not a gender. and nonbinary genders…

that’s…right. some people feel dysphoria in more places than others, more top than bottom or more one than anything at all. no one’s disputing that. plus, some people can’t get bottom surgery, so it’d be wrong to say everyone has to.

the thing is that some people feel no dysphoria at all and that’s perfectly valid too. Some people are of the mind that a body is a body, because honestly “sex” is a social construct just like gender. Also, “sex” and gender don’t actually have to be linked in any way at all, and they only are because society decided that thats “just the way it is”, but its not. Just because truscum don’t understand what its like to identify as transgender without feeling “sex dysphoria” that doesn’t give you guys the right to decide you’re “more transgender” than anyone else because you’re not and don’t have the right to police anyone elses identity. Transgender means nothing more than identifying as a gender other than the one you were assigned at birth. “Sex” is an outdated concept that is inaccurate and doesn’t have to have anything to do with gender. I’m honestly too fuckin lazy to get sources on the science that says that “sex” isn’t a binary and that it’s not as simple as “XX or XY” so its wrong to base anything on that presumption, but I’ve read them, they are out there, and you can find them if you care enough to look. “sex dysphoria” is based entirely on the flawed concept of “sex” so it’s incorrect. 

I’m tired and I don’t want to argue about this anymore because you’re never gonna convince me of an idea thats is 200% based on a flawed concept anyway so yeah sorry i’m leavin