You. Go away. Now.

It’s wrong to want to dominate a woman, so things feel very contradictory when exploring kink negativity in this aspect. My problem is with the fact that men come from a place of privilege and we live in a rape culture that socializes women to be submissive. So even if a woman chooses to be dominated, she is just hyperconforming to societal ideas of the roles of women. This isn’t inherently wrong (though I also believe that bdsm is a form of self harm), but the most usual power dynamic in bdsm relationships involve a man dominating a woman. Anyone who believes this is purely coincidence has to be joking themselves.