Misogyny, Entitlement, and Nerds
Soulskill posted about half an hour ago | from the coming-to-terms-with-reality dept.
PvtVoid writes: "Jeopardy champion Arthur Chu pens a heartfelt takedown of misogyny in nerd culture: 'I’ve heard and seen the stories that those of you who followed the #YesAllWomen hashtag on Twitter have seen—women getting groped at cons, women getting vicious insults flung at them online, women getting stalked by creeps in college and told they should be "flattered." I’ve heard Elliot Rodger’s voice before. I was expecting his manifesto to be incomprehensible madness—hoping for it to be—but it wasn’t. It’s a standard frustrated angry geeky guy manifesto, except for the part about mass murder. I've heard it from acquaintances, I've heard it from friends. I've heard it come out of my own mouth, in moments of anger and weakness.
What the f*$# is wrong with us? How much longer are we going to be in denial that there's a thing called "rape culture" and we ought to do something about it? ... To paraphrase the great John Oliver, listen up, fellow self-pitying nerd boys — we are not the victims here. We are not the underdogs. We are not the ones who have our ownership over our bodies and our emotions stepped on constantly by other people's entitlement. We're not the ones where one out of six of us will have someone violently attempt to take control of our bodies in our lifetimes.'"
Yeah, but.... (-1, Troll)
Anonymous Coward | about half an hour ago | (#47111339)
women are also bitches.
Re:Yeah, but.... (0)
Anonymous Coward | 23 minutes ago | (#47111367)
+1
Re:Yeah, but.... (2)
sabri (584428) | 20 minutes ago | (#47111403)
women are also bitches.
So what? You're an asshole. That does not give me the right to take your life.
Re: Yeah, but.... (0)
Anonymous Coward | 20 minutes ago | (#47111409)
And you're an ass. Women are women.
#notallgeekyguys (4, Insightful)
fche (36607) | 24 minutes ago | (#47111347)
"Itâ(TM)s a standard frustrated angry geeky guy manifesto ..."
You hang around a weird/scary bunch of angry geeky guys. The "manifesto" becomes far-out well before the murder-intent plans.
Re:#notallgeekyguys (0)
Anonymous Coward | 17 minutes ago | (#47111457)
Even if it were an accurate reflection of typical beliefs, "except for the part about mass murder" is a pretty huge exception.
We didn't have this conversation about environmentalism after the unibomber and we don't need it about some fringe internet trolls now.
Re:#notallgeekyguys (2, Insightful)
Anonymous Coward | 16 minutes ago | (#47111473)
I haven't read the manifesto. Please google NotAllMen and do a bit of reading. Maybe Slate's http://www.slate.com/blogs/bad_astronomy/2014/05/27/not_all_men_how_discussing_women_s_issues_gets_derailed.html
What the f*$# is wrong with us? (5, Insightful)
Anonymous Coward | 22 minutes ago | (#47111379)
I don't know about you, but there's nothing wrong with me. I would appreciate it if you stopped putting words into my mouth.
Re:What the f*$# is wrong with us? (0)
Anonymous Coward | 21 minutes ago | (#47111397)
Spoken like a true member of the flat earth society. This problem is real, it's indisputable.
Re:What the f*$# is wrong with us? (1)
Anonymous Coward | 17 minutes ago | (#47111443)
You are right! The problem with stereotyping all guys the same is a real problem and it's indisputable that it needs to stop.
Re:What the f*$# is wrong with us? (0)
Anonymous Coward | 16 minutes ago | (#47111471)
Typical leftist garbage, seeking to pin the blame on one section of society and getting fake outrage when they dare to call you on your delusions.
Re:What the f*$# is wrong with us? (1)
Anonymous Coward | 14 minutes ago | (#47111489)
Re:What the f*$# is wrong with us? (0)
Anonymous Coward | 13 minutes ago | (#47111509)
Good thing I don't give a flying fuck what you think.
Re:What the f*$# is wrong with us? (1)
BStroms (1875462) | 9 minutes ago | (#47111567)
The problem is very real, but it doesn't change the fact it doesn't apply to everyone here.
Re:What the f*$# is wrong with us? (0)
Anonymous Coward | 5 minutes ago | (#47111633)
Lets hunt down all of the people who aren't willing to stand up and say "Yes, I'm a woman hater" and scream and yell at them. Lets come up with a list of things that we can use to out them as the evil which they are. Lets create a strict set of rules for how you can and can't speak about the topic so that we can put to the fires those that fall outside those rules.
All of this, because it's a whole lot easier than addressing the issue itself. Brand those who are evil and get into screaming matches with them about how horrible they are. And hope that the shaming of those poor sods will keep the real nutcases from coming out, when in reality, we're only making the extreme cases worse.
Re:What the f*$# is wrong with us? (2)
NotDrWho (3543773) | 5 minutes ago | (#47111641)
The irony is that Chu is attacking nerds for stereotyping all women. But in the process, he's stereotyping all nerds.
Look Arthur, we're all really happy that you've got a GF who you think this stunt will impress. But throwing one group under the bus to stand up for another still results in just as many people getting hit by the bus.
yet another one of these stories? (5, Insightful)
Anonymous Coward | 21 minutes ago | (#47111387)
I think Henry Rollins summed it up the best...
You say we're all the same.
You don't even know my name.
Sometime somewhere someone wants hurt you and I'm one of them
You think you know about me...
You don't know a damn thing about me!
So I take all the blame...
I'm not all men
I'm just one man
I'm not that man!
Re:yet another one of these stories? (1)
Anonymous Coward | 5 minutes ago | (#47111627)
This. So much fucking this.
Men are not rapists. RAPISTS are rapists.
Wasn't the whole point of the civil rights movement of the last 60 years that everybody deserved to be judged on their own actions, merits, and efforts, not by which group they are born in to? This new bullshit where it's now socially "acceptable" to hurl insults, accusations, and blame at certain groups (you know the ones I'm talking about) because they're seen as somehow being descended from THE OPPRESSORS runs contrary to everything we as a society have been working to fix this whole time.
The idea is to stop generalizing and stereotyping groups, not change which groups you stereotype! For fuck's sake... seriously.
Re:yet another one of these stories? (0)
Anonymous Coward | 1 minute ago | (#47111683)
This new bullshit where it's now socially "acceptable" to hurl insults, accusations, and blame at certain groups (you know the ones I'm talking about) because they're seen as somehow being descended from THE OPPRESSORS
Those Damn Dirty Apes!
Cue the standard denials... (-1, Flamebait)
DerekLyons (302214) | 21 minutes ago | (#47111393)
in 3... 2... 1... And they'll all get +5 "Insightful" and "Interesting" too.
And they couldn't get more wrong. On both counts.
Re:Cue the standard denials... (0)
Anonymous Coward | 1 minute ago | (#47111675)
So you're admitting that *you're* a homicidal misogynist? Good to know, I guess.
forever actually (-1, Flamebait)
kick6 (1081615) | 21 minutes ago | (#47111395)
How much longer are we going to be in denial that there's a thing called "rape culture" and we ought to do something about it?
Forever, because there is no such thing. Only by using the ever-expanding militant-feminist definition of rape which currently stands at "anything, at all, ever, that makes me in the slightest bit uncomfortable" can we possibly believe there's actually a culture of rape. What we ACTUALLY have is a culture of socailly retarded males and females, and culture of feminists preying on the socially retarded females and making them believe that they're entitled to waltz through never being made to feel uncomfortable, ever. This is patently untrue, and no amount of slut-walks can ever create a utopia where a woman - even a man - can leave a ladeeda life.
Re:forever actually (0)
Anonymous Coward | 7 minutes ago | (#47111613)
I agree that the abuse on the word "rape" does more harm than good. It's a strong word and it should only be used when appropriate. Other situations, like molesting for example, which are also wrong should be called by their own names. Putting everything under the same term dilutes the term and makes it less useful.
HOWEVER, if you have a look at the general Western culture, but *particularly the US*, there is a very well spread concept of the rape victim being actually at fault, due to wearing provocative clothes, due to walking at night through a park, due to going to a party, or whatever other reasons people use to justify something that can never be right.
This same thing of putting the victim in the "at fault" extends to other forms of abuse. Catcalling, for example, is a very spread form of abusing women. It's not rape. It is not as bad as rape, nor is it as bad as molesting. However, it's really annoying and it shouldn't be tolerated. It's not a question of some women not wanting to ever be offended. For particularly attractive women, this is something that happens practically every day, with very disgusting language and in a way that really makes them feel unsafe. Most people will just dismiss this saying that "women like it". And this is wrong. Of course, every human being likes to hear nice things every once in a while, so, stuff like an innocent "You are beautiful" is fine for most women. But the usual catcall goes more along the lines of "I'd fuck you right here", "I want to make kids out of you", or similar disgusting stuff that NO, women DON'T like to hear.
Re:forever actually (0)
Anonymous Coward | 6 minutes ago | (#47111619)
in feminist threads flaimbait = truth tag
Re:forever actually (1)
ganjadude (952775) | just now | (#47111693)
Getting drunk and having sex with someone, and than feeling ashamed of it is not rape
when someone stares at your chest, thats not sexual assault
Frivolous things like I just listed are things that make the ACTUAL rape problem (and it is a real problem) harder to solve
Move along , nothing to see here. (3, Interesting)
sinij (911942) | 21 minutes ago | (#47111401)
This must be another of these fake outrage threads.
Re:Move along , nothing to see here. (1)
lbmouse (473316) | 14 minutes ago | (#47111497)
Re:Move along , nothing to see here. (1)
PatentMagus (1083289) | 12 minutes ago | (#47111529)
Fuck you (1, Insightful)
Anonymous Coward | 20 minutes ago | (#47111411)
The guy went to the gym and loved to go out and take pics of himself and his BMW. He was not a nerd.
You will have to use the Asians or autists as scapegoats because we are not taking the fall for this one. Go to hell you piece of shit.
Speak for yourself? (1)
Anonymous Coward | 20 minutes ago | (#47111413)
I like to think that most of us are above all this nonsense and just treat each other equally regardless, I don't think it's quite fair to stereotype 'nerds', 'geeks', 'tech-heads' or whatever term you wish to use, and tar us all with the same brush.
Open season on the white male (1, Flamebait)
PeeAitchPee (712652) | 19 minutes ago | (#47111425)
Re:Open season on the white male (0)
Anonymous Coward | 11 minutes ago | (#47111543)
Who exactly are "these folks" that you're talking about? And how do you know where "these folks" do or do not "focus their energies"?
Also, please let us know all you have done about the dozens shot in inner cities every night, since you want us to think you're so concerned about them. Or are you just concerned about it being "open season on the white male"? Maybe you could clarify your position. Or have you already done so elsewhere, maybe in some sort of manifesto?
Is he going to jump around? (0)
Anonymous Coward | 18 minutes ago | (#47111427)
Is he going to go through his argument in the standard, logical order, or is going to jump around all over the place to try to confuse the reader?
this dude is trying like hell to get laid. (1)
Anonymous Coward | 18 minutes ago | (#47111429)
Wonder how its working out for him after this.
Rinse Lather Repeat. (2, Insightful)
jythie (914043) | 18 minutes ago | (#47111435)
Poor numbers (1)
Anonymous Coward | 17 minutes ago | (#47111451)
"We're not the ones where one out of six of us will have someone violently attempt to take control of our bodies in our lifetimes."
This is debatable. The numbers on men being raped are even more fuzzy than for women and studies in the military have suggested that it is a lot closer to the rate for female victims that we might imagine.
Re:Poor numbers (0)
Anonymous Coward | 4 minutes ago | (#47111645)
In the military, where hyper-aggressive machoness is a valued trait and biological women are relatively rare. cf. prison.
who is "WE"??? (0)
Anonymous Coward | 17 minutes ago | (#47111459)
you are NOTHING
What's wrong with us? (0)
Anonymous Coward | 17 minutes ago | (#47111463)
Social standards are built upon the norms established during one's childhood based upon upbringing and exposure to diverse environments.
We are still very young, generation-wise, from the time of women's suffrage. Realistically, we're still very young from the race segregation as well. No matter how good of a person you are, there is another person on the other side of the country being taught opposing beliefs.
These are issues that are not solved overnight. They are solved very slowly, decade-by-decade, as society drifts towards being more open and accepting. Solutions simply require that those who are misogynistic, bigoted, or prejudice be killed off without forcing their beliefs unto their offspring. The percentage of children from each generation who are raised to treat others with respect should then increase over time.
There is no solution, there's nothing to be gained by calling out entire swathes of humanity. To fix this we should strive to teach our kids to treat each other better, then wait 20 years for them to pass on the same message to their kids. We should strive to expose our children to strong female peers, provide good role models, and give them opportunities to learn from each other. And then wait 20 years.
Realize that this is not an issue that will be solved during your lifetime and do what you can for the future generations.
In a country where there's still rampant racism, it'll be a long time before we see gender issues resolved. However, it has made a remarkable movement over the past hundred years.
I've been under a rock... (3, Insightful)
MindPrison (864299) | 16 minutes ago | (#47111469)
Most of those I know are frightened at the very concept of dating, pretty socially awkward I guess, but kind and gentle caring people who wouldn't even DREAM of hurting anyone. Sure, they'll kick your mental-a** and hurt your coding feelings by pointing out the numerous bugs in your code, and flaws in your theories, and possibly sweep the floor with your ego in gaming, but no way they'd ever even lift a finger to actually hurt you.
Nerds are usually unsure of themselves, usually excellent at SOMETHING and not so much at everything else. This is usually because they have spent so much time coding and learning very complicated stuff that takes a LONG time of anyone's life, so it's bound to steal some time from the usual life that just about anyone else live, learning the ropes of networking and social skills.
I must have been living under a rock the last 30 years or so.
Re:I've been under a rock... (1)
tthomas48 (180798) | 8 minutes ago | (#47111587)
Well. You can go ahead and just read this comment thread for a start. All the people and reactions he mentions are in this comment thread in spades.
Re:I've been under a rock... (1)
Jmc23 (2353706) | 4 minutes ago | (#47111651)
If you haven't noticed, slashdot is a perfect example of a bunch of nerds seething with anger over the stupidest things possible.
Re:I've been under a rock... (0)
Anonymous Coward | 4 minutes ago | (#47111659)
because it doesn't happen if you don't see it!
Re:I've been under a rock... (0)
Anonymous Coward | just now | (#47111695)
because I don't ever recall EVER seeing a geek/nerd in my circles stalking anyone
So... did you hear of this thing call twitter? It's full of stalkers. The members even pride themselves in having many stalkers following them. It's strange how this behaviour is promoted for some things and rejected for others. Why is it different online than in real life, I wonder myself.
what is rape culture? (0)
Anonymous Coward | 15 minutes ago | (#47111485)
i've known some pretty bad people in my life, but never someone who raped anyone
i know there are people who do it, but it's not like every guy does it. small percentage
and a lot of incidents are clouded by alcohol and drugs both parties take
Really? (0)
Anonymous Coward | 14 minutes ago | (#47111493)
ItÃ(TM)s a standard frustrated angry geeky guy manifesto, except for the part about mass murder.
The underlying theme "Why don't girls like nice guys?" Is not limited to "geeks". I've heard plenty of teenagers and 20 something guys say that. The reality is, it's no different than women whining about what Men prefer in women. The difference this time is some moron thought it was justification for randomly killing people
Misogyny, Entitlement, and [other classifier] (1)
jeffb (2.718) (1189693) | 14 minutes ago | (#47111499)
So, while the main threads of this discussion will certainly have no trouble sustaining combustion, what happens if we change the title to:
Misogyny, Entitlement, and Muslims
Misogyny, Entitlement, and Hispanics
Misogyny, Entitlement, and The 1%
Is it still open season on Nerds? Will I not get in trouble for binding "those people" to Nerds, as opposed to Blacks, or Jews, or... ?
I don't know why /. keeps posting this tripe. (2)
spads (1095039) | 14 minutes ago | (#47111503)
All I can say, is learn to think for yourself, see what makes sense to you, do your best to comport yourself in a reasonable way, all things considered.
Heraclitus: Latent structure is master of obvious structure.
Neil Young: There's more to the picture, than meets the eye, hey-hey, my-my.
Andersen: The Emperor has no clothes!
rediculous parents to blame (1)
ctime (755868) | 13 minutes ago | (#47111505)
Children who grow up without siblings (ie compeition for parents time) seem to be particularly narrisistic and useless when combined with overbearing and coddling parents. Those
Re:rediculous parents to blame (1)
RobinH (124750) | 2 minutes ago | (#47111671)
Wow (2)
Poorcku (831174) | 13 minutes ago | (#47111507)
Doesn't apply at all (0)
Anonymous Coward | 13 minutes ago | (#47111513)
Even by geek standards, this guy was a schmuck.
More importantly, he was in therapy pretty much his entire life. How did California miss that when giving him a gun license? (even though he killed a number of people with a knife and his car)
In the words of Chris Rock, what ever happened to crazy?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v... [youtube.com]
"When I was a kid, they used to separate the crazy kids from everybody."
Not a bad idea.
idiocy (-1)
Anonymous Coward | 13 minutes ago | (#47111515)
The entire premise of the article is bullshit. Everything is a two-way street.
Another low-quality "article" on /.
This is BULLSHIT (-1)
Anonymous Coward | 12 minutes ago | (#47111517)
Personally, I think it's our culture's way of continuing to tease and make fun of "nerds" (of which there's a big difference between "Nerds" and "Geeks").
In this context, Nerds are pathetic, (usually) smart, ugly, socially ignorant and *always* panned by every other clique ... and are almost always boys.
I believe the stories are intentionally written, so that we can get a kick out of the pathetic attempts of these people to "win love", but more importantly, to laugh at their social awkwardness. It's no fun to write a story where one Nerd falls in love with another. It's more fun to watch them ignorantly pursue non-Nerds, with one gaffe after another, we collectively laugh at their un-known embarrassment.
While many of these gags, when looking at the collective body of 30 years of movies, will show misogynistic situations (which I'm 100% sure are true), I believe the true intention is to bully this group and maintain a clique of social outcasts for decades to come.
While I've always been a GEEK, being athletic and having *some* social skills, has kept me out of the NERD category. There was a time when starring at a computer screen, far removed from physical, social contact was considered geeky. After many decades of being a GEEK, I look around to see everyone is now doing it and I often mutter the word "GEEK" or "NERDS".
You know what'll help? (1)
kruach aum (1934852) | 12 minutes ago | (#47111523)
Telling people who feel like Elliot Rodger that they're not a victim. This will help because 1) they'll believe it, and 2) believing it will solve their issues with reality.
Or perhaps not.
Perhaps it will simply fuel their hatred even more, because now they're even having the reality of their emotions denied, as if they're somehow defective in that respect too.
Assigning victims and victimizers here is completely irrelevant to finding out what's actually wrong with this situation, and how to fix it.
Re:You know what'll help? (1)
kick6 (1081615) | 6 minutes ago | (#47111623)
Telling people who feel like Elliot Rodger that they're not a victim. This will help because 1) they'll believe it, and 2) believing it will solve their issues with reality. Or perhaps not. Perhaps it will simply fuel their hatred even more, because now they're even having the reality of their emotions denied, as if they're somehow defective in that respect too. Assigning victims and victimizers here is completely irrelevant to finding out what's actually wrong with this situation, and how to fix it.
Nothing would have helped him. He was CONVINCED that women were a certain way, and that they wanted certain things from men. Certain things he possessed. What made him furious is that he was COMPLETELY AND UTTERLY WRONG, and this is quite obvious in his fury at the men getting what he wanted from women that didn't offer those women any of the things he was certain they wanted - and he was willing to offer. He was unwilling to see the reality of how people actually are because his entire ego was based on the pretty lies that most of society has told us about how people "should be." At best, getting him to see the truth would have pushed him to suicide.
Why Print the Killer's Name? (0)
Anonymous Coward | 11 minutes ago | (#47111535)
When we print and publicize the names of killers, we inadvertently elevate them and encourage others to imitate their actions. Why give them the glory of infamy? We can just call him "the gunman" of the particular tragedy.
ectremism (0)
Anonymous Coward | 11 minutes ago | (#47111545)
begets more extremism. #yesallwomen have to deal with a culture that extols misogyny as a core value of society. this is a welcome discussion that we should all have, but it doesn't help to lump mass groups of people into stereotypes. maybe in this discussion we should be talking about motivations, triggers, root causes, nature vs nurture rather than simplifying things by blaming large groups of people.
by lumping people into stereotypes we are creating defensiveness and retaliation that does nothing to help the cause. i understand that its easier to point the finger at people rather than at root causes, but with out addressing the root causes how can we alter the way society thinks
No. Just No. (0)
Anonymous Coward | 11 minutes ago | (#47111549)
painting people with the same brush... (0)
Anonymous Coward | 10 minutes ago | (#47111559)
Okay.. I don't even know what the fuck this story is about?
If some asshole geeks don't know how to treat other human beings with respect, why is that my problem?
I treat my fellow humans, male or female with the same level of respect.
This isn't about geeks vs non-geeks, this about people who were never taught how to act right in civil society.
So really, what the fuck does this has to do with "geek culture" or whatever the fuck that is supposed to be?
As for the writer, go fuck yourself.
WTF are you talkinga about? (0)
Anonymous Coward | 9 minutes ago | (#47111573)
WTF are you talking about?
Seriously! Did you get PW over the weekend or did your wife and mommy tuned in to a feminazi and washed your brain really-really hard?
Be happy you are a man. For f* sake, BE A MAN! I mean a gentleman and not a some idiotic gaveman or this "modern" girlish boy (almost faggot like) with serious issues etc.
Thank the gods women and men are not equal and are different! This why women are so lovable - they are not like men, they are opposite sex!
It's not about being a "nerd"... (2)
NitzJaaron (733621) | 8 minutes ago | (#47111583)
This guy was a complete a-hole, that's a given. He was also from a wealthy family and had a tremendous sense of entitlement. I'd venture that a good part of his misogyny has a basis in that upbringing and entitled lifestyle.
Let's leave the labels out of it and have a real discussion about mental health and social attitudes for a change.
some random freak shoots 4 men &2 women and bl (0)
Anonymous Coward | 8 minutes ago | (#47111591)
Some random freak shoots 4 men &2 women and blame goes to world's most men from especially from STEM fields. Only men are the problem ? Does it take only one hand to clap ? It is stupid articles like these which creates Elliot Rodgers and Valerie Solanas.
Don't know who paid this whiteknight enough money to write up such a pathetic script. Feminism is a business now which feeds lobbying groups. It destabilizes families, make society sick these days. Elliot Rodgers is a result of that.
I blame Anonymous Cowards (1)
WillAffleckUW (858324) | 8 minutes ago | (#47111597)
When we can all post online as AC and have TV shows like Tosh.0 and other animated shows where all the adult males are jerks and misogynistic, it's unrealistic to expect young men to think they aren't supposed to be the same.
That and the societal breakdown created by the Entitled Techies and their CEO golf buddies.
I'm assuming. (1)
tthomas48 (180798) | 7 minutes ago | (#47111605)
Assuming posting this on Slashdot was an attempt to prove verify the author's thesis. Bravo. The comment thread proves the veracity of everything he says.
Who on earth likes this sexist stuff? (0)
Anonymous Coward | 7 minutes ago | (#47111607)
Can we please avoid posting sexist drivel like this? If I want to be attacked for being my gender I would go over to SRS on reddit. I come here for tech news and this is inappropriate.
It's not "rape culture," it's immaturity. (1)
B33rNinj4 (666756) | 6 minutes ago | (#47111625)
Chu's certainly up on his current events... (1)
bwcbwc (601780) | 5 minutes ago | (#47111629)
but his history is pretty weak. Up until the rise of the internet in the '90s (or possibly the "Weird Science"/"Revenge of the Nerds" era in the 1980s), nerds/geeks/otaku were right up there with gays, women and ethnic/religious minorities for being bullied, harassed and abused by the crueler edges of the mainstream. And this kind of harassment still goes on in certain areas/communities - try being a geek in a gang-ridden slum sometime.
That certainly doesn't justify a nerd perpetuating the cycle of abuse onto women or any of the other groups. But it does mean that there are better ways to engage the "nerd community" than by claiming that they aren't the subjects of abuse themselves.
Female rape culture is bullshit (0)
Anonymous Coward | 4 minutes ago | (#47111647)
Who is responsible for their own actions? (0)
Anonymous Coward | 4 minutes ago | (#47111649)
Glass ceiling = not taking responsibility for our own lives and actions and always blaming others.
This is why nerd/geek girls are in such demand. They dont act like their crotch should get them a job and they have the brains to back it up.
They are the ones at the cons wearing elaborate costumes rather than the typical wannabe with her tights and cape that took all of 30 minutes to put together. Not everyone has to be a slutty superhero for the con.
Stop whining that you got groped at a con while wearing an outfit that would make satan blush.
I don't think 'nerds' are capable of rape... (0)
Anonymous Coward | 4 minutes ago | (#47111657)
What is this bullshit? Why is he talking about "us", how dare he try to include ALL men in this rubbish. Perhaps he needs to find better friends?
rape culture? (1)
Killall -9 Bash (622952) | 3 minutes ago | (#47111667)
Here's what rape culture is: women are many times more likely to get raped by someone they know, but they want to blame ALL MEN. That's your fucking "rape culture".
Nerds are the bad guys now? LOL! Give me a break.
Yes, there is much misogyny in nerd culture, and I am proud of it. Women have in the past, and CONTINUE to reject *authentic* nerds, and we are RIGHTLY angry about this.
I point out nerd authenticity, as there seems to be some confusion as to whether or not nerds are sexy now. They are not. What you think is nerd sexyness is hipster faggotry. Leonard on TBBT doesn't dress nerd, he dresses hipster.
Nerd culture is male, and to pretend geek girls actually exist is silly. Sure, you see chicks at conventions; Damaged girls looking for attention and/or whores trying to get their hands into your geeky wallet.
*REAL* geek girls only exist if you modify the meaning of the word. Is someone obsessed with Korean soap operas a geek? Is a polyglot a geek? Is someone obsessed with knitting a geek? No, no, and GOD NO.
The correct term is Pathological Narcissist. (1)
LWATCDR (28044) | 1 minute ago | (#47111681)
Really people you have it backwards the cause was no misogyny that is a symptom.
If this guy had been gay he would have hated men that did not want to sleep with him.
If this person had been a straight woman she would have hated men that would not sleep with her.
If this person had been a gay woman she would have hated women that would not sleep with her.
They key here is Narcissist. It is selfishness taken to a pathological level. People like that hate those that do not give them what they want.
Let's do the math. (0)
Anonymous Coward | just now | (#47111701)
5 males and 2 females got killed.
Yeah, it's definitely a femalecentric problem.
Elliot Rodger was not a Nerd (1)
avandesande (143899) | just now | (#47111703)
Nerds are passionate about things- ER didn't care about anything other than means to bolster his fragile constantly damaged ego.