unhailedgeneral:

I’ve been noticing a trend among tucutes with saying that they’re “dysphoric magicalsparklymadeupgender” or whatever.

Fucking stop. Right now.

First of all, how can you have dysphoria that means that you identify as “a gender that is a feeling of vagueness” or “a gender that is magical sparkly glitter and specialness” or whatever it is you made up last week?

Secondly, how fucking dare you. Dysphoria is not a game, dysphoria is not a label you put on yourself to make your little dress up game look more genuine and serious. Dysphoria has ruined my life and continues to, and it’s not lighthearted fun and games. I have tried to kill myself because of my dysphoria, and I am not alone. If you’re doing this, you are unforgivable. You are not worthy of basic respect. You disgust me.

bodies =/= gender also nice how this post implies that if you identify as something outside the realms of male or female that you must not really experience dysphoria & just want to be “”“cutesy”“” like way to invalidate the experiences of a lot of non binary people just for not using the labels you want them to