Catching Elephant is a theme by Andy Taylor
Not everything adults do is evil, but evil things adults do are defended by society. Also, most people already believe that everything parents do is for their children’s own good, and there’s no reason for us to go out of our way to defend beliefs that are already popular.
It really makes me sad to see teenagers trying to talk to their parent(s) about something that they feel strongly about or tell their parent(s) something important/something they want them to know, but their parent(s), without trying to understand or support them, lash out and get angry, and two days later wonder why their child doesn’t feel comfortable talking to them about their personal life.
I don’t know if fan mail can be published. Use a submission
Even with all the excuses for invading your children’s privacy, I can’t think of any possible reason for this.
It bothers me that the intelligence of animals is measured by how willing they are to obey the commands of a human.
same goes for students at schools
I just realized how fucked up that is wow.
(Source: a-puckish-rogue)
Today I saw a dude try to physically remove a teenage girl from the disabled seating on the train, complaining about his weak ankles and hypertension and how pathetic and discourteous youth were.
She literally threw her prosthetic leg at him.
Sounds like a definite mixture of ageism and ableism - and I wouldn’t be surprised if sexism was also involved here.
Maybe if parents actually told their kid why they want/don’t want them to do something their kid wouldn’t be following others blindly.
I asked my parents why it wasn’t okay to swear around them and it became a huge argument about respect. They even said themselves that I shouldn’t have to ask them why. They literally told me not to ask for reasoning behind what they ask of me. What did I learn? That my parents weren’t trying to teach me to be smart and knowledgeable, they were trying to keep me in line and make sure I follow their every order. And I keep this information in the back of my mind every time I talk to them.
They did the same thing in a subtle way when I told them I was teaching myself to be better at math.
If your kid asks for a reason behind something you said, tell them. They aren’t questioning what you’re saying, they’re becoming smarter and they want answers.
Also; don’t be an ass to your kids or insult them. Just don’t do it. It isn’t the insult that hurts, it’s the fact that your own parents would say something like that to me. I’ll talk more on this in a different submission.
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If there’s a reason, they’d want you to know it. If they get angry when you ask for a reason, they’re admitting that there is no reason.