I've thought about how to respond to you as you seem to be beginning to wake up from the delusions the patriarchy programs into us from birth. PIV, by nature, is oppressive to women and one cannot consent to being oppressed. Witchwind expounds upon this concept here: http://witchwind.wordpress.com/2013/12/15/piv-is-always-rape-ok/

Men, by their very nature, are necrophilic. They fetishize disease, death, and misery. Look about at our destroyed planet, the endless stream of movies and music romanticizing violence against women, the common practice of BDSM (where men subjugate women). These are all a function of men. Look at the homicide rate, per capita, of men vs. women. I assure you that the instances of women committing these crimes is far lower (and almost all of them were likely self defense that got mischaracterized). Men are the spree killers who murder for fun or because a woman dares to question his authority, men are he rapists who will violate our bodies so they can defile us and take what they want. How is this nature not necrophilic? How can you argue that they don't cause the majority of the misery and death on this planet? How are they not toxic and necrophilic?

You claim that I am giving the MRA's what they want. I think that is your first mistake. You differentiate between men and MRA's. When one almost steps on a rattlesnake, they don't analyze it to determine if it's a Diamondback or a sidewinder. They don't search wikipedia to try and determine the venoms toxicity. They get away from it and maybe kill it with a shovel. While MRA's are certainly more violent and misogynistic than your normal male, the normal male is dangerous enough on his own. Getting free and isolating yourself from men's violence is the only solution.