Look, I know you didn't ask for my help, but I feel somewhat compelled to translate this from passive aggressive to a more positive way to talk to/about people.

1) instead of. "Let's talk about our mods." You could say "I have some questions about some of the mods decisions."

2) I don't know what that whiny part in the middle was. You could just sort of say "I wanted to do this, but they wanted to do something else." Trying to give a bunch of reasons why you're right and they're wrong just wastes everyone's time. Of course you have reasons. Everyone has reasons.

3) when you want something from someone, that is about you. Not the universe and objective standards of justice. We all want things. There is no one deciding who gets what for adults. If there is a god, he or she or it has definitely declined to weigh in on these kinds of decisions. We are on out own.

This is not a good way to address problems. It's much easier for everyone if you take more responsibility for what you want, rather than doing whatever this is. And see how I told you what I think and nothing is going to happen? You will not die, and at worst I will get a bunch of down votes. It really is consequence free. There's nothing to be afraid of.

Tldr: use your words. Take responsibility. People can handle hearing what you want.