The only real best solution to this is not to get shitfaced around strangers. Or if you do decide to do that make arrangements to be baby sited by a sober person you trust.

One of the more disturbing and mentally ill facets of our culture is this sort of 'Cult of Victim-hood'. There is this popular notion that anybody (especially women) can pretty much engage any sort of high risk behavior that they want with no consequences. If, then, somebody was to do something untoward them while engaging in high risk behavior then they are automatically the most evil people on the planet and should be punished... while the 'victim' should be cherished, praised, and supported on a few different levels (emotionally, financially, legally, etc)

And while it is technically true that people should be able to engage in high risk behavior without being assaulted or whatever... that is not how things work in the real world. And the sad part is that people are being trained by schools and support groups to volunteer for terrible things to happen to them.

High risk behavior is exciting and stimulating because it is high risk. Otherwise what is the point? It's excited and titillating to do 'naughty' things. It's a conscious decision to engage in behavior that could land you in a lot of trouble because it's excited to put yourselves in those situations.

So... due to the nature of high risk behavior.. If you are a young women and you go half-naked into a house full of pretty much anonymous, single, young men and want to get shit-faced on drugs and alcohol.. then that actually amounts to a tentative consent for sexual things to happen to you.

Some women actually engage in that behavior because they WANT to get laid while getting drunk and stoned. It's fun. I've met people like that, they exist and they really do like just hooking up with people at a party. Some women don't... how is anybody person suppose to really tell the difference when they look and behave in a almost identical fashion?

So really what should be taught at schools, if people wanted to actually have a positive effect is that:

1. Finding a women passed out drunk in your bed is not a invitation to have sex.

2. Don't go to stranger's parties and get wasted and pass out on their beds if you don't want to have sex with them.

Don't forget at these sort of situations everybody ends up fucking wasted. It's not like men should be considered immune from bad judgment either.

Of course this applies to all sorts of high risk behavior, not just getting drunk at parties. If you are a man and you like to get into frequent arguments at bars it's a actual invitation to getting your ass kicked. Walking around in bad neighborhoods and flashing high end clothing, accessories, and money is a invitation to get robbed. Leaving tools in unlocked in the back of your pickup at a shopping center is a invitation to get them stolen. So on and so forth. Sure robbing somebody or punching somebody in the face is something I would never condone.. just like I'd probably kick the shit out of anybody I saw feeling up passed out girl at a party.. but it in these situations these people have taken a active participation in turning themselves into victims. The blame is not entirely on the criminal.

Now if somebody was to go to a party with friends and is drinking responsibly, but then some guy spikes her drink and manipulates her to a bad situation... then that guy is a shitstain of a lowest order and deserves entirely to be considered a rapist and a fraud.