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steveandtonys:

zarabithia:

Ugh, some days I forget how rotten, disgusting, and vile Stony shippers can be

and then

they come up out of the sewers and remind me

bitch nobody asked you and no one cares at all what your opinions are keep the shit to yourself since ain’t no one give a shit about you or your shit opinions

you hate stevetony???? then avoid it bitch

you’re all so whiny just blacklist it and shut the FUCK UP SERIOUSLY YOU DUMBASSES

The fact that the first word in your reply is “bitch” is so precious. It’s everything wrong with the Stony fandom in one word. LOL, your casual misogyny, it’s so … slimey over everything.

And oh look, there’s “bitch” again. 

and some casual ableism with “dumbass.” 

Oh, Steve/Tony fandom, you are literately everything terrible about fandom condensed into a solitary pile of awful. 

Obviously, dear human, you care. Obviously a great deal, because you felt the urge to spew your disgusting misogyny all over my blog. I’m sorry that you are gross and that I hurt your poor little boo feelings. 

If “nobody cares” then why are you here. Why are you here, spewing misogynistic slurs at my post? If nobody cares, then why are you shouting in caps? 

"nobody asked you" is something I stopped caring about when I left elementary and that phrase stopped having an impact. But importantly, someone DID ask me, by spewing their hatred of a female character. That was an ask. And I replied. Why are you participating in that conversation if you don’t care? 

If you don’t like it, then perhaps you should blacklist me. Your advice is very easily done for you, if my inability to support your oppressive behavior hurts you so very badly. 

And make no mistake, your little temper tantrum is supporting oppressive behavior. 

Do have a lovely day, and some time on your path towards becoming an adult, I hope you are able to sit down and have a long conversation with yourself about why you think Steve and Tony fucking each other is more important than the harm you are doing by supporting this fandom’s continual racism and misogyny. I hope you have a long and serious conversation with yourself about why you think it’s okay to address real people with the word “bitch” and toss around ableist slurs, and I hope you have a long conversation with yourself about why you think that a misogynistic slur is an okay way to have an argument. 

I hope you have a conversation with yourself about why you think that your right to be angry at people who don’t support your ship is more important than their right to express frustration at your fandom’s misogyny and racism. 

I hope you have these conversations because they are important to actually becoming an adult and moving beyond the “nobody asked you” mind frame that does not allow you to contribute positively to other people’s existence. 

And I hope along the way, you learn to address people in ways that do not involve slurs.