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[–]Nimbus2000Dad -3 ポイント-2 ポイント  (10子コメント)

A house doesn't just suddenly get three vermin infestations overnight. there is something seriousoly wrong with the way the father lives/keeps his house together. Bedbugs live on clothes too after all.

[–]I_never_respond 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (6子コメント)

Bedbugs will live absolutely anywhere and in the cleanest places. Never judge somebody for bedbugs.

[–]Nimbus2000Dad -3 ポイント-2 ポイント  (5子コメント)

There are cockroaches, lice, AND bedbugs. Not just bedbugs.

[–]I_never_respond 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (4子コメント)

It could easily depend on where they live as well, my wife and I moved into an apartment years ago that had cockroaches and bedbugs already, and we had no idea.

[–]Nimbus2000Dad -3 ポイント-2 ポイント  (3子コメント)

Oh, I know, nature is nature, where we live would be infested with ants if we didn't have an exterminator come by every month to spray the outside. But because we are grown ups leading grown up lives, that's what we do so that we don't live in a house that if infested with ants.

[–]I_never_respond 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Have you ever had bedbugs? Not everyone has the time and the thousands of dollars it can take to treat them.

[–]Nimbus2000Dad -3 ポイント-2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

We stayed in a lodge in Montana that turned out to have bedbugs, and when we realized we took them home with us, we looked up bedbug elimination on Google and had a Terminix guy come. It was a pain in the neck! But the alternative was having bedbugs. If you live with that alternative, somethings the matter with you.

[–]I_never_respond 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Well I'm sorry that a couple decades or so we were a couple poor kids outside of college stuck in the slums, it wasn't exactly a choice.

You should learn a thing or two about shaming those less fortunate.

[–]MidwestMemories 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (2子コメント)

To cut dad out because he could possibly carry a bug on him is borderline abusive. I assume she doesn't not let her socialise for the fear other kids might carry bugs around too and certainly shouldn't do it to her dad.

Dad was probably ashamed and stressed and thought she'd do what you appear to be suggesting, taking her daughter away. I can't speculate on the condition of his house but maybe you should talk to an exterminator who can tell you houses with infestations can be virtually spotless.

[–]Nimbus2000Dad -3 ポイント-2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

I don't know where you are getting that I am suggesting that there be no contact between the child and the father. That's your preoccupation I guess. I am saying that real adults leading real adult lives take care of this sort of nonsense before it gets to infestation-level.

[–]I_never_respond 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

TIL poor people can't be real adults.