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[–]mroche21 5 ポイント6 ポイント

Why is your wife going out and getting drunk without her wedding ring, while dressing pretty provocatively. You sound like a friend-zone husband too.

[–]MegZzilla 31 ポイント32 ポイント

Wow, that's provocative to you? Where the hell do you live?

[–]LastWordFreak 7 ポイント8 ポイント

Her top does have really thin straps. I could see her whole shoulders.

[–]universalmind 3 ポイント4 ポイント

PM_ME_UR_SHOULDERS

[–]LastWordFreak 1 ポイント2 ポイント

Seriously, this needs an NSFW tag. Dat skin!

[–]ajs427 1 ポイント2 ポイント

I doubt the guy is even old enough to go out to bars based on his "friend-zone husband" remark. Sounds like a kid. That might be provocative in the 8th grade.

[–]TestFixation 34 ポイント35 ポイント

Holy jump-to-conclusions Batman!

[–]purdycom 27 ポイント28 ポイント

agreed... women get dressed up to go out and have fun and "dress to impress" other women... I love when my wife goes out with her girlfriends... we have this thing you call trust.

Funny side note about girls and girls: I could have 10 guys over and she wouldn't care but ask her to invite a couple over and "No, I'd have to clean the entire house"

On another note... I never wore my wedding band as I hated the feeling of having it on.... wife never cared at all.

[–]OutoflurkintoLight 7 ポイント8 ポイント

Yep, I think a lot of these "if she goes out, looks good and has a good time she is cheating on you" comments come from guys who have either been fucked over so many times they dont trust women or more likely have never had a proper girlfriend/wife before.

[–]assblaster7 2 ポイント3 ポイント

more likely have never had a proper girlfriend/wife before.

Welcome to reddit. Where "if I can't be happy, no one can."

[–]powercorruption -2 ポイント-1 ポイント

Why do the majority of single people go out to drink and dance? To get laid.

You can trust your wife to drink and dance without you, but you can't trust the single men out there who are getting mixed signals. You can't deny that married people don't get a boost in confidence when they're hit on.

[–]OutoflurkintoLight 2 ポイント3 ポイント

If you cant trust your partner enough to go out drinking with their friends then there are major issues in your relationship.

Also a lot of people go out to just relax and drink with their friends in a nice environment that isn't at home. Maybe if they are going out clubbing all the time and specifically don't invite you yeah you can start to worry but before dating/marrying you that person had a life without you and they are still entitled to spend time without you just as much as they are entitled to spend time with you.

If someone is going to cheat they will do it regardless and trying to control what they do is only going to make it worse and ultimately that's what this all comes down to with guys complaining about girls going out and having a good time. Control and insecurities.

[–]powercorruption 0 ポイント1 ポイント

If you cant trust your partner enough to go out drinking with their friends then there are major issues in your relationship.

Which is why I wrote "You can trust your wife to drink and dance without you, but you can't trust the single men out there who are getting mixed signals.". But even then I'm not sure if I agree with what I wrote. How can you trust anyone 100%? I can't even trust myself. I'd like to think I would never cheat on my girlfriend, but I've also never been in that position. Given the correct circumstances, and on a long enough time frame, we'd fuck anyone.

but before dating/marrying you that person had a life without you and they are still entitled to spend time without you just as much as they are entitled to spend time with you.

Separation is healthy, but relationships are about compromise and you have to be willing to give up certain things to be with your significant other.

If someone is going to cheat they will do it regardless and trying to control what they do is only going to make it worse

Agreed, but it also doesn't help to place them in an environment that will stimulate their desires. You don't assign your recovering alcoholic friend to be your designated driver while you barhop.

[–]nigelmansellmustache -1 ポイント0 ポイント

for real. What year do these commenters live in?

[–]SayYouSayMeL0L -4 ポイント-3 ポイント

"agreed... whores get dressed up to go out and have fun and "dress to impress" other whores... I love when my whores goes out with her girlfriends... we have this thing you call trust."

The chatty, rambling nature of your writing speaks of a man-boy either raised by women or feminized by society in general. The fact you believe girls get dressed up to impress other girls shows you have no idea what it it's like to be an attractive person, or you'd understand the ego boost they get from men's attention.

You sound like another beta, like the OP, who married the first piece that came along.

[–]megagram 1 ポイント2 ポイント

You sound like you'd be a fun husband.

[–]Scheduler 3 ポイント4 ポイント

these guys eat goldfish and string cheese for dinner, you think they can afford fancy wedding rings?

[–]mustlovecanines 4 ポイント5 ポイント

Make assumptions much? Why does she have to wear her wedding ring all the time? Maybe she was being responsible and didnt want to wear it out in case she lost it? And, a woman can dress however she pleases. I personally don't think her outfit was provocative at all. Just because a woman dresses up, goes out and drinks with friends doesn't automatically make her a cheater or anything else.

[–]zeppelinism 1 ポイント2 ポイント

Maybe she knew she was getting drunk and didn't want to lose it so she left it at home?

[–]itsmehobnob 2 ポイント3 ポイント

He stayed home and did her laundry!

[–]Soygen 0 ポイント1 ポイント

I thought Amish people weren't allowed to use computers?

[–]imsocooldude 0 ポイント1 ポイント

It does seem like OP is use to this kind of behavior. If this is a pattern I would be a bit concerned for OP.

[–]emberspark 0 ポイント1 ポイント

Since when is this outfit provocative? Maybe if you're living in Utah. I've seen women going to work in outfits like this. Keep in mind that until she took her whole skirt off, she was just basically wearing a tank top and a loose skirt.

I know lots of women that have girls nights where they go out without their husbands or boyfriends and just get drunk. The wedding ring could be a number of reasons - some couples don't wear them. Some don't wear them when they're planning to get drunk to avoid accidents. Maybe it's being repaired or resized. You're jumping to a lot of conclusions.

[–]mroche21 0 ポイント1 ポイント

or maybe she's looking to fuck..

[–]emberspark 0 ポイント1 ポイント

Or maybe not. That's just a bunch of misogynistic bullshit. When I see posts with drunk guys doing funny things, even when they're dressed nice, I don't hear anyone harping on about how they must be out fucking other women.

If she went out to a bar alone, I could understand being concerned. But from what I can see, my guess is she went out with a group of friends, which is totally normal. She's not wearing anything slutty or revealing at all. I've seen women wear similar outfits in an office setting.

[–]TheCPUGovernor 0 ポイント1 ポイント

Yeah, she probably made a few stops at poundtown before getting home.