Highly upvoted post in the EMSK subreddit - batteries included, as well as straw men, pedestaling, explaining what love is, emotional abuse, torture. But wait, there's more: "A healthy human being doesn't use sexual strategy."

thewrightstuff88 · 1 時間前

I've been on this subreddit for a while now, long enough to say that yes, there are definitely extreme ends of TRP that I personally don't agree with, however, I believe TRP has expanded to much more than "A discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men." I think that it further spans the identity of a man himself, who he is, what makes him feel good about himself, what he can do to improve himself. When this sub started, it was about sexual identity. Most, if not all posts were about the subject. But now, its not about sex, its not about relationships, its about YOU and what makes YOU happy. Yes, sex is involved in that but more and more posts are about happiness and satisfaction out of life from within. Now, I haven't ever read a post where people complained about lifting, reading, learning, and having some new found self respect, but I have read about the positive effects those actions have on the lives of the people who actually put some effort in and made a change towards that.

Like earlier posts said, you even mention the words "red pill," and you will be hit with a shit storm of hate and apprehension. However, if you merely lay out the concepts, that you are a person, that your life isn't dependent on another person's happiness, that your own happiness comes from within, that you should have respect for yourself and that you stand by your values instead of giving in to someone else's, that is something that people can agree with.

TRP is more than sexual strategy and people have to see that. It's about self improvement, happiness, being content, instead of being walked on. Upvote me or down vote me into oblivion, either people will wake up and listen, or they'll still keep living the disney romance dream and will wait on hand and foot for a woman and believe in true love. Well, just like hate, anger, happiness, fear, etc, its a feeling. You don't have too long to live on this planet so either you get what you want and live the life you want, or you can sit around and let it pass you by.

EternallyAnon · 1 時間前

Okay so I can see fallacies and whimsical logic but why disagree with what he's saying? I know his hate for trp isn't really based on much but doesn't what he say warrant some appreciation? If people are in a loving relationship shouldn't they communicate rather than partake in psychological one-upmanship? If people aren't willing to change for one another then they shouldn't be in a relationship with one another. At least that's how I see it...

This isn't so much a rant as it is a genuine question. I'm interested in hearing your opinions.

rubberbandnot · 1 時間前

He doesn't seem to understand that it is Nature who pushes us to use sexual strategy, TRP didn't invent it. Being masculine, physically and psychologically, is how man is supposed to be and that is what TRP is about.

He never once makes the distinction between the nature of men and women. Instead, he keeps talking about "human beings". Human beings are like this and like that. The first premise of TRP is that men and women are different and that is why there is a specific TRP subreddit for women. He doesn't admit the difference between the two genders which is why all he has to say is that "A true awakening is realizing that the people around you are more than just faces, that they all have their own stories, their own thoughts, hopes and dreams, and that they are just as complex as you are."

No...what is truly awakening is realizing that men and women are different. Finally behaving like a man and seeing how it changes our relationship with others for the better is what's truly awakening.

TLAdaptD · 1 時間前

There was around 58,000~ Subscribers at the time of the EMSK posting. We're in for a ride guys.

EDIT: The EMSK post is in the top 5 of /r/all

pjewa · 1 時間前

women are people too

Yes. They are. Which is why I don't put them on a pedestal. Which is why they aren't entitled to special treatment because they are the "gatekeepers" of sex. Which is why when they are hamstering or acting silly, I call them out on it.

I feel like the author uses "woman are people too" to advance an agenda of treating them differently. Seems a little backwards.

DrQuaid · 1 時間前

I dont fucking understand.... why so much hate for the subreddit when you don't fucking BROWSE OR READ THE SUBREDDIT.

ZXMarvin · 1 時間前

I'm new to /r/redpill but I thought the basic premise here was that you metaphorically choose to take the red pill, and acknowledge that societies insistence on putting women in a position where men must flock to them and things like those films where the nice guy wins in the end are nothing more than fantasy. This guy makes out like the thoughts of few are the ideologies of many.

Its also not a matter of being nice, often guys think that being a wet blanket is attractive, and that in film-esque fashion the girl is going to take the lead and this superb relationship shall ensue, but in reality, without a challenge, without feeling like you have earned the attraction of the opposite sex, Its boring anyway IMHO.

Frustrates me in today's society that a man is not allowed to be a man, because everything is supposed to be neutral. You cant argue or stand up for your beliefs because that's aggressive, cant be assertive in a relationship because that's abuse, cant be confident because not everyone else is. All the time people are just waiting in the side lines trying to make out that being anything other than this 'nice guy' that society promotes from birth is wrong.

...But maybe I have the wrong idea about this sub.

super-nsfw · 49 分前

I'd characterize that post as semi-genuine - I think much of it was quite fair (in my opinion), but there was also a partial element of not wanting to understand, and by that I mean, I personally did not get the sense that he was saying "here is my current understanding of what TRP stands for, does anyone disagree with that?" but rather "here is what TRP stands for, and here is why that is wrong".

His description is inconsistent with my understanding or interpretation of what TRP is. I'll describe my interpretation, or what I find useful about the general idea, and am curious to hear opinions of that, whether it is consistent with the "official" purpose, etc.

In a nutshell: humans, both female and male, have flaws. Some are shared, some are unique to genders. It varies by individual, but there are undeniable patterns and commonalities.

Speaking with respect to "women" and "feminism" specifically (men also have issues in my opinion, but that is a different topic): I believe for whatever reason (culture, media, law, perhaps the fault of men, etc) there is to a certain degree (with many but not all women) a systemic abuse of power in our society and relationships. If we have conflict, we are told we are supposed to sit down and communicate to resolve our differences, but in my opinion, one side is willing to do that and the other is not. One side is willing to be honest and genuine, the other side is not.

My interpretation of what TRP should be used for, is to essentially destroy that dishonest and uncooperative behavior in a relationship. Then, once the attitude problem has been straightened out, you can proceed discussions as rational adults as we are told we are supposed to do by OP of that post. I personally do not agree that the psychological tools of TRP should be used to subordinate or abuse your SO on an ongoing basis (as he claims is the purpose), but I fully endorse using it absolutely whenever necessary to force a climate of discussion. If you are in a disagreement with someone and refuse to listen to their side of the argument, than I believe any psychological technique to remove that deliberately ignorant and arrogant attitude is appropriate.

I disagree with the OP of the other post, and anyone else on that side of the argument, when they assert that everyone is always being reasonable, rational adults in this disagreement, and all you have to do is sit down and talk, you don't need to resort to such underhanded psychological games. Yes, many people are like that, but many people are not, and both men and woman are guilty of it - TRP just so happens to concern itself with the "pro-male" subset of this group.

Anyways, that's my view of it, I'm curious how that jives with other's opinions, or the "official" purpose.

nottraceable · 1 時間前

The problem with this sub is that it does not tolerate any criticism, no matter how constructive. THAT is what makes it so bad.

The smallest hint of opposition gets downvoted to oblivion while accompanied with stuff like 'bluepiller' or whatever name you come up with.

LukeMooney · 23 分前

I fucking love the red pill. I love everything about it. Even the maniac new subscribers who don't understand it, they need to be educated is all. I love its honesty, the way it deals with reality instead of bullshit. They way it offers solutions rather than sympathy. And I love the brotherhood, reading a decent FR even if its bragging 101, I still enjoy it. Mostly, I love the guys that come here broken, sort their lives out then do a write up, I fucking love those coming of age stories.

Dicks like OP who stir shit up are pathetic losers. He started his post off ok, then just started making massive generalizations that I don't believe to be true about red pill ideology. I honestly believe if people here were advocating being mentally abusive they would be harshly criticized. The worst thing TRP encourages is plate spinning, about which no one is encouraged to lie, but to be honest if anything! The abusive domineering relationship crap OP talked about I'm yet to see, and would like sources of gtfo.

leftajar · 41 分前

His fundamental error is assuming that you can just tell a woman, "Hey sweetie, how about we don't play any games, okay? No games." And she'll agree to it, and stick to it.

As most of us here know, that doesn't work, ever.

Game-playing is hard-coded into the female brain, because it's a part of their sexual strategy. You could literally tell a girl you don't want to play games, and she'll agree to it, and mean it, and then play games anyway. Thus, the BURDEN of running the relationship falls onto us men, because only we are capable of running a relationship for mutual benefit.

TL;DR the guy has no idea what he's talking about, and lives in a la-la land where chicks will magically agree not to play games if you just ask.

redpillshadow · 1 時間前

Gilded 9 times. That "super upvote" button sure cashs in for reddit.

Wonder what kind of people upvote that. These kind of people.

Gilded and 600 upvotes

I honestly don't mean to have a hostile tone, but are you intentionally trying to project the whole stepford/pleasantville creepiness that many of your photographs seem to give off?

You seem to represent an almost impossible-to-attain portrait of womanhood, and as a woman I honestly find many of your pictures unsettling. I swear, I'm an otherwise very confident person and I consider myself attractive, so I'm not trying to sound like some butthurt overweight girl who is whining about unattainable standards of beauty and femininity (this statement is directed towards the rest of reddit, not you). Can you provide some insight about your artistic vision and intentions?

I'm very very curious to hear what you have to say. Something about your photos makes me feel strangely depressed/inadequate and I'm alarmed by my own reaction. That being said, this is truly great work and I applaud your abilities.

edit: I'm reacting to your Instagram as a whole, not just these photos.

A reaction to that thread. http://redditlog.com/snapshots/774049

Nothing new for a redpill reader. That is the way women (and blue pills) react to greatness. They are not inspired to better themselves. They hate with a passion which burns hotter than hell.

yojymbro · 1 時間前

This sub often acknowledges the way that videogames waste enormous amounts of time and leave you with nothing. Something I don't see mentioned here enough is how easy it is to waste time the same way by mindlessly browsing the internet. You're not going to be better off spending your time reading rants like this or arguing with SJWs. Nothing here relevant to your personal development. Nothing here will advance you in any way. There is nothing to be gained and too much time to be lost.

I admit I didn't read much of this post, or the thousands of repetitive comments anybody who's been here long enough has seen hundreds of time laced with SJW buzzwords, ridiculous claims, and denial, but a glance tells me that this is yet another a post of somebody saying "even if TRP is correct, you shouldn't listen because ..."-- Well, somebody like myself, and maybe yourself too, just cares what is right. Then based on what is correct and what isn't acts accordingly.

RebootedMale · 51 分前

If you think women don't use sexual strategy, you aren't just swallowing the blue pill, you are crushing it up and snorting it.

albertyuthepianist · 1 時間前

The OP of the bestof post doesn't get it. Once a man applies redpill, both he AND the wife are happier. Her having sex with him and doing him favors are...what a normal wife does in a happy relationship.

Ultimately, for me, sexual strategy is about getting women to respect you as a man. Not a boy, but a man with sexual and emotional needs. If that's emotional abuse, then fuck.

TogiBear · 46 分前

What the Red Pill strategy does is flip that power dynamic on its head. When it works, now it's the man who is in power and the woman who is suffering.

My main beef with his entire argument. His premise is that women are "suffering" because their man now calls the shots.

Is it really emotional abuse when you hold all the cards? He writes, "And it's damned effective in some cases. It'll get you what you want if you do it right" but he completely ignores why it works.

Women love men, but they love stronger, independent men more. When a man swallows the Red Pill and begins re-shaping his relationship strategy, it's "my rules or the road." If she doesn't like a strong, independent man he'll simply find a woman that does. It gets him what he wants because she wants do be the one to do that. She values their relationship more than anything else and she'll do whatever she can to keep him happy.

Let's revisit the term "emotional abuse": Psychological abuse, also referred to as emotional abuse or mental abuse, is a form of abuse characterized by a person subjecting or exposing another to behavior that may result in psychological trauma, including anxiety, chronic depression, or post-traumatic stress disorder.

If you take common material from TRP's sidebar and implement it in your lifestyle, does your girl exhibit any of these symptoms?

Do any /r/RedPillWomen seek therapy because their husband or boyfriend is a red pill man?

The man gets the sex without having to commit any real effort to the relationship, aside from making sure that his SO's emotions are brutally crushed on a regular basis.

A common argument from someone that doesn't know what they're talking about. RedPill does not tell you to destroy your partner's emotions, it teaches you to become her emotional pillar. RedPill does not tell you not to commit anything to the relationship, it teaches you not to commit too much, as there will be an inbalance.

that's what the Red Pill is: cold, calculated, systematic emotional torture meant to produce a desired response.

Yeah. We teach you to torture the girls you seek an emotional connection with. It's right there on the sidebar right underneath....

Oh wait, that's right. It's not there. Shame, must have been removed. I trust your word though, because you're on the front page of reddit.

You want a healthy, stable relationship that is going to be rewarding? Here's the secret. Remember that your SO is just as complex, intelligent and vulnerable a human being as you are.

Hate to break it to ya bud, but not every woman on the fucking planet is worth investing your time in a healthy, stable relationship. The key is to find the ones that do.

However, none of your relationships will work out in a healthy manner until you realize that women are people too, not animals to be broken.

Are you a creationist or something? Humans are animals. Wake up. The universe doesn't give two shits about what you think is immoral. We care about giving men the knowledge they need to forge their own happiness.

VarsitySlutTeamCpt · 49 分前

Hah that's great advertising if you ask me.

m1serablist · 44 分前

I'll see most of these fuckers after their first marriage to the girl they got by just waiting for the right one and lost by just being themselves. I'm not cynical, just look at the fucking stats.

Axotl · 1 時間前

You don't get a legion of haters and doubters for being wrong. Lots of new subscribers today.

Nukakoala · 1 時間前

Same tactics - talk to "le mens subreddits'', give little pavlovian bits of validation to every receptive lapdog.

Same emotional basis for every argument.

Same superfluous Disney bullshit.

Same "I'll tell ya fellas how bad TRP is without even reading RP theory"

Any evidence to support the post ? None, just some feel good sophistry.

I swear SRS's average IQ is in the double digits.

QQ_L2P · 16 分前

It's a strange post. In one breath he's berating us while with the next he espouses our core values. Talk about being hot one second and cold the next. Just fuck and be done with it.

holla2cents · 14 分前

A true awakening is realizing that you don't have to win the fight (and thereby habitually hurt someone you ostensibly care about), or lose it. That you can take your ball and go home.

The problem is he isn't separating relationship game from fuck on the first date game. People may not like to hear it, but in the game of casual sex, you are fucking, or you are celibate. Its win or lose

I'd say the majority of the content on this sub is directed toward those who are seeking casual sex, thus any person that tries to look at the "advice, or strategy" without any sort of critical thinking skills would believe you treat your wife the same as your ONS, you don't

colovick · 5 分前

Just copying my wall of text from that thread to explain my view on the issue:

No... This is a very sad misrepresentation across the board. The goal is discussing sexual strategy and everyone and everything has a sexual strategy, whether conscious, subconscious, will thought out, or poorly planned/executed. In a sense, everyone is playing a strategy game, some things work, some things don't. People find a strategy that works for them through trial and error. It's a fact.

As for the centerpiece of this thread, the concept of abusing someone by training them is patently false. In every relationship there is a leadership role and a follower role. In any and all relationships there is a give and take, trading the leadership hat in areas where one person is better suited to leading. Places like /r/theredpill gloss over this at large due to the purpose of the sub and the overall dichotomy of human masculinity which takes a lot of introspection and study within the source materials to understand, and that is something most, if not all people who are detractors of the group fail to achieve. They see material at surface level and reject it.

This, by the way, is intentional. These things were written intentionally in such a way that the surface representation is harsh, but leads to a better understanding of the concept at hand. An example of this is the statement "women do not age emotionally past 2 years old." You'll be hard pressed to find anyone who whole heartedly believes that, but the thought conveys a feeling that helps understanding concepts like amused mastery.

Back to the previous point though, the idea of TRP being about emotional abuse is far from the truth, but it's easy to make that mistake. People are happiest when constrained. When you give them a schedule, a list of expected behaviors, and consequences for acting out, people are quantifiably happier, less depressed, and more productive. This applies to the law, it applies to running a business, it applies to raising children, and it applies to relationships. A cursory trip through /r/redpillwoman will show a group of happy people who know the traditional roles that are expected of them in such a relationship and taking a support role in the family as a first mate would on a ship. There's nothing abusive about it.

The direct analogy for punishment is disciplining a child. It's not abuse to punish a child for misbehaving, it's not letting them be spoiled. Chastising an employee for not doing the assigned work isn't harassment, it's team building and keeping them to their word. Relationships are no different. If you set ground rules of no hitting and she starts slapping you in an argument, disciplining her by leaving, dumping her, or some other means is justifiable and not abusive.

Overall I believe that their method of holding prior accountable and assuming she can make her own decisions is more pro-woman than the feminist narrative of women being inferior and a victim. Just some food for thought.

As for the concept of alpha > beta, that is also patently false and misattributed. The best way to begin learning why is to look at the extreme of "pure alpha" behavior, also known as the dark triad. It's a very real psychology concept of the behaviors expressed by very high testosterone levels which are psychopathy, sociopathy, and Machiavellianism. No feelings, no remorse, and cut throat goal driven at the expense of everything else. If you reach that point, you will get laid, you will feel awesome, and you will drive away any semblance of friends or a social circle and never have a relationship last longer than a week. This is because the behaviors known under beta are caring, comforting, and providing. And these are required to hold any sort of human companionship. The opposite of having no alpha traits, means no spark in the relationship, no sexual drive or desire from your partner. So the full answer is that you need a mix of alpha and beta behaviors and traits to maintain any healthy relationship. Here's where it gets complicated though. People generalize. Women will judge you based on how you act and lump you into a desire group or a provider group, and it becomes the man's job to do enough alpha things to stay desired, but not so much as to run them off.

Where TRP takes a different path from me as a collective is this step. Because there are no repercussions for the lower earner in a marriage (the ultimate long term relationship) cheating on their spouse or being hateful and holding divorce, compounded with alimony and child support over your head, this causes marriage in its current state to be a risky investment for a male, especially one with a high income. TRP states you should never marry and be cautious who you choose to have children with (if at all). I differ in believing that marriage should still be on the table and that refusing under any circumstances may in fact drive away someone who was worth the risk. And this is where I agree with OP that blindly following a dogma without adjusting it for your life and goals is crazy. It also happens that TRP by and large is accepting of different opinions, but what I described above is what could be called the hive decision. That said, u still believe the bulk of the information there is solid and useful enough to stay there and apply it to my life and relationships. I trust myself to be rational enough to decide for myself what to take and what to toss.

TL;DR: if you need a TL;DR for this or any other information on lifestyle choices, then TRP isn't for you anyways.

thisbaseball17 · 1 時間前

Is that why I'm subscribed to /r/everymanshouldknow? For opinionated, wordy manifestos that are supposed to change my entire perspective on love and relationships based on one person's life experience?

dixiedownunder · 1 時間前

Anybody who doesn't have a sexual strategy is not going to get laid. Strategy is a pretty general term. Healthy humans have always had a strategy. What an ignorant fuck.

foodstampsforpussy · 1 時間前

Who cares?? Less competition bothers me zero.

Sturmgeist781 · 1 時間前

But then it goes to way too far, linking to articles about how women shouldn't vote

Some people clearly don't understand we link satirical articles from RoK and even WE don't take said articles seriously. Jesus.

Ragu35 · 1 時間前

So basically just telling us not to use sexual strategy.

Fine. Let them. Better for me. It's not going to change a woman's natural desire to fuck high value men, but it will give me less competition as more men fall victim to a feel good story where they'll pretend not to live in the real world.

vandaalen · 1 時間前

I barely read more than the foreword. What a bunch of bullshit. The premise that anything else than having game is no sexual strategy at all is faulty from the start.

Being The Nice Guy (tm) and trying to talk your way into girl's panties by being their subordinated, obese, disgusting and neckbearded orbiter while watching her swallowing alpha guy's jizz until she is about to get a proteine-overdose is no sexual strategy?

Indeed it is one. Just a very dumb and lazy one. And the only possible "positive" outcome is that they might one day fuck these sluts every three months while paying for them and their offspring, which - if they really are lucky - is also their offspring.

Congs.

legauge · 50 分前

There's one thing that the guy has completely wrong, and it's the main argument in his rant, is the sexual strategy.

In short, his definition of TRP sexual strategy can be taken from his test as:

What the Red Pill strategy does is flip that power dynamic on its head. When it works, now it's the man who is in power and the woman who is suffering.

It is inherently wrong. He assumes that "power" - a wrongful usage of the word, in my opinion - in a relationship lead by a man is absolute: all or nothing.

In the following sentence, his belief of a RP relationship goes like this:

The man gets the sex without having to commit any real effort to the relationship, aside from making sure that his SO's emotions are brutally crushed on a regular basis.

I believe that a TRP relationship is one of male leadership for the benefits of both the man and the woman. The man leads and the woman willingly follows, and as a result, they are both happy.

However, the poster believes the RP man to be an emotionless beast that wants his dick sucked on whenever he wants. That a RP relationship is one of woman slavery and male indifference.

He believes leadership to be a "do as told or get out." However, that is not leadership. That's bossiness. The best way to describe the difference is with this picture.

A leader listens to those who follow him and takes their needs and/or desires into account before acting. In short, a leader works for the benefit of the group, or this case, the relationship.

A boss is the opposite. Instead of "do and be rewarded," it's "do or get punished." Personally, I don't believe someone in a relationship should be punished.

Now, I know that TRP strategy includes dread games. For any surface observers, it's a terrible thing to do. However, they don't understand that the point of the dread game. To keep the woman entertained, she needs to be reminded that nothing is set in stone. It's their own little drama show and they love it because it presents them with occasions to keep a spotlight on herself.

I'm not as experienced and knowledgeable as the more seasoned posters on TRP, but that's basically what I take from it all.

Sound_Soul · 48 分前

The main problem I have with you linking to this guys post is simple. HE BASICALLY PARAPHRASES RED PILLS ANTIOBIOTIC NUKE throughout his entire post. Hes pretty fucking spot on too, especially where he discusses the fact that the majority of "red pill" examples in this place are simply men using womens' tactics.. However, I bet half of you fuckers didn't bother to even read because you saw something against this community and because you were offended from the offset your defensive beta instincts kicked in. It is a damn shame that after reading that first post I have only been met with months of misandric shitposts on this subreddit instead of the core values of realizing men and women being different, being above the game, and constantly improving yourself.

sternje · 38 分前

TRP is a tool. In the same way that a hammer is a tool. You can use a hammer to build a house, or you can choose to hit someone over the head with the hammer. The former doesn't make the tool a "good" tool any more than the latter makes the tool a "bad" tool.

TRP is a tool to use as a means to achieve whatever ends you'd like: You want a more rounded life, you want a better body, you want a better version of yourself, to be more at ease socially, etc. TRP can also be used for less than noble (TRP detractors would say "abusive", "oppressive" or "misogynistic") intentions. And just like everything else in life, some people use this tool for good, and others use it in a self-serving, self-centered way without regard or even disdain for other people. And really, if the only thing that matters to you is you and you don't give a fuck about making other people's lives better because you became a part of it- long or short term- that's just being an asshole.

TL;DR TRP is simply a tool. Tools are neither good or bad. It's the intent of the person who uses the tool that is good or bad.

RoseSausage · 37 分前

It seems that trp and rpw are being hit a lot on other subreddts lately. I don't understand their fascination with us. This post in particular made me feel sick. So venomous the opinions without any knowledge of the material.

acartoontiger · 1 時間前

The chain ending with the shooting reference pisses me off. No one cares what RP is actually about.

PyrrhicIntent · 1 時間前

Punch him in the face and tell him you're not playing his bullshit game.

In theory OP was right, the only way to 'win' is not play the game....

niczar · 56 分前

They sure love sucking each other's cock.

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TLAdaptD · 1 時間前

WELCOME to all new Subscribers.

Please, get a cup of coffee and sit down. Read, and read, and read. I say 2 hours to 3 hours.

Now how do you feel? Can you look at your life objectively? Try meditating after all that reading. How do you feel?

Now do you think you can relate? If so, welcome, and enjoy your stay.

toastedipod · 58 分前

https://imgur.com/a/bGiiW

And you wonder why people fucking hate the red pill, you massive arseholes.

Overkillengine · 29 分前

You will be envied your successes and despised for your failures.

Typical conflation of the tools with the intent. People yet again trying to defend their Disney fantasy when you can just look at the statistics and see how well that is working out in the divorce rates.

Just because you can use the red pill poorly does not follow that you will. In fact, the best advice here is centered mainly on self improvement and using red pill strategy to avoid/defuse the rampant abuse that comes from people attempting bluepill strategy beyond all common sense.

jackblack2323 · 56 分前

This subreddit is for men who are too weak to stand up to bullshit from women so you need help from others. You use shitty ways to get what you want leaving your girlfriend feeling just as shitty as the ways you get them to do stuff.

I get sex whenever I want too, want to know how I do it? I treat my girlfriend decent, and it actually feels good to treat her decent because I love her. You don't have to do everything in the relationship, just do half. House needs to be cleaned? Clean half the house while she cleans the other half. Have a few chores to do during the day? Do that while she does other chores.

If your girlfriend doesn't want to share the work then dump her ass and find someone else, but don't make her do more shit than you.

If you can't love someone, I have some advice for you to have sex and not even have to go through all of the bullshit: Pay a prostitute. This way you don't have to ruin someones life and treat them like shit. If you don't love them anyway, there's no reason to keep them around. Also paying a prostitute is cheaper than a girlfriend, so have at it.

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