lincoln squared

lazybibliophile replied to your post: Thinking about what it would be like if I and he decided he was my Boyfriend
YOU can still present as queer even if you have a bf. I ID’d as lesbian for a long time and then realised I was actually bi/pan w/ biphobia, & this was a big part of my problem - being seen as a straight when I’m not. Fuck that noise. You do you.

This is v v helpful. I think part of what’s worrying me is that I am already femme, therefore seen as straight, and so I feel like I have to work in order for people to even believe that i’m queer? Even within the community? So it’s like I’ve worked hard for that shit and I don’t want it to be ignored bc my boo is a man. But you’re right. I’m gonna keep doing me.